I am not sure if this is a silly question. My friend who is around my age, in our early 20's, just gave birth to her baby and she was in labor for 27 hours. She also ended up getting an epi and a c-section. This was also her first baby.
From what I have read on this board I need to be prepared by reading, watching videos, and research on how to control my breathing, etc for an unmedicated birth. And the birth classes are very important. BUT, having her tell me that was her labor it kind of "shook" me a little to the possibility that maybe it isn't mind over matter?
I am glad I can come here and ask these questions. I have not asked my midwife about this because my appointment isn't until November 2nd, so I am waiting until then to ask my questions.
So, what do you guys think? Should the fact that her birth was like that freak me out about my own birth? (though isn't every birth different?)
Re: Does how I give birth have to do with my age?
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Provider, hospital and even what region you're in have a lot more to do with a successful vaginal birth. Then again, I went to a MW group that had a 12% c-section rate, and still ended up with a c-section that probably could have been prevented (I got stuck in the hospital in early labor, etc. etc.).
Unless you guys have more things in common than age, I wouldn't worry about her birth in comparison with yours.
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My step sister was 18 when she had her son. She was only about 120 pounds when she had her 8 pound baby. She had a six hour labor. I think it has less to do with age and size and more to do with genetics.
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oh and be prepared for many more horror stories. For some reason people love to scare ftm with every possible way things could go wrong. It's best to just ignore it.
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