January 2014 Moms

Heads are 'bout to roll...

My SIL is driving me batty. She doesn't realize HOW spoiled she is and seems to believe DH is getting more 'stuff' from their parents than she is. She's been going on and on about "some people will never get off of mommy and daddy's paycheck".... they offered to buy us a CAR SEAT. Which we turned down because we both felt that that was too much (they've already contributed a lot to the cause). SIL is 20 and living at home and has a raging bitch fit every time her mother insists she clean her room (It's DISGUSTING) and seems to believe that her boyfriend should be allowed to spend nights and join them every night for dinner (they go out a lot and they always pay because they'd rather avoid the screaming tantrum they'd have to endure if they didn't: "But you pay for THEM" (DH and I when we were visiting for four days). There's a reason why we only go to my in-laws once or twice a year. I usually become the mediator between the two whether I like it or not. 
My MIL is amazing, a little needy with DH (he's a major mamma's boy) but she is so sweet and absolutely hates the thought of possibly being an inconvenience or whenever someone is 'mad' at her hence why her daughter has been allowed to have her way for years and now that she's being told no for the first time (mainly concerning the boyfriend), she is becoming more and more unbearable. 

There's no real point to this, just a pity party for my MIL :( she had food poisoning last time we were home (about a month ago) and my baby shower was the next day (she refused to cancel, luckily it was just family so she was able to sneak off for a nap) and this happened right after her back surgery. Mama doesn't need this crap from her own daughter. I wish I could throttle this child and make her see what an ungrateful, self-entitled, shrew she is. She constantly talks badly about DH and how he's a little suck up- because he treats their parents with common decency?! Because he makes sure he calls at least twice a week just to chat? He's only a year older, how did these two kids grow up in the same house and become such different people?

To summarize my feelings toward my SIL, I bring you this-

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Re: Heads are 'bout to roll...

  • RedSaffronRedSaffron member
    edited October 2013
    Do it!
    ETA: oh I'm sorry raging hormones, but DO IT now because we are allowed to get crazy and blame it on hormones ;)
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  • I can't stand my brother in law. He is effing psychotic and no good.
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  • I completely forgot, they're paying for college, her food, rent- things you take for granted unless you're paying for them basically. She's on her sixth car because she keeps deciding she hates the one she has and just QUIT her job because she 'never got off on time and worked every weekend'.... 

    Anyone else need to vent about anything in your life? Scream, cry, help burying a body....


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  • Ugg, people like that drive me crazy. But so do people like your MIL. She needs to grow some balls and deal with her crazy daughter. Its like girls/guys who go out with losers who treat them like crap, but just put up with it. I feel sorry for them for a little while, then just get frustrated with them! 

    I do tend to find younger siblings (no offence to all of the younger siblings!!) can be a little more demanding/spoilt. You should see my little sisters... lovely girls, but they just have no idea about life.
  • This sounds familiar! My SIL will be 30 in December and still lives at home doesn't have a job, doesn't pay rent, doesn't contribute to groceries.. Her parents pay for her education AND she JUST got her drivers licence!! She never took the bus though, because that's for suckers. She has her dad drive her everywhere!
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