Hi ladies. I'm going through a m/c right now (I would have been 6w). It's sucking big time. Just wanted to say Hi, as I've been lurking, soaking up the supportive comments you've been sharing with each other. I'm trying very hard to focus on the things I have to be grateful for, and while that helps, I'm overwhelmed with sadness that this is happening, period. Thanks for being the awesome, supportive, strong women that you are.
I'm so sorry for your loss. It does suck, and it is OK to just feel that way for a while. Be easy on yourself. It's great that you are trying to being positive, but if sometimes you can't, that is OK too. I'm sorry you have to join us here. You will be in my prayers.
DD Born 11.27.2011 BFP 9.19.2013 - EDD 6.1.2014 - MMC @ 8 weeks 3 days
So sorry for your loss. I also found focusing on the positive helps. This board is full of supportive, strong women and if/when you decide to TTC again the ttcal board is an amazing place to get and give support. Sorry you have to be here, but welcome.
I'm sorry for your loss. It certainly does suck to say the least! I think it's great that you are focusing on the positive. I am also trying to re-start a hobby and focus on running more again. I feel like I need other outlets for my energy right now, so I don't only focus on the negative. Don't forget to let yourself grieve and let yourself cry if you feel sad. I was feeling okay for a few days and then Friday night, I just let it all out. I was home alone, was sad and felt like I needed a good cry. I wish you all the best . . . hugs!
TTC: Since July 2013 BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
So sorry for your loss, dear. I've found a lot of comfort here in the past couple days, not just through my post but through all the supportive women on this board as well as ttcal. Hope you find all the support you need!
I am so sorry for your loss! I am sorry you have found yourself here. I hope you allow yourself to feel and grieve as that will help. T & P's to you! ((Hugs))
I am so sorry for your loss. Crying out has been very helpful to me. I did nothing but crying in the first 3 days. After that, it did get easier. Hang in there.
Sorry you find yourself here, but you're in great company! Like you, I lurked at first, but found an overwhelming level of support once I started opening up. The ladies here are amazing! One piece of advice I can give you is to allow yourself to be sad, and grieve this loss. I held it in, but now that I'm a month out, it's hitting me so unexpectedly. thoughts & prayers coming your way
I'm so sorry for your loss. I've cried, ate, lounged, screamed... give yourself time to go through all the emotions. I think your idea of looking at things to be grateful for is a great way to get through this crazy time.
Me 35 / DH 36
TTC since 09/2009
Hashimoto's diagnosis 11/2011 / Endometriosis removal surgery 04/2013
Other diagnosis: 1 mutation - PAI-1 gene
BFP#1 9/27/2013 / EDD 6/4/14 / MC 10/17/2013
BFP#2 3/4/14 / EDD 11/13/14 / CP
BFP#3 6/7/14 / EDD 2/16/15 / CP
BFP #4 11/7/2014 / EDD 7/17/15 / CP
Current Plan: Waiting to change RE... Appt on 1/16
RXs: Metformin, Levothyroxin, Baby Aspirin, CoQ10, Vitamin D, Folic Acid, Pre-natal. Progesterone post O.
Re: Hi, new here
DD Born 11.27.2011
BFP 9.19.2013 - EDD 6.1.2014 - MMC @ 8 weeks 3 days
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EDD: March 12,2015
Married: August 2012
DD: 9/22/2014
BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)