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Sex question. TMI WARNING.

Rachel71189Rachel71189 member
in April 2014 Moms
TMI I know. But does anyone else feel horny and just do it their selves instead of waiting for hubby. He won't want to until like 11 at night and I'm sorry but that too late. So I've been taking care of myself while he's at work. But I feel guilty. 15 wks.
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  • MandTBMandTB member
    I have been doing the same thing.  Mostly because I get annoyed really quickly when things dont go smoothly and sometimes he is so focused on himself, that its just easier to do it this way.  I know it's probably not the best way...but it satisfies... 
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  • acrookstonacrookston member
    I was like that with my first pregnancy ... Not really with this one.

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  • Soon2bStaffSoon2bStaff member
    edited October 2013
    It hasn't gotten to that point yet with me but you might as well go on and take care of yourself!! ;) But since this is a TMI conversation, Do you mind if I piggyback off of that with something that's been going on for a few weeks now?

    Again, this is TMI too but I don't know if it's normal just because I'm pregnant!! I have noticed that my orgasms are seriously nothing like they used to be... I'm not sure how it would be connected, especially since it's supposed to increase blood flow down there but… Could pregnacy decrease the sensation of an orgasm?? :\">. :\">. :\">

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  • sayysayy13sayysayy13 member

    same here! ill just do it myself if hubbys isent around or if im annoyed and sick of waiting for him lol

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  • joyfullyfoundjoyfullyfound member
    Soon2bStaff said:
    It hasn't gotten to that point yet with me but you might as well go on and take care of yourself!! ;) But since this is a TMI conversation, Do you mind if I piggyback off of that with something that's been going on for a few weeks now? Again, this is TMI too but I don't know if it's normal just because I'm pregnant!! I have noticed that my orgasms are seriously nothing like they used to be... I'm not sure how it would be connected, especially since it's supposed to increase blood flow down there but… Could pregnacy decrease the sensation of an orgasm?? :\">. :\">. :\"> Edit to add my blushing faces.. Ehh
    My orgasms aren't as intense either. They're still great, but not the same. It was like this when I was pregnant with DD too. I have no idea why. 

    Any IMO there ain't no shame in taking care of yourself when the mood arises and DH's not available. Zero guilt here. 

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  • cd92007cd92007 member
    Mine are more intense!

    And here is a REALLY major TMI sex related issue/question.... when we have sex, sometimes it feels like I have to poop. It's sooo annoying! I'm sure it has something to do with me being so constipated and him "pushing" on my insides. Anyone else have this issue????
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  • Rachel71189Rachel71189 member
    I think it's because we have poop in the area behind where we are having sex and sometimes it just feels like it's being pushed around lol it's weird but I know what feeling
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  • ckred27ckred27 member
    I like both with and without DH, and make sure I get both often now that Im out of the first trimester morning sickness craziness :)

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  • sking72sking72 member
    I'm not gonna lie, I do it myself almost every night before I go to bed, helps me sleep. Unless SO is here. Except for one time... Haha. I'm a regular horn dog and pregnancy hasn't changed that a bit
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  • nicole mackenzienicole mackenzie member
    My DH likes morning sex, which is when I feel like crap and have morning breath. I prefer night time sex... So yeah I do the job myself a lot. ( b4 pregnancy and now that my libido is coming back )
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  • natpirtnatpirt member
    sking72 I am the same way!  I get myself off to help me fall asleep lately. It has actually been awhile for me and him. Our schedules are way off this days. But we actually had some time away from everybody and thing while out and about today. we kissed and had to tell him if we didn't stop we were so in trouble...lol. We are so trying to "get busy this weekend". 


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  • spano41spano41 member
    I wish I had that problem...I have no desire. Poor DH!
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  • loveyoga7loveyoga7 member
    Mine are more intense and I reach orgasm a lot sooner.
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  • nenner81nenner81 member
    I don't see anything wrong with getting yourself off! My other-half doesn't want to touch me at all (but it's because I am a high-risk pregnancy) so it's either that or just be angy-horny all the time. After Monday (I have a cerclage scheduled) I am suppose to refrain from sexual activities and I don't know how I am going to manage! Mind-blowing orgasms are the best things ever and it seems they just intensify while pregnant... oh how I will miss you! Lol.
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  • tcwinktcwink member
    Mine are extremely intense! It almost scared me the first time;). And I haven't had to "satisfy" myself cuz I've been too tired. I'd rather hubby do all the work;).
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  • etr152517etr152517 member
    I don't have the problem of being in the mood and my husband not being home because the only time I'm feeling up to it is in the middle of the night after a sex dream. I've been waking him up at 2am to have a little fun ;)
    And in response to the question about orgasms, pre-pregnancy I could have more than one but now things are WAY too intense after one that I can't handle any more touching. At. All.
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