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Does anyone ever suspect that their ex or his so is on this site? Last week I complained about my ex and his lack of contact with our kids. In the last few days he has called the older two on the phone, and texted the youngest for her birthday, then stopped by and brought her a present and card for her birthday. We usually buy a larger joint gift for her (I buy it, he gives me money toward it, we did again this year), and then I buy her additional small gifts and he doesn't (which is fine) but she was really touched that her dad brought a small wrapped gift and a card for her birthday. He said it was his girlfriend's idea, so if she's here, thanks! He also invited her out to lunch sometime soon, so that's good as well. 
   
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  • CurlyQ284CurlyQ284 member
    I don't *think* BM is on here but that's why I don't have personal pix in my soggy and if I post a pic I delete it shortly after. Juuust in case.
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  • Sunday924Sunday924 member
    I watch what I say about SS # 2 for this very reason. When she is crazy and I want advice I just point out exactly what happened and try to leave out feelings. I don't think BM #1 would ever come here and if she did I could care less what she reads.
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  • Mkherren12Mkherren12 member
    That's awesome!! I should try it for my situation. Lol
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  • +just+j++just+j+ member
    My ex is not internet saavy, no. But future GF's? Potentially.
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  • CurlieWhirlieCurlieWhirlie member
    Definitely not, ex is not that internet-savvy either. I do wonder occasionally if BM might find her way here, though.
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  • Pinkpenguin+Pinkpenguin+ member
    I have 2 adult SDs that I worry may stumble on this sight so I'm pretty careful what I say. I think I'm safe, but since they are single parents themselves I know it's a possibility.
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  • +just+j++just+j+ member
    I do wonder if XSD would get on here, but I kinda doubt it.  If she did, she would get eaten ALIVE by you all. 
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  • twister22twister22 member
    CurlyQ284 said:
    I don't *think* BM is on here but that's why I don't have personal pix in my soggy and if I post a pic I delete it shortly after. Juuust in case.
    Same. Except, in my case I would be flabbergasted if BD is on here, and he currently doesn't have a GF so not much of a worry there either. And I'm not *too* worried about my would-of been SILs. I also delete posted pics within a day or so just in case.
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  • Ginlyn0Ginlyn0 member
    edited October 2013

    I think it would be more likely that someone they might know might recognize one of the kids in my siggy than for BM or SM themselves to find this board. But, I don't really care.

    ETA: however, if DH and I ever split up...I would not be able to post here anymore. He knows all about the boards LOL

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  • PamelacakePamelacake member

    I have wondered this myself.. BM's FI was going to the library a lot and I thought maybe to use the computer but it turned out he was going through legal books for a court date BM didn't even show up to.

    That's why I deleted the updated court post. Now, I don't really care. If BM has someone getting on here, that's fine..

    Maybe if she sees how much I B!tch about her she will change the way she does SD's. I doubt it though because BM is a child herself, she gets mad at SD's if they don't feel sorry for her.

    I did have this thought about two weeks ago, again b/c when BM was here.. she appeared to try to include 7yo more in the visit, although it turns out that wasn't the case either. She did put on a very good front though. That made me think she saw my post about how the first visit went.

    That would be pretty creepy though!

     

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  • HisChamaoleGirlHisChamaoleGirl member
    andrea99 said:
    Yeah, DH knows about you all. I'd be screwed.
    This applies to me too. I am constantly telling DH about the advice I get from the boards. I'd really miss you guys :-(

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  • coopsbabycoopsbaby member
    HisChamaoleGirl said:
    andrea99 said:
    Yeah, DH knows about you all. I'd be screwed.
    This applies to me too. I am constantly telling DH about the advice I get from the boards. I'd really miss you guys :-(
    My dh has no CLUE about allof my bump time. He knows I go to someplace online and chat about ttgp, but he doesn't know about this board. Maybe I'll just keep that to myself ;)

    I decided I don't care either if exH or his gf ever find me here. I won't post anything that isn't true, so if it ticks you off, change your damn behavior!
       
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  • Lavender PLavender P member
    I don't post pics in case BM is on here. Although, I don't think she would even recognize herself if she did. She is delusional in that she thinks she is the victim and DH is the evil guy who ruined her life.
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