I'm on MBR but have the ability to work from home. I took a sick day yesterday so that I could actually rest while DD was at daycare. I'm thinking about stopping work at 35 weeks so that I can rest for a few weeks before the girls get here. How does that work? With DD I worked all the way up until I went into labor (over Memorial Day weekend).
Do I tell my work when my last day of work will be and then my doctor writes me a note to begin my short term disability? My doctor keeps offering to write me out but I want to work as long as I can since I do have to start paying for 3 in daycare come next year.
Re: Stopping work early and short term disability...
On the paperwork, it will ask for the day when your disability first started. This is when the clock starts, not when you have the baby. Also think if you plan to use vacation time, since you can't "double dip" vaca + std pay.
I went through a big ol' mess bc I orig thought I would take vaca, then 8wks std. Nope. Bc my std paperwork said my disability started the day the boys were born, that's when the clock started. I could choose to take vaca over std, but I wanted to save the vaca for when I returned to work to use over the holidays, etc.
I didn't take leave before I had my babies, but I did get a note to WFH 2x a week. Once that note was in to hr, I HAD to work WFH 2x a week.
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Your std clock would start the day you go out. So if its 2 weeks before you deliver, that's 2 weeks of used std and fmla. There's no way around that unfortunately (I'm former hr). Your employer can always allow you to take more time off but your job wouldn't be federally protected beyond 12 weeks nor would you get any additional std compensation etc.
I want to take a total of 12 weeks after delivery. 8 will be STD (RCS) and the other 4 will be FMLA. I was thinking of asking to be written out at 35 weeks with hope to deliver at 37. So really only 2 weeks prior to delivery. Our company has a one week waiting period. I wasn't aware FMLA ran concurrently with STD.
I'll do more research.
Good luck!
Yeah, if you get written out at 35 weeks your fmla will start then which would then cut into to your plans with taking 12 weeks after the babies thus leaving 10 weeks. You could always speak with your employer to see if they will extend your fmla for two weeks. I am taking 6 months but that is because my government contract allows that long with job protection so it is possible they will grant it. Whenever you are out for a duration for medical or family medical it runs under fmla for your protection. Tl!
You have two causes of STD if you go out before baby is born. 1 - STD due to pregnancy. 2 - STD due to delivery of baby. You typically are on disability for 6 weeks after vaginal birth or 8 weeks after c-section. So the 8 weeks isn't a "total".
Your job should be fully protected up to 12 weeks on disability (FMLA). Mine is protected for up to 26 weeks for medical leave. The rules can be different depending on the location of your job. You're best bet is call HR and ask them what you are eligible for.
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