How Often do you DTD? CLICKY!!

Erinm278 · October 2013

Because we love to talk about our sex lives right?!?! How often do you DTD post pg.

Erinm278 · October 2013

I'm just now getting my sex drive back. I would say we DTD 1-2 times a week. We are getting better at taking advantage of nap time

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jemasa33 · October 2013

Twice lol

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BetsyD2010 said:
It was 'er day or twice a day but we've slacked off to about 5-6. PP 'mones are making me a wild woman.

Whoa. My second degree tear is running to hide after reading this.

Carrie3102 · October 2013

Until I get my IUD we're on hold... then it's 1-2 times per week because my drive is always more than DH's and I have not had my normal drive.

valstulas · October 2013

I said 1-2 times a week, but I think I was probably overestimating. I wish I had a better sex drive. So does SO.

joyfultrex · October 2013

less often, but not never.

kmc217 · October 2013

I have no drive and DH hasn't had his post-V follow up to make sure all clear and never bought condoms and I'm not pushing it. I kinda suck.

danielledunning · October 2013

We try to do it 1-2 times a week but it doesn't always happen. It's hard going from multiple times a day pre pregnancy to once a week, but I just don't have it in me yet. Maybe once the c section belly shapes up, I'll have more of a desire to be naked.

lisamonkee11 · October 2013

We're at about once every week & a half

JTA2426 · October 2013

About once every 10 days or so. And only because I feel bad for MH, not because I really want to. Sleep, eating, cleaning, sitting and relaxing... Those things take precedence when they get a simultaneous nap.

EagleWife · October 2013

I think this poll needs quarterly options

Pink724 · October 2013

I agree - need options with less! We're at about maybe 3-4 times a month.

abalhawk2009 · October 2013

Ugh we DTD once or twice a week but honestly, I have no drive or desire. I kinda do it just to keep DH happy

EagleWife · October 2013

Butternut87 said:

We have only done it once PP. I'm not in a rush to experience that again. So, I'm also averaging quarterly. Good thinking, @EagleWife. If that's what you meant.

Yeah, with 0-1x per quarter, 2-3x per quarter, etc.. Who has time or energy for that anyway?

stephyfaith · October 2013

So far it's only been twice in total but once a week. Not sure I can handle more..

tmstengrim · October 2013

I said 1 to 2 a week but it's probably more like once every two weeks. I always want to do it during the day when I am at work and than by the time I get home it's the last thing I want to do. Besides the fact that it still kind of hurts it's not really something I always look forward to, however I will admit the sex we had last weekend on our anniversary was very good!

KateJuly2013 · October 2013

I said we haven't DTD. But we have. Twice. Not planning on doing it again anytime soon. I have negative libido. I tried getting really drunk...all that did was make me feel really shitty and I cried most of the night b/c I had to pump n dump. Who would have thought breast milk would mean so much!

geoffandjen728 · October 2013

It's been a while. I've been cleared but i am still very sore and have negative drive. Feeling broken but hopeful that it will come back. Used to have so much fun!!

jegoffin · October 2013

I'm having a very difficult time separating the "mommy" and the "wife" aspects of my life.

gutsymama · October 2013

LivvyKH said:
I think you need options for less frequent sex! We're only had sex three times PP. Baby is four months old!

This, only baby is 5 months old. And when he was born it had probably been at least a month. And it hasn't felt good for me since before I got KU. This poll makes me sad

heatherbrownm · October 2013

We've done it once since I had the baby. I just have no interest. I've been playing the "I'm too tired" card a lot.

emmanemm · October 2013

I'm in the 5-6 times a week category. I love sex. It hurt/was uncomfortable about the first 3-4 times we dtd pp but now that everything's back to normal I love sex again.

Dani428 · October 2013

Ummmm no. During the day when I'm at work I want to...but by the time I get home, cook, walk the dogs, clean, put her to bed.. I want to sleep!!!!

JellyTwoPointO · October 2013

1-2x a week. Since I use fertility friend to track cycles, it's interesting to look back at how much sex we had before baby compared to after. My post partum calendars are severely lacking in little blue triangles. *sigh*

Kitten80 · October 2013

Once.

Stacey099 · October 2013

Dani428 said:
Ummmm no. During the day when I'm at work I want to...but by the time I get home, cook, walk the dogs, clean, put her to bed.. I want to sleep!!!!

This. It's happened twice. With our work schedules we won't see each other for a few days so he's not around when I'm up for it

luvmyducks · October 2013

Why are there only weekly options? You must have just one kid...

We are 2-3x/month. When we had just one kiddo we were about 1-2x/wk.

kt012885 · October 2013

We DTD 1-2 times a week but I honestly never feel like it. It still hurts but it does make us closer and get along better so I make sure we do at least 1 time a week. Before pregnancy we did 4 times a week easy. Poor DH but what is a girl to do!

WifeyLovesHubs · October 2013

2 unsuccessful tries because oucccchhhhh! 2nd degree tear here too.

pantsarella · October 2013

lwrightenator said:

I think you need options for less frequent sex! We're only had sex three times PP. Baby is four months old!
I agree with @LivvyKH. We've only DTD three or four times. Sleep is so much more important to us now and we probably could DTD when family is visiting, but it freaks out my DH when there are people around.

Amen. I'm pretty sure I would fall asleep during sex right now.

Liz4444 · October 2013

I like to double click the mouse.

Glass of wine for anyone who gets the reference.

SimplySheree · October 2013

Depends on my mood. If I've had time to relax and unwind from the day then I'm all for it. Unfortunately SO works nights so he's usually asleep. Then when he is awake he wants to get it on the moment LO falls asleep. By then I'm worn out and just want to sleep...or browse on here...in silence.

amaburch · October 2013

We're good to DTD once a month. We choose sleep...

martyn17 · October 2013

My husband has been traveling so much, my sex drive is just coming back, we are so tired, I'm not on birth control yet and dh hates condoms... all this to excuse the fact that we have only dtd two times since t was born....

Karebear6978 · October 2013

Pink724 said:
I agree - need options with less! We're at about maybe 3-4 times a month.

That is almost once a week...lol.... before baby I was lucky to convince him to DTD once a month... now he wants it at least once a week.. too bad my sex drive has been lacking pp

fabk · October 2013

Since I'm the only one who clicked erry day and its sometimes 2x a day I think I need to show mh this poll so he realises how lucky he is.

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