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ITS SHIT LIKE THIS...

+SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
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That makes me want to reach through Facebook and beat the ever living hell out of someone!!! This is what a girl just posted.....

 

"I'm already over this pregnancy... I'm feeling more and more sick every single day & I don't even have mood swings.. It's just stuck at "annoyed" and it's for absolutely no reason at all. Not to mention the fact that my taste buds and sense of smell is different.. My chicken strips tonight tasted so sweet & the garage smelled old.... I JUST WANNA BE NORMALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL"

 

REALLY, FUCKING REALLY?!! Obviously I need to go delete everyone that is pregnant for my own sanity. I wish I could just delete my whole account, but we are stationed away from both of our families and its how we keep in touch with everyone. UGHH, I hate people! -_-

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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    She sounds awful! I would block her too. 



      


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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    freakyfast said:
    She sounds awful! I would block her too. 

    Already done! I mean really, She doesn't even have a clue what its like to want to feel "normal". I would gladly take her baby if she's so "over it". People are so blind at how incredibly lucky they truly are! Makes me sad.
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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Yea, I have people like that on mine too. You know the ones that just sneeze and end up pregnant- then pretty much complain the entire time? I don't bother blocking them. Whatever, you know? People are going to complain about shit no matter what. I just think "I would love to have that problem right now" Sometimes I say something, like when I see people wishing they'd go into early labor (like before 32wks early), then I'll tell them to knock it off- I mean really?? You're uncomfortable, so you want to put your precious babys' life at risk? And I still don't block them, because I am a sucker for punishment. 





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    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
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  • CeCe8579CeCe8579 member
    She sounds like a peach. It's probably a good thing you blocked her. I have one girl on my FB that's like that. Of course, she got pregnant their second month trying. 
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  • MrsMegan922MrsMegan922 member

    I would have been tempted in that circumstance to comment about how wonderful it must be to be able to get pregnant and how difficult it is for some people.

    She sounds delightful.

    BFP #1 7/31/09 - m/c 8/22/09

    BFP #2 4/15/10 - DD born 12/31/10

    TTC #2 since July 2012

    BFP #3 9/24/12 - m/c 10/15/12

    Dx PCOS/LPD 5/2013 - Rx Metformin (1500mg) and GF diet

    BFP #4 6/10/13 - CP 6/12/13

    8/2013 Rx for low dose Naltrexone

    9/2013 DH's SA showed low motility/morph/viability

    10/2013 Lap removed multiple areas of scar tissue adhesions and opened blocked tube.

    BFP #5 1/24/2014 - EDD 10/3/2014

    This could be it! Grow baby!

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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    That stuff pisses me off now, too. But I will also admit I probably unintentionally hurt/pissed off people when I was pregnant with my DDs simply because until you experience IF you have absolutely no idea what a punch in the gut posts like that do to some people. I don't block people, I just don't read their status updates. Or look at their bump pics. And probably have some sarcastic comments in my head for them :)

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • +SouthernMomma++SouthernMomma+ member
    Jen071407 said:
    That stuff pisses me off now, too. But I will also admit I probably unintentionally hurt/pissed off people when I was pregnant with my DDs simply because until you experience IF you have absolutely no idea what a punch in the gut posts like that do to some people. I don't block people, I just don't read their status updates. Or look at their bump pics. And probably have some sarcastic comments in my head for them :)

    So so true, But this comment came from a girl that has had 2 MC this year! You think she would be a little more grateful, or use some freaking protection. GRR!!
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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    southern momma - I agree. It's just tactless - about as annoying as skinny people complaining that they're fat. Lol.

    I mean, even not pregnancy related, the stupid shit people post on FB is ridiculous - it's like they don't realize that it is PUBLIC. And FB had almost zero privacy settings bc there are so many loopholes in the settings.

    Sorry, I am pretty anti-social media. If someone wants to talk to me, they can call me.

    When I found myself having to take "breaks" from it or found myself upset after checking it then I figured it was time to evaluate and really think - is this good for me?

    No. Of course I maybe had 30 friends on it. I was very selective, 15 of which were blocked for sheer fact that there shit is annoying and mostly FarmVille related, and the rest I was just like - these people can call me. And now when someone asks if I have FB- I smile and say nope! :) and thank god. All I need is another means for my MIL to checkin on me.

    If nothing else go through and PURGE your account every now and then and delete people that aren't truly necessary (ie not close family and TRUE friends)

    Anyway- there's my anti-social media preach for the day. My apologies, I'm probably in te throws of PMS :)
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    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    +SouthernMomma+ said:


    Jen071407 said:

    That stuff pisses me off now, too. But I will also admit I probably unintentionally hurt/pissed off people when I was pregnant with my DDs simply because until you experience IF you have absolutely no idea what a punch in the gut posts like that do to some people. I don't block people, I just don't read their status updates. Or look at their bump pics. And probably have some sarcastic comments in my head for them :)


    So so true, But this comment came from a girl that has had 2 MC this year! You think she would be a little more grateful, or use some freaking protection. GRR!!
    Aaaand yes. She is an idiot!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • uagirluagirl member
    I don't handle stupid/whiny people very well.  I would be hiding her ASAP.  
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    DD born 8/9/10
    TTC #2 since 8/2012
    CP 12/2012
    dx MFI 10/2013
    Surprise BFP 11/6/2013  EDD 7/19/2014
    Beta #1 15 dpo HCG 355 Prog 30.9
    Beta #2 22 dpo HCG 8147 Prog 18.8
    Beta #3 29 dpo HCG 44580 Prog 29.8

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  • Amores0121Amores0121 member
    +SouthernMomma+ said:
    Jen071407 said:
    That stuff pisses me off now, too. But I will also admit I probably unintentionally hurt/pissed off people when I was pregnant with my DDs simply because until you experience IF you have absolutely no idea what a punch in the gut posts like that do to some people. I don't block people, I just don't read their status updates. Or look at their bump pics. And probably have some sarcastic comments in my head for them :)

    So so true, But this comment came from a girl that has had 2 MC this year! You think she would be a little more grateful, or use some freaking protection. GRR!!

    Ah! That makes her even worse. I'm not gonna say I won't complain if I get KU again, but I'm not going to do it on social media. I mean, pregnancy does have some pretty tough symptoms but I'd gladly take them all at this point.


    BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C.
    BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18
    BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07
    BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.

    BFP#5 11/9/13.  EDD 7/21/14  Our beautiful rainbow born on his due date!!

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