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Vent about neighbor >:[

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My neighbor has a 13 year old son.  The son has a girlfriend, same age, I assume.  The neighbor boy and his girlfriend like to sit at the end of my driveway and make out with each other, as in, she is straddling him as he sits on the curb.  The worst part???  The girl's mom sits in her car in my driveway and plays on her IPhone while her 13 year old daughter has her legs wrapped around her boyfriend with his tongue down her throat.  It disgusts me.  I hate taking DS outside to play in the afternoon because I know they will be out there.  I don't understand the lack of self respect these teens have, and I definitely don't understand the mother allowing this to happen right in front of her.  Teach your daughter to respect herself enough not to grind her vagina all over her boyfriend in my yard, please! 

I finally knocked on her window yesterday because I just couldn't take it anymore.  DS wanted to play outside and he wanted to walk down the sidewalk, these kids were making out so hardcore, they couldn't even be bothered to move from laying on top of each other in the middle of the sidewalk for my toddler to go for a freaking walk.  I knocked on her window and said as politely as possible, "If you're going to let your child engage in these activities, I would really appreciate if you could do it on your own property so my toddler doesn't have to be subjected to it."  She just stared at me, said "Mind your business, my daughter can do whatever she wants" and rolled her window up on me.  The teens weren't even phased- still dry humping on the sidewalk.
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  • applejacks3232applejacks3232 member
    kathegreat said:
    Wow...sometimes talking to the kids themselves helps but if that doesn't I'd pull out the hose because they obviously need to cool off, if parents complain explain that you are simply preventing teen pregnancy :D
    I've said something to the kids before, they literally just completely act like I'm not even there, they can't hear me or see me.  I really am at my wit's end.  I asked DH if I could call the cops and he said that I can't because they aren't technically doing anything illegal-
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  • jenniejuniper1jenniejuniper1 member
    Ok, they're 13?? Jeez, I didn't have a good make-out sesh like that until I was closer to 17, and even then it was a hidden sneaky-time so our parents wouldn't see! What the hell. My mom would have taken the hose to us and worse, and she's a very, very liberal person! 

     I remember discovering boys and how awesome it was to start figuring out sexuality, but it's just not special when you're a preteen and you're grinding on the curb. Get a grip, you gross kids! 
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    applejacks3232 said:


    kathegreat said:

    Wow...sometimes talking to the kids themselves helps but if that doesn't I'd pull out the hose because they obviously need to cool off, if parents complain explain that you are simply preventing teen pregnancy :D

    I've said something to the kids before, they literally just completely act like I'm not even there, they can't hear me or see me.  I really am at my wit's end.  I asked DH if I could call the cops and he said that I can't because they aren't technically doing anything illegal-


    Trespassing? You asked them to leave and they didn't. You could call the non-emergency line and explain the situation and see if they'll come out.

    And ew! I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It's inappropriate to say the least.
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  • notreal2notreal2 member
    Yeah, trespassing for sure, especially since the mother sits in your driveway in her car. 


     

     

     

     

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    jenniejuniper1 said:
    Ok, they're 13?? Jeez, I didn't have a good make-out sesh like that until I was closer to 17, and even then it was a hidden sneaky-time so our parents wouldn't see! What the hell. My mom would have taken the hose to us and worse, and she's a very, very liberal person! 

     I remember discovering boys and how awesome it was to start figuring out sexuality, but it's just not special when you're a preteen and you're grinding on the curb. Get a grip, you gross kids! 

    See, that's what I'm saying!  I was 16 when I had my first kiss, and you better believe I never straddled any boyfriends in front of my parents.  They were not the "Don't have sex until your married" type either, it really makes me sad- be a kid, for goodness sake!  Don't waste your adolescence worrying sex! Ugh :(   There is plenty of time for that when you grow up! I hope my sons have more respect for themselves and for women than to treat their girlfriends like that.
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    shellbell3845 said:
    kathegreat said:
    Wow...sometimes talking to the kids themselves helps but if that doesn't I'd pull out the hose because they obviously need to cool off, if parents complain explain that you are simply preventing teen pregnancy :D
    I've said something to the kids before, they literally just completely act like I'm not even there, they can't hear me or see me.  I really am at my wit's end.  I asked DH if I could call the cops and he said that I can't because they aren't technically doing anything illegal-
    Trespassing? You asked them to leave and they didn't. You could call the non-emergency line and explain the situation and see if they'll come out. And ew! I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It's inappropriate to say the least.

    We live on base, so technically it's not our property, it's the government's :(:(
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  • MamaAllisonMamaAllison member
    Holy crap. That is gross.

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  • ashleyv013ashleyv013 member
    Surely there's some kind of public indecency rule they're breaking somewhere.  If not, I agree with the hose or the lawn mower...even a weed eater.  Or a leaf blower!!  If that were my daughter I would have dragged her back to the car by her ear...but that won't be my daughter because I would never sit in the car on my phone while she makes out...in a front yard...at 13.  I guess I'm old fashioned like that. 
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  • Beddy13Beddy13 member
    I say hose those horny little devils !!! Or go out there and give them a play by play about child birth .

    I can't believe the mother just letting her daughter do that . Have you spoken to the boys parents ?
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  • Beddy13Beddy13 member
    Also I would contact base police . That's offensive for your DS to see . They should move them along .
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  • Meghan14Meghan14 member
    FlightView said:
    Whoa! Not ok! I'd hose them too, or at least set up the sprinkler to wet the sidewalk.
    This was my 1st thought: Spray them down with the hose.  I think your phrasing was very appropriate.  That mother's reaction is crazy.  Look, at 17 or so, I'm not claiming I was above such behavior, but there is no way my PARENTS would have allowed it.  That's why teenagers need parents.  Well I guess that mother will enjoy taking care of her grandchild very soon. Maybe she'll be a parent to that one instead of a friend.

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  • jenniejuniper1jenniejuniper1 member
    I actually kept thinking about this post for a few hours after I commented - I mean, when I was 12 and 13 years old I was still wearing oversized t-shirts with cartoon characters on them, and my favorite thing in the world was my cat. I remember looking at boys from afar and thinking about them a lot, (and getting my first "learn about sex" book, lol) but I would have been too shy and awkward to even steal a kiss at that age. Sex and sexuality was something I was curious about but still kind of afraid of at that age.. like it was just too big and mysterious to think of myself as included in it quite yet. 

    I'm worried that a lot of really young kids these days are trying to "operate the machinery" without "reading the manual" first, if you know what I mean. Intimacy is a wonderful thing, but it makes me sad to think of kids feeling pressured to grow up so fast. 
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  • CodypupCodypup member
    I say you set up one of those sprinklers that waves back and forth, and angel it so it hits right where they're humping. If the mom gives you attitude, say "This is my property, lady. Sorry but not sorry."

    Is that a possibility? Or at the very least, about 30 minutes before they arrive, hose down the cement where they sit. They're not going to roll around on a wet surface, I don't think. 
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  • micaelasmakeupmicaelasmakeup member
    Omg, you guys are cracking me up.
    I love the making out with DH, but I would get down on the curb beside them! Whatever they do you do it too.
    The hose is a must, the leaf blower is genius, and a play by play of birth very loudly seems very good too!





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  • Mazingmommyof6Mazingmommyof6 member
    Just leave condoms out there sprinkled around in the Area where they make out..... With a little note " just say no" ..... That should embarrass the kids enough I would think.
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  • TM14.defunct635821369925797514TM14.defunct635821369925797514 member
    At 13, I was more concerned about books, and horseback riding, and buying nice things than making out...hose them down. This is so gross.
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    applejacks3232 said:


    kathegreat said:

    Wow...sometimes talking to the kids themselves helps but if that doesn't I'd pull out the hose because they obviously need to cool off, if parents complain explain that you are simply preventing teen pregnancy :D

    I've said something to the kids before, they literally just completely act like I'm not even there, they can't hear me or see me.  I really am at my wit's end.  I asked DH if I could call the cops and he said that I can't because they aren't technically doing anything illegal-


    I guess the kids chose the hose then. Foolish children, never underestimate the deviousness of a mama bear and hormonal pregnant ladies.
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    applejacks3232 said:
    shellbell3845 said:
    kathegreat said:
    Wow...sometimes talking to the kids themselves helps but if that doesn't I'd pull out the hose because they obviously need to cool off, if parents complain explain that you are simply preventing teen pregnancy :D
    I've said something to the kids before, they literally just completely act like I'm not even there, they can't hear me or see me.  I really am at my wit's end.  I asked DH if I could call the cops and he said that I can't because they aren't technically doing anything illegal-
    Trespassing? You asked them to leave and they didn't. You could call the non-emergency line and explain the situation and see if they'll come out. And ew! I'm sorry you have to deal with that. It's inappropriate to say the least.

    We live on base, so technically it's not our property, it's the government's :(:(
    Can you contact the housing manager?  I manage government housing (civilian, not military though) and I guarantee you I would be getting a call- not saying I could do much, but I'd report it to the local manager to deal with.  It certainly would be embarrassing for the commanding officer to have to say something to the parents about this.  Gross.

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  • KTdiditKTdidit member
    Have you gone next door and talked to the boy's parents? I'm guessing that the reason they are in YOUR driveway and not in his or at his house is because his parents aren't having it. If they don't leave, I'd resort to the sprinkler, maybe some incredibly bad, incredibly loud music playing out the window, and calling the police.
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    If they can't hear you maybe an air horn would get their attention!
          
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  • Tally06Tally06 member
    Turn on the sprinklers!
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  • applejacks3232applejacks3232 member

    Thanks for the laughs, ladies!  My DH keeps telling me not to call, that's it's not our business, but he's also not the one home with the toddler who wants to go play outside!  I like the sprinkler idea :) 
    I haven't talked to the boys parents, honestly, because I've never even seen them except for getting in their car to go to work.  I would just go knock on their door, but I figured trying to talk to the mom who was right there would do the trick- wrong!

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  • ShePersistedShePersisted member
    ZAngel said:

    I would break out my phone and start filming the kids.  Then I would walk over to the mother and ask her (on camera) why she feels it's okay to sit and watch her 13 year old daughter dry hump some other kid in front of a random house.  Watch her get all pissed off and let her know the video's going on You Tube.  Tell her she will be the next media sensation for being worst mother of the year. :lol:

    Lol you are hard core. I think that would be me as well.

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  • Amyjoy1972Amyjoy1972 member
    Call the police tell them two kids are dry humping on the lawn.
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  • cksmith29cksmith29 member
    Oh my god, I couldn't even get past the age. 13???? My oldest is 13 and she told me yesterday that she would pee her pants if a boy even tried to put his arm around her.

    Ok on to your problem. Play really loud oldies music or children's music. They'll hate it and have to leave. Bad music is a mood killer. I would assume even for 13 year olds???
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  • KaraLeigh115KaraLeigh115 member
    edited November 2013
    Ok so my hubs is MP and he said you could still call on tresspassing but they aren't doing anything illegal. But then you could possibly say they were loitering* too.... Girl he even mentioned the sprinkler idea and letting tht get them because you were just trying to water your yard but blatantly spraying them with a hose could he considered assault. I think it's stupid but no need to go to jail. I second the condom idea or making out next to them. Nobody wants to see that. Especially at 13. Go climb a damn tree or go to the mall or even the movies!!!!
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