July 2013 Moms
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Nervous kid related but NBR
jennipalmer
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I reported my ex to CPS. I stand by my choice but I am nervous he will become an A$$ again. We have joint custody and when my two are at his house there are a total of 5 kids with a 6 on the way in a 3 bedroom home. I have taken him to court for that and having kids without seat belts but judge says not a reason to give him less custody, to call CPS. So, they converted garage and have 3 eldest in there including my DD. The concern is it is unsafe, I am really not trying to be the witch ex wife. Just recently in this area an elderly woman died because they didn't do proper conversion.
I reported anonymously but just wanted...I don't know maybe reassurance. He has always made me feel inadequate and after leaving him and therapy my therapist just recommends no major interaction. However this could not be ignored.
I reported anonymously but just wanted...I don't know maybe reassurance. He has always made me feel inadequate and after leaving him and therapy my therapist just recommends no major interaction. However this could not be ignored.
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Re: Nervous kid related but NBR
In my opinion, you're looking out for the best interest of your children. It's not personal. If anyone were putting your child in those conditions you would do the same thing, it's not exclusive to him.
You're their mom and that means you're their advocate. I think you did the right thing.
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