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Are you ignoring me???

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XH called me at work yesterday, not at all last nite, at 6:55 this morning, and again at 9. I did not answer.

No message until 9 and it was "Are you ignoring me??? I am calling about DD."

Yep. Sure am.

I refuse to answer the phone while I am at work. As soon as I do, he calls regularly. About nothing.

I have told him repeatedly that calling in the morning is a bad idea. DD is cranky and it is all I can do to get out the door on time dealing with her and not forgetting something. If he had called last night I would have answered.

I texted him just now and told him to call tonite.

I am so done with having to be available to him when I don't have DD with me.

I want to say: You got a new girlfriend. Call her. Leave me the fuck alone.
"he offered her the world. she said she had her own" - poet Monique Duval
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Re: Are you ignoring me???

  • PamelacakePamelacake member

    BM used to do this all the time. But it would be nothing about SD's. She was just looking for a fight.

    DH would have literally 20 VM's from her when he got home from work going on about all kinds of random stuff.. and the last few messages would be, don't ever call me again, leave me alone.. blah blah blah.

    Or if she did have a legitimate question or use that as an excuse for DH to call her I should say, when DH would call her she would go off on him and hang up.

    Crazy stuff and I'm sorry you are having to deal with it.

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  • ambrvanambrvan member
    Again another reason why scheduled times to call are such a good idea.
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  • SimpleJaneSimpleJane member
    I would just say, if its important/emergent then you can text me. Otherwise I will have DD call you tonight.
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  • twister22twister22 member
    If BD calls at an inconvenient time I will either ignore him and then text him later asking if he needed something, or I'll text then saying that now's not a good time, but x time will be.

    I'm sorry he's such a pain in the butt.
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  • SueBearSueBear member
    Texting is your friend. Not your problem if exH can't text or email.
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