Community› The Bump Month Clubs› July 2012 Moms
July 2012 Moms
New Discussion

I've been MIA! ETA PIP Wedding

lilahbean13lilahbean13 member
edited October 2013 in July 2012 Moms
I feel bad that I have not been on here in the last week or more. I know I have missed a lot so I will try and catch up!
My brother (who had a baby 6 months before we had Cooper) caught his wife cheating on him last week. He was completely blindsided. He works non stop all day and night to be able to provide for her (she does not work and gets her nails/pedi/hair/massage WEEKLY while driving her fancy brand new cadillac-not cleaning or cooking or doing laundry either) 
He found out that she had been getting money from him (my brother) for Dr,'s appointments and lying about how much the appointments were so the extra money she was using to buy new dude clothes and cologne and even took him to dallas for a weekend while my brother was working out of town. Needless to say it has been a VERY PAINFUL week. I have hurt so bad for him in a huge way. I've never ever liked his wife so I am glad she is gone but I hurt deeply for my brother and his son. 
Also this weekend was my sister n laws fancy wedding! I do not have a picture of the dress I finally decided to wear but I will post it as soon as she gets her pics back! It turned out awesome and I was introduced to Spanx this weekend. I feel so enlightened and like I have been missing out on the whole new world of tight lifted hineys lol 
Thyroid medicine still isnt working that great-still sleepy a lot and not pregnant (we've pretty much been trying since May) So that's what has been going on with me. I am going to fall in to the world of the Bump for the remainder of my work day and see what all my little intrawebbly friends have been up to 

My MIL just sent me this pic of me and her. This is the GB dress that I wore. I borrowed it from my MIL and SIL approved. THANK GOD !!! I am on the left and I don't know why my legs look SO awkward. 

imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
Report Reply to Post

Re: I've been MIA! ETA PIP Wedding

  • lilahbean13lilahbean13 member
    edited October 2013
    bellaxanthe said:

    I was literally just thinking about you and where you were today.  I'm sorry about your brother. That sucks. Perhaps if he can prove infidelity though she hopefully won't get a penny from him.

    Spanx are awesome.

    He has plenty of proof and also has her admitting it on tape. I just hate that he is going through this. He is so innocent and naive and just purely sweet. Ahhh Is murder still illegal???? I hate her! (kidding of course about the murder...) 


    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • lewispmlewispm member
    Geez that is terrible for your brother. Glad to have you back, though!

    image

    image

                                                                  

     

    Report Reply
  • lilahbean13lilahbean13 member
    Meow84 said:
    Wow, that is terrible. I just don't understand how some people are capable of so much hurt and destruction to their family.

    I must've missed the thyroid thing -- were you diagnosed with an under/over thyroid?
    It was hyper. I had trouble gaining weight and was always tired. The weight is back but i am EXHAUSTED, They just upped my dose so I hope it helps. I was having a period like every other week but they put me on a hormone that ahs straightened that out, 
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • lilahbean13lilahbean13 member
    edited October 2013
    I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. That's awful.

    I also love Spanx! I wore them at my brother's wedding a few weeks ago and loved how they sucked everything in.

    I'm sorry you're having trouble getting knocked up. Have you been charting and all that fun stuff? I have my fingers crossed you get your BFP really soon!
    No I havent started charting soon I am thinking the beginning of November I will. I don't know how long to TTC on our own before we ask the Dr for help. I am new to this because our first was a WOOPSIES! 

    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • lilahbean13lilahbean13 member
    Meow84 said:
    lilahbean13 said:
    Meow84 said:
    Wow, that is terrible. I just don't understand how some people are capable of so much hurt and destruction to their family.

    I must've missed the thyroid thing -- were you diagnosed with an under/over thyroid?
    It was hyper. I had trouble gaining weight and was always tired. The weight is back but i am EXHAUSTED, They just upped my dose so I hope it helps. I was having a period like every other week but they put me on a hormone that ahs straightened that out, 
    Oh, good that they figured out what was going on and they are treating it! I remember my doctor saying that having a baby can throw your thyroid all out of whack.
    They are so right. My body is all out of whack!! 
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • lilahbean13lilahbean13 member

    kimmer1412 said:
    Do we have the same ex- SIL? The same thing happened to my brother but thankfully no children involved. I am sorry that your family is dealing with this, I know the pain. I hope things get better for your brother. Cant wait to see the pics from the wedding. 
    So you definitely know what we are all going through. It is terrible. I keep thinking of the moment he drove by and saw her car at this guys house (WITH HIS SON INSIDE TOO) . My hear just drops and I cry every time. I don't want him to ever feel pain. He is in shock so I hope that I am feeling his pain for him. 
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • bumpuser1509193bumpuser1509193 member
    What a psycho bitch!!! You look HOT is that dress. Hope all your medical stuff gets sorted out and you get ktfu soon.
    "Parenting is a constant struggle between making your kid's live better and ruining your own." Willie Robertson, 'Duck Dynasty'
    Anniversary IMAG1763 Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • pinkangelmoonpinkangelmoon member
    I'm so sorry your brother and family are going through that!

    Glad you found a dress, you and your MIL look gorgeous!
    Report Reply
  • lilahbean13lilahbean13 member
    andreab7412 said:
    I hear Cajun makes some voodoo dolls. Seriously what a horrible situation. Your poor brother. You look hot!! Tell your body to start behaving!
    Maybe she can make one for me then lol I need some relief and at this point I am so mad that her being in pain would make me happy! BRING ON THE NEEDLES!!! 
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • lilahbean13lilahbean13 member
    Thank yall for your sweet comments about the dress. I love Spanx and spray tans  
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • breanniebreannie member
    Ugh, I am so sorry that happened to your brother. Super shitty.

    You look great!
    image

     
    Report Reply
  • elizdgelizdg member
    Ugh, sorry to hear about your family drama. You look gorgeous though!
    image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • nicolepatricia87nicolepatricia87 member
    What a crappy situation with your brother! I'm so sorry! You look amazing in that picture tho!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
  • lada85lada85 member
    I'm so sorry from your brother and his son. You look stunning girl!
    Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    Report Reply
  • aylafsu88aylafsu88 member
    You look gorgeous!  I am sorry about your brother.  What a horrible thing to do to both him and his son.  I hope that your brother moves on and find someone who treats him better.
    Report Reply
  • ashleynakaashleynaka member
    Just catching up and saw your beautiful pic! So very sorry to hear about your brother.
    Visit The Nest
    AnniversaryBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker 



    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"