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Having a pitty party!

trayle01trayle01 member
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I am totally oop again for ivf #2. Thanks to the wonderful govt shutdown that just occurred I'm now having to wait till Jan/Feb before starting ivf #2. We had to use some of our savings for bills and now trying to put back what we used. I feel like everyday that goes by is a day I should be pregnant already. I'm 35 soon to be 36 with poa. I'm totally panicked that I'm running out of time. Sorry for the rant. I have kept my IF issues from most of my family and my friends are all super fertile. I have a gorgeous DD but so badly want one more. I feel like you ladies are the only ones who would understand. Want to join my pitty party? Cookies for reading! !
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  • MommaInNCMommaInNC member

    I'll join you :)  I'm really sorry, that's so frustrating.  I hope things work out to where you're able to start sooner. 

    I completely understand the way you're feeling.  We're waiting to cycle again until like March/April/May (start BCP in March, transf estimated for May).  Its an ETERNITY.  We could cycle again in Jan, but likely won't for many reasons. 

    Hang in there!

    B/G twins born 3.22.11
    TTC #3
    M/C 10.26.13 @ 6w2d
     
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  • mrsgabusmrsgabus member
    I will join you in pity party. I have currently met my deductible but by the time I get all my tests done and see a genetics doctor it will be the new year.

    I am so sorry, and I hope things start to happen soon

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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Ugh. Money. Pass me a cookie.

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • AlmostWrightAlmostWright member

    I will join you! I am with you on figuring everything out after the government shutdown, and I won't be getting retro pay as a contractor either. I just hope it doesn't happen again. I feel like I have to choose whether to save for another shutdown or pay for IVF.

    DS born Jan 2010

    TTC#2 since Nov 2010 with breaks for DH cancer tx (remission!)

    Tube with hydro removed Feb 2013

    BFP 11/11/13 IUI#2 clomid+trigger+prometrium

    Beta #1 14dpIUI=106; Beta #2 16dpIUI=287; Beta #3 20dpIUI=1158

    5w6d 1 hb 109 and 2nd smaller sac; 7w0d 1 hb 125 and confirmed vanishing twin

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Jen071407 said:
    Ugh. Money. Pass me a cookie.
    Ditto, but hit me with two. 



      


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  • trayle01trayle01 member
    edited October 2013
    Ditto AlmostWright!! It's either save for another possible shutdown or go for ivf in Jan. We're going fo it with fx crossed this doesn't happen again grrrr! Thanks for understanding ladies. I really appreciate it.
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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member

     

    freakyfast said:
    Jen071407 said:
    Ugh. Money. Pass me a cookie.
    Ditto, but hit me with two. 

    Bloated and crampy from AF, stressed about money, and pissed at my empty ute like usual, so I would like a pity party cookie too please.  Or a brownie.  With chocolate chunks.  And maybe some ice cream.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • chusumchusum member
    CheesyPeas said:

     

    freakyfast said:
    Jen071407 said:
    Ugh. Money. Pass me a cookie.
    Ditto, but hit me with two. 

    Bloated and crampy from AF, stressed about money, and pissed at my empty ute like usual, so I would like a pity party cookie too please.  Or a brownie.  With chocolate chunks.  And maybe some ice cream.
    Someone said ice cream, I'm in.

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    Married August 9, 2008
    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

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