August 2013 Moms

Night crew checkin

LO has been asleep since 8....wtf mind let me go to sleep too! I'm exhausted and I'm lying here with a million things running through my head. :(
I hope everyone else has good sleeping babies tonight.

QOTN: (inspired by Blonder's thread) what are you most proud of yourself for as a parent? Not limited to one thing...be proud and brag away!

Re: Night crew checkin

  • Just about to put LO down for the night. We had a great night tonight. Makes it just a little easier that I don't see her during the day.

    QOTN- I'm probably most proud that she's growing so well and it's all coming from the milk I produce. I'm very thankful that BFing has worked for us, and I don't dare take it for granted.
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  • QOTN: I'm proud that I'm so in tune with LO...I know her every move and sound and can calm her in seconds.
    I'm proud I've been successful at BFing.
    I'm proud I've been able to become a morning person.
    I'm proud that despite having FTM fears I feel like I've navigated the newborn stage really well on my own (well, with DH's help).
  • Gave LO a bath about an hour ago and since then she's been passed out on my/DH's chest.  I've noticed that she is starting to get into her own routine and falling asleep around 10 or so, and it's usually on my chest.  She wakes up when I am getting up to go to bed, and then she wants to eat, so I'm thinking that I should be putting her into bed when she falls asleep instead of letting her sleep on me, and seeing how long she will sleep!  Maybe if she isn't bothered, she will sleep right through her 11:30-12:00 feeding! 

    QOTN:  I'm proud that even though we have had some minor struggles, that I am still breastfeeding.  Those first few weeks were tough, and I never in a million years thought that there was any way I'd be able to continue through the pain, and the cluster feeding, and everything else.  I kept reading that at 6 weeks it would feel easier, and at 8 weeks it would feel even easier yet, and even though I thought I would NEVER hit those milestones, I am almost at 9 weeks and it is much easier than it was at the beginning! We still have a ways to go before I am totally comfortable and confident, but I'm proud I made it this far. :)

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  • Laying in bed while fi is doing the last feed.. I can't get my mind to turn off.

    Qotn- I'm proud that I am sah with her. I know many moms would love to be able to have the opportunity to, but it wasn't an "easy" choice for me. For so long I found so much worth in myself fr working and making money, that I didn't understand how I could find worth from being home with her everyday. There was a time when I had a full on break down because I didn't find myself "strong enough" to stay home with her because I felt like I couldn't do anything right. I told myself to stick it out until November, and then decide to try and find employment or not. I have decided to sah until we move back to our hometown in April and it is something I'm proud of. I wanted to run away back to employment when things got hard with her, and now I'm glad I didn't just give up when it got tough.
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  • Well DH "the baby whisperer" rocked lo to sleep at 7:30. We then were able to carve pumpkins with DS1. Now I'm rocking lo back to sleep.

    QOTN: I am proud that I had both boys naturally. I am proud that bf again has come easily, so hopefully I'll have two strong boys. I'm proud they are both happy guys, with lots of smiles and giggles. And I'm proud to have taught DS1 to be affectionate, and despite our struggles with him, proud to see all the leaps he has taken with language & learning. I am proud to love them so fiercely.
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  • Little one just went down for the night.... I am so proud of her because she was pretty awake when I put her down, but she was out in five minutes flat with no fussing (this is rare).

    I am most proud that I have the patience I do. I think pretty well on my feet and soothe her despite how upset she is, mind you it's usually with a bottle, but if it works I am happy!

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  • West Coast, and we're not down for the night yet. They said things would get easier at 6 weeks, then they said 3 months. Well, we're past both of those and it's not much easier. Maybe by 6 months...

    I am proud that I have been able to BF successfully this far. No one in my family has ever BF. I feel like a pioneer. And I can walk an nurse at the same time, so I also feel like a ninja.

    Also, I am proud if the fact I can interpret most of Dd's cries and body language. I know when she's tired, gassy, wet, hungry, etc. just by listening or looking at her.
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  • Just feeding LO and going to put her down (10pm here). Hopefully she has a long stretch tonight.

    I'm proud of BF this long. With DS I couldn't.. This time I tried sooooo hard and it's been successful. I'm proud of how patient I can be with two kids. It's totally hard but I've learned how to deal with both kids MOST of the time. I'm proud of how much both my children have grown, DS is an independent little dude and LO is changing so much everyday
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  • I got my IUD in today. I don't know why I'm excited about it, but I am. LO slept through the whole appointment, thank god. Doctor's appointments with a baby are stressful.
    I'm just pumping quickly before bed. LO has been asleep for 2 hours already, I should probably go do the same.

    QOTN: 
    I'm proud of my ability to BF. I've had issues with my breasts in the past and I was terrified I wouldn't be able to. I definitely don't take it for granted.
    I'm proud of how well I function on so little sleep.
    I'm proud that at the end of each day I can say we both survived it.
    I'm so proud of this beautiful little life that I brought into this world. What an amazing thing my, and all of our bodies have done.

    I wish I could say I was proud of more...

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  • Trying to adjust LO's bedtime to earlier than his normal 11-12. It's 10PM and he's in the bassinet, so far so good...

    Qotd: I'm proud that I make myself get out of the house several times a week for my sanity. Also proud that I registered for a dedicated mom's group for babies born in July, August and September. Its like TB, but with less BSC.

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  • Home from work, LO and DH out like lights. I moved LO into her Snugglenest as DH was holding her to help her sleep. So far so good. Hoping she has a good night like last night...She slept from 11 to 2:30, then from 3 to 8a....Momma was THRILLED...My plan is to take a hot bath, read some Game of Thrones, then into bed....tomorrow is my Friday...and I am ready for it to be over..

    QOTN - I am proud that I have been a successful BFer. My MIL and mom both did not BF DH and myself. Though every tells me she is not getting enough on just BM, I know she is thriving. 
    I am proud of how I have managed to survive the newborn stage. It was hard, but we came through fine with no family to help us.
    I am proud of my DH and how much he has stepped into the daddy role. He melts my heart when he snuggles LO and she snuggles him right back.
    I am proud on how I can bite my tongue when people give unsolicited advice...I was never one to keep my mouth shut before
    I am proud how I can still function and be pleasant on only 3hrs of sleep 
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  • Also proud that I registered for a dedicated mom's group for babies born in July, August and September. Its like TB, but with less BSC.

    @turtlemomma Just wondering if your group is online or in person?
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  • Cookie baking day for me. The last of my spider and skulls came out of the oven and I'm excited to frost them all tomorrow morning. Both boys have been asleep for a few hours now.
    I'm proud of how well I've been managing 2 under 2 and also the transition to SAHM. Those first few weeks I honestly thought I was going to lose my mind and now we're finally learning how we work together & getting into a pretty good groove.
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  • It's been 2 hrs since lo ate and I'm still up. I pumped one side, cleaned bottles and I can't fall asleep. Laying here for over an hour already and dh is snoring away.

    Qotn: I'm proud of giving birth in general. I didn't think I could do it.
    I'm glad that I stuck with breastfeeding for so long when it was so tough in the beginning.
    I'm happy that motherhood has come so naturally for me and have had few struggles with caring for my lo.
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  • H gave LO a bath tonight for the first time. I know at almost 3 months it should have happened sooner but he is kind of a giant and was uncomfortable when she was smaller and more fragile seeming. We then watched monsters university while I nursed LO to sleep. I am hoping she gives us a normal night, 6-8 hours straight. Last night she was up every 3 and I was so tired today. Also, H is snoring and I want to kick him in the teeth. If he wakes up the baby he will have to nurse her back to sleep. Ok ew but I'll still be really annoyed.

    QOTN: although I get intimidated about taking LO places by myself I still do. Even when I didn't feel super comfortable with the ergo I got her into it by myself in the store parking lot. I have set up a minimal routine for LO and we have stuck to it, even though I don't think H buys into it very much. I have been able to trust my instincts and LO is thriving. Even though I don't want to share her I have been including my ILs by sending them photos and stuff since they are on the other side if the country.
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  • Lo is asleep and I am pumping.

    I am most proud of BF. it is the hardest thing I have done. I am proud of DS. I worked hard to get him here :-)

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  • LO is finally asleep. He is 11 weeks 5 days and I think he is started his 3 month growth spurt today. One small nap and he has beem very fussy amd nursing constantly.

    I am proud that my partner and I kind of went into this blind. We moved to a new state where we dont know anyone in my 3rd tri and we have done this ourselves with zero help from anyone. I am proud of having been able to breastfeed so far and of every week I am able to continue. I am proud of doing 2 online courses to continue working towards my degree while staying at home with him. Lastly I am proud of my partner for being an amazing father.
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  • Alex ate & went back to sleep. Abby is up puking and I'm a snotty/coughing/congested mess. My dog is comatose in the next room & tomorrow I am going to make the call to euthanize him. My Dad died on 10/16.

    I am wanting some normal & not-so-hard please.

    I'm most proud of my energy for my kids. Even when I'm sick as a dog I still try to keep things positive & entertaining for them.


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    edited October 2013
    DS2 went down around 9 and I stayed up catching up on some tv shows (love hart of Dixie!) he woke up around 2:15 to eat and is still snoozing. My toddler woke up crying at 4;30. Not sure if he is teething (2 year molars, maybe?) or had a bad dream or what. He's my challenge tonight.

    QOTN: I am supermom. At least I like to think that some days as an affirmation. I've said before DH works 12 hour overnights. He went in at 5pm Monday night and I haven't seen him since due to his work/sleep schedule. I'm juggling both boys pretty well, even managed to give both baths tonight without meltdowns! Somehow managing comforting one while the other stays happy.

    Of course I am not getting any sleep! Oh well. Hoping I can squeeze in a nap before I go into work tonight from 4 to 10. (I work 12 to15 hours a week).

    I'm a much better mom than I ever thought I would be. I enjoy it more than I ever could imagine. Even with DHs crazy work schedule, I love being a mostly SAHM. Even if it means a lot of long lonely nights!

    I was never the best student. Or a great success in my career I had chosen for myself, but this...being "mom" is what I am best at. I'm eternally grateful for being able to witness every milestone, every day, every bump and every new skill. I read somewhere that SAH is full of long days and short years. I can't believe how fast the two years with DS1 went...sad at how fast the first 2 months went with DS2 went as well...

    Anywho. Off to try and sleep!
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  • Up for her one nightly feeding. Hopefully she goes back down easily.

    I am proud that I have has the opportunity to stay home with my kids, been SAH for over 7 years now! Proud of how intelligent my oldest kids are. Both are well above grade level in school and do fantastic. My daughter is in 1st grade, reading at a 4th grade level.
    I really am just glad to have 3 happy healthy kids. :)

             

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  • AprilRaineAprilRaine member
    edited October 2013
    I woke DH up because he was snoring soooo bad (badly?). He got mad and went to sleep on the couch. I need to find a nose strip or drugged pillowcase or something for this! It's driving me nuts and keeping me up a good portion of the night lately.

    And @PrimRoseMama, I'm so sorry you're having such a rough night. You're an amazing mom and things will get easier, I promise. Lots of prayers and healing thoughts to your home tonight. (I'd send you my cookies if I could)
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  • @primrosemama Sorry about your dad and your dog. Hoping things level out soon!
    Lo went down at 8 and was up at 12:45 and 5:15. Second day in a row that she woke up an hour before my alarm is supposed to go off. So I just stayed up to bump. I'm hoping she sleeps for awhile.
    qotn: I'm proud I've stuck with breast feeding this long. I really thought it wouldn't happen for us. I think I may be starting to dry up and that makes me sad. I'm proud that I've gone back to work and surviving. I'm proud that I just "get" dd. I know her cues and do a pretty good job at keeping her happy and calm most days.
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  • @primrosemama I'm very sorry for your loss and so sad to hear about your dog. T&P's are with you and I hope you get some easier days sooo
  • Lo slept from 8:30 to 5am. I hoping she's moving back in the direction of sttn. She was and now she's not again. Make up your mind baby!
    Qotn: I'm proud that I have held it together through all of her health problems and hospital stays. She's doing so great now and I think it's because I've been doing something right.
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  • Alex ate & went back to sleep. Abby is up puking and I'm a snotty/coughing/congested mess. My dog is comatose in the next room & tomorrow I am going to make the call to euthanize him. My Dad died on 10/16.

    I am wanting some normal & not-so-hard please.

    I'm most proud of my energy for my kids. Even when I'm sick as a dog I still try to keep things positive & entertaining for them.

    I am sorry. It sounds like when it rains, it pours. :-(

    I hope it starts looking up for you soon. It is always darkest before the dawn.

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  • @PrimRoseMama I'm sorry things are so tough right now. Keep your chin up! T&Ps!

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