TTC After a Loss

** December Angels Check-In **

This check-in is for all mommas who lost a baby due in the month of December (any year), including any late loss mommies who gave birth and lost their babes in the month of December. 


NEW POSTERS: Welcome. I'm so very sorry you are here, but I do hope you find all the love and support you need.  Tell us a little about yourself, where you are in the TTCAL process, and don't forget to include your EDD or birth date, loss date, sex if you knew it and any names you had chosen.

CURRENT MEMBERS: Let me know of any updates to the information below.  Please PM me with news of BFPs

Please note, if I am unable to make the regular check-in date, I will do the check in the very following day if possible.


THE LIST:

Roxycc55: 12/1/12

Foreverstarts716: 12/5/12 

Stephanie185: 12/11/13 

jbasore1123: 12/17/13 

nkelley09: 12/8/13 

nyg2042: 12/1/13 

lincoln79: 12/18/13 

Madelyn0713: 12/1/13 

KistyW13: 12/12/13 

ISIH: 12/27/13 

aw12707: 12/23/12 

AHenson818 - 12/10/13

StinaLeigh - 12/1/13 

TinaBean14- 12/17/13

ky29 - 12/4/13

MommaAshley12 - 12/27/13

Rafterk2 - 12/11/13

Sasamaniego - 12/28/13

gingerkid9989 - 12/25/13

VCGolfNYC - 12/22/13

EcoAli - 12/25/13

hercules25 - 12/9/13

2ndGeneration - 12/3/13

LifeofCat - 12/25/13

Ninthgirl - 12/22/13

TwinkleTor - Domenik Ray 12/8/13

UKwife - 12/24/13


@gingerkid9989 - any updates on your cycle?  how are things going?

@ninthgirl - Looks like you've had some fertile CM.  How is waiting to O treating you?

@ahenson818 - Any updates?  How are things going?

@ukwife11 - how is the 2ww treating you?

@LifeofCat - how are things with you?  Any updates?

@Ky29 - Yay for confirming O!  How was your trip?

@Rafterk2 - were you able to confirm O?

@jbasore1123 - Did you have any side effects from the injects?  Hope all is well!

@lingchow8655 - how was your trip?  Any updates on the house/your cycle?

@kistyw13 - how is waiting to O going?

If your name is not included, please do not take it personally.  I only include personal messages for those who posted in the last check-in.  Please feel free to include your update!

Question of the Day:  What is your favorite day of the week?  Least favorite?


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BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

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Re: ** December Angels Check-In **

  • @ngy2042 - Good morning!  Yes, I finally O'd!  I wish we would've had better timing, but the late O threw us off.  Oh well.  Now early in the 2ww.  Our trip was fun!  Nice little getaway.  I was able to see my cousin before/after his game - and Vanderbilt beat Georgia!! (huge upset!) 

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    TTC since March 2012
    DX: MFI (4% motility)

    Cycle 13: Natural cycle w/ HSG test = BFP
    Identical twins! 
    Lost my angel boys at 10.5 weeks

    Cycle 14-16: Natural Cycles = BFN
    Cycle 17: Follistim + Trigger + IUI = BFN
    Cycle 18: Natural Cycle = BFN
    Cycle 19: Follistim + Trigger +IUI#2
    Polyp found: SIS 11/11 - hysteroscopy 11/14
    Cycle 20: Follistim + IUI#2 = BFFN
    Cycle 21: Follistim (adj. dosage) + IUI#3 TI  = BFN
    IUI cancelled due to weather
    Cycle 22: Follistim + IUI#3.1 = BFN

    Cycle 23: treatment break, IVF consult
    Cycle 24 - 26: natural cycle w/ acupuncture + Chinese herbs = BFN
    Cycle 27: Follistim + IUI#4 = BFFN
    Natural Cycles until IVF
    Cycle 30: IVF#1 - Starting with Menopur + Follistim + Ganirelix
    17 retrieved, 12 fertilized, 5dt w/ 2 blasts, 5 frosties

    Betas:  #1-156(9dp5dt), #2-1200(13dp5) #3-6112(17dp5)
    Ultrasound #1 10/6: 1 bean!
    TEAM BLUE!

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  • @nyg2042, Hey girl!!  How are things going for you??  Thanks for the check in!  I am at CD1 as of 7:30 this morning.  :(  Oh well.  I didn't really think I was KU.  Now for the fun cramps.  8-| Mine have been pretty awful since the loss and I'm hoping they will calm down eventually.  I am going to try and temp this month even though we are taking a break from trying.  It was driving me crazy not knowing what was going on last month.

    QOTW:  I LOVE Saturdays but HATE Mondays.  But really I could love any day that I am not at work!! :)

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

  • Good morning :)
    Nope, no major side effects. They seem to hurt more than last time for some reason. I do get a small rash at the injection site but it goes away within 30 min. I stop the BCP on Friday and then start my stimulating injections next Tuesday. Yay for moving forward!
    QOTW: Friday is my favorite day and Monday is my least, lol.

    TTC since April 2012

    BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013

    BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013

    6/12/2013 Diagnosed with Balanced Translocation (12 & 16)

    IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab

    IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!

    FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN

    Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

    IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos



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  • Happy Wednesday nyg!!! Still waiting to O I see. Do you usually O so late? I see from your last chart it was CD20. Just wonder if that is typical for you. FX it happens soon!!! Two thumbs up on your timing; ya'll have been getting after it. ;)

    @ahenson818 - Any updates?  How are things going?

    I take my last Femara pill today. I have my follie scan scheduled next Tuesday, and as long as I have a plump & sexy follie, I'll get my trigger shot as well. Then it's home to HIO till DH leaves Thur. to go out of town. (I'm not too happy about that affecting our timing but oh well. I even boarded the CT over it yesterday.) I'm backing to temping again this cycle. I don't know how much it matters with it being a medicated cycle & all, but it makes me feel better to temp.

    Question of the Day:  What is your favorite day of the week?  Least favorite?


    I really like Friday mornings. I don't work on Fridays so I sleep in a little. Then I relax with a cup of coffee & catch up on my DVR'd shows that DH doesn't like to watch. (Project Runway, Real Housewives, etc)

    Least favorite would be Mondays of course.

    TTC since Sept 2012
    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13

    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely

    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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  • @gingerkid9989 (((HUGS))) for CD1 hun!!!

    PS This is pretty much sums up how I feel on CD1

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    and now the cure

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    TTC since Sept 2012
    M/C on 5/01/13 at 8 wks
    AF finally appeared 11 wks later per Provera
    Diagnosed with PCOS on 7/29/13

    Three Failed Medicated Cycles, NTNP Indefinitely

    BFP #2 9/14/14, EDD 5/23/14...MMC discovered @ 9w2d; D&C 10/23/14

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  • Happy Wednesday nyg!!! Still waiting to O I see. Do you usually O so late? I see from your last chart it was CD20. Just wonder if that is typical for you. FX it happens soon!!! Two thumbs up on your timing; ya'll have been getting after it.


    @ahenson818 - My typical O date has been between CD 19-21.  My earliest was CD 17 and my latest was CD 26 (first full cycle after my loss).  I have been extremely frustrated with this cycle, and I have this irrational fear that it will be anovulatory.  This is also probably the last cycle where I will be able to get pregnant and turn an hpt positive before my EDD, so that it making things even worse for me right now.  I've been super emotional, and poor H just doesn't quite understand.

    In terms of timing, this has actually be a light FW for us
    :))


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

  • ky29 said:
    @ngy2042 - Good morning!  Yes, I finally O'd!  I wish we would've had better timing, but the late O threw us off.  Oh well.  Now early in the 2ww.  Our trip was fun!  Nice little getaway.  I was able to see my cousin before/after his game - and Vanderbilt beat Georgia!! (huge upset!) 
    Still looks like you had pretty solid timing!  Glad you had such a great time on your trip.


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

  • @nyg2042, Hey girl!!  How are things going for you??  Thanks for the check in!  I am at CD1 as of 7:30 this morning.  :(  Oh well.  I didn't really think I was KU.  Now for the fun cramps.  8-| Mine have been pretty awful since the loss and I'm hoping they will calm down eventually.  I am going to try and temp this month even though we are taking a break from trying.  It was driving me crazy not knowing what was going on last month.

    QOTW:  I LOVE Saturdays but HATE Mondays.  But really I could love any day that I am not at work!! :)

    Boo for CD 1 - I hope your cramps subside.  Mine were brutal for the first 2 cycles after my loss, but then seemed to die down a bit.


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

  • Good morning :) Nope, no major side effects. They seem to hurt more than last time for some reason. I do get a small rash at the injection site but it goes away within 30 min. I stop the BCP on Friday and then start my stimulating injections next Tuesday. Yay for moving forward! QOTW: Friday is my favorite day and Monday is my least, lol.
    Yay for getting off BCP - FX everything goes perfectly this cycle.


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

  • Happy Wednesday nyg!!! Still waiting to O I see. Do you usually O so late? I see from your last chart it was CD20. Just wonder if that is typical for you. FX it happens soon!!! Two thumbs up on your timing; ya'll have been getting after it. ;)

    @ahenson818 - Any updates?  How are things going?

    I take my last Femara pill today. I have my follie scan scheduled next Tuesday, and as long as I have a plump & sexy follie, I'll get my trigger shot as well. Then it's home to HIO till DH leaves Thur. to go out of town. (I'm not too happy about that affecting our timing but oh well. I even boarded the CT over it yesterday.) I'm backing to temping again this cycle. I don't know how much it matters with it being a medicated cycle & all, but it makes me feel better to temp.

    Question of the Day:  What is your favorite day of the week?  Least favorite?


    I really like Friday mornings. I don't work on Fridays so I sleep in a little. Then I relax with a cup of coffee & catch up on my DVR'd shows that DH doesn't like to watch. (Project Runway, Real Housewives, etc)

    Least favorite would be Mondays of course.

    Fx you have a great scan next week.  I saw your CT post yesterday - you still should be able to get some good timing in, although I know you would prefer a little bit more time.


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

  • Hey @nyg2042!! Well, my 2ww isn't going so hot. I'm fairly certain AF started Sunday. I'm not sure why I got the +OPK on Thursday then. I started temping this morning (first time since after my loss in April) because I wanted to start again when my next cycle started so here I am! I told myself I won't obsess over temps like the first time around and I won't get anxious if they are all over the place. I already know my cycle is wonky anyways so what's the difference if I can confirm a wonky cycle by my temps too, right? Good news is that last cycle was 30 days shorter than my previous two so I'll take it!

    @ky29 FX for you!!

    @gingerkid9989 ((hugs)) for cd1

    @jbasore1123 yay for moving forward!!

    @ahenson818 FX you O soon!

    QOTW my favorite day is Friday because I don't work Fridays. My least favorite day is probably Sunday night because I'm usually running around like crazy trying to get things ready for the work week.
  • @nyg2042, thanks for running the check in, as always! According to ff, I O'd on Sunday, which was also our anniversary so we got quite a bit of BDing in that day. Now onto the 2ww!

    QOTW: I love both Saturday and Sundays. Tuesday is probably my least favorite.

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    TTC #1 since January 2013

    BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

    BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

    BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!

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  • @gingerkid9989 (((HUGS))) for CD1 hun!!!

    PS This is pretty much sums up how I feel on CD1

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    and now the cure

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    That's awesome!!  Thanks girl!  I plan on something similar.

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

  • Thanks for the check in @nyg2042 ! I hope things are well with you!

    Still no AF yet :( I've been crying like CRAZY this past week and have some mild cramps and minor lower back pain, so FX. 

    Mind you, I could also be over-analyzing every single thing my body is doing...

    Because I'm back to working Tues-Sat, I would say that my favorite day overall is Sunday. It's always really chill, and I tend to make the best meals that day (ie to maximize leftovers). My least favorite varies from Mon-Tues, depending what my work schedule is.

    (((Hugs))) for CD1, @gingerkid9989
    ~All are welcome~
    MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

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    Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • LifeofCat said:
    Thanks for the check in @nyg2042 ! I hope things are well with you!

    Still no AF yet :( I've been crying like CRAZY this past week and have some mild cramps and minor lower back pain, so FX. 

    Mind you, I could also be over-analyzing every single thing my body is doing...

    Because I'm back to working Tues-Sat, I would say that my favorite day overall is Sunday. It's always really chill, and I tend to make the best meals that day (ie to maximize leftovers). My least favorite varies from Mon-Tues, depending what my work schedule is.

    (((Hugs))) for CD1, @gingerkid9989
    @lifeofcat... back at ya lady!!

    BFP#1 4/17/2013 EDD 12/25/2013, MC 5/17/2013 8 weeks 3 days D&C 5/18/2013

    BFP#2 1/20/2014 EDD 9/28/2014, Baby Evie born on 9/23/2014 at 8:50pm.  6 lbs 15 oz!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

  • ukwife11 said:
    Hey @nyg2042!! Well, my 2ww isn't going so hot. I'm fairly certain AF started Sunday. I'm not sure why I got the +OPK on Thursday then. I started temping this morning (first time since after my loss in April) because I wanted to start again when my next cycle started so here I am! I told myself I won't obsess over temps like the first time around and I won't get anxious if they are all over the place. I already know my cycle is wonky anyways so what's the difference if I can confirm a wonky cycle by my temps too, right? Good news is that last cycle was 30 days shorter than my previous two so I'll take it! @ky29 FX for you!! @gingerkid9989 ((hugs)) for cd1 @jbasore1123 yay for moving forward!! @ahenson818 FX you O soon! QOTW my favorite day is Friday because I don't work Fridays. My least favorite day is probably Sunday night because I'm usually running around like crazy trying to get things ready for the work week.

    I'm sorry! Hopefully temping goes well for you this cycle!


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

  • @kistyw13 - hopefully you can still get some good timing in. O-3 is still good! @rafterk2 - yay for an anniversary O. I hope this 2ww flies by! @ninthgirl - I hear ya on the frustration of late O. Hopefully it happens soon! @LifeofCat - ugh, I'm so sorry. What CD are you on? Do you have plans of calling your doctor again?


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    BFP #1 : 3/20/13 | EDD: 12/1/13 | MC: 4/15/13 

    BFP #2: 1/9/14 | EDD: 9/21/14  

    Welcomed our rainbow bear on 8/31/14

    My Chart | All are Welcome

  • @nyg2042 thanks! I hope so too!!

    @ninthgirl that's what I was thinking but my LP would have been two days. I guess at this point it's possible since things are so crazy. That's another reason I decided to temp this cycle so I could see if that was the case. I guess I'll know this cycle if that's the case!
  • nyg2042 said:
    @kistyw13 - hopefully you can still get some good timing in. O-3 is still good! @rafterk2 - yay for an anniversary O. I hope this 2ww flies by! @ninthgirl - I hear ya on the frustration of late O. Hopefully it happens soon! @LifeofCat - ugh, I'm so sorry. What CD are you on? Do you have plans of calling your doctor again?

    To be honest @nyg2042 , I'm not temping or doing anything until I get my first postloss AF.  Does that make sense? My doc said to let her know if it's past 3 months, so I still have a ways to go before I call her again *sigh*

    And thanks @ninthgirl :)

    ~All are welcome~
    MC 23/01/2013 natural @ 7 Weeks

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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  • Hi, I'm Mallory and I am new to the board, just posted my intro yesterday. 

    Here's the shortened version:
    Started TTC in November 2011, started seeing an RE a year later, got pregnant with my second IUI and it sadly ended in a m/c at 7.5 weeks. 

    We finally got a negative test after 8 weeks, and started naturally TTC again for 2 cycles. I am currently in the tww after IUI #3.

    My EDD was 12/19/2013 and I thought it was the perfect due date ever. I hate to be here, but I am glad I am in the company of some amazing women.

    QOTD: My favorite day is Sunday. DH and I usually don't have big plans, so we make a big breakfast, usually run together, get to play with our dogs, it's always just a good laid back day. My least favorite day is probably Thursday... It just seems to be the longest day of work and the weekend is so close, but so far.

  • @runforcookies, welcome to the check-in! I posted on your intro but again, I'm sorry for your loss and I hope your stay here is short!

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    TTC #1 since January 2013

    BFP #1: April 5, 2013; EDD December 11, 2013; Missed M/C May 15, 2013

    BFP #2: February 17, 2014; EDD October 30, 2014; M/C March 15, 2014

    BFP #3: August 1, 2014; EDD April 14, 2015 - Praying for our RAINBOW!

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