The activity level post got me thinking about routines and what we actually do during each part of the day. I feel like I spend most of my day trying to get the baby to sleep, so I am very curious as to how much time other new moms are spending feeding, rocking, playing, etc. with their babies.
For me every day is a bit different, so rather than describing a vague "typical" day, I'd love to see a breakdown of what you did in the last 24 hours. Obviously times will be approximate, but hopefully this will give us a sense of the different ways we are all handling newborn care and getting things done.
Here's mine:
7:00 PM
Eat dinner while baby is in the swing
Watch TV
8:45 PM
Get ready for bed while husband watches the baby
Pump
Clean pump parts, label and freeze milk
9:30 PM
Go to sleep in bed
(DH is on baby duty in the basement - he changes her and gives a bottle at 11:45, then changes her and brings her to me at 2:15)
2:15 AM
Wake up and breast feed baby
Rock the baby to sleep and put her in the crib with the hair dryer running
3:00 AM
Sleep on the nursery floor
5:00 AM
Change and breast feed the baby
Rock the baby to sleep and put her in the crib with the hair dryer running
6:00 AM
Sleep on the nursery floor
7:30 AM
Baby starts to fuss a bit
Tidy up the nursery and collect the dirty laundry while the baby wakes up
Let the dog out and feed him
7:50 AM
Sing the wake up song
Change and breast feed the baby
Dress the baby
8:30 AM
Tummy time
8:50 AM
Put the baby in the ergo and walk around the house until she falls asleep
9:15 AM
Eat cereal for breakfast (wearing baby)
Load the dishwasher/tidy the kitchen (wearing baby)
Check email/facebook/bump (wearing baby)
10:30 AM
Change and breast feed the baby
11:20 AM
Talk to baby and practice tracking with NogginStik
11:40 AM
Rock baby to sleep on my lap
12:50 PM
Put sleeping baby in the bouncer with a white noise app on my phone and carry downstairs
Eat leftovers for lunch
Wash bottles
1:20 PM
Change and breast feed baby
2:00 PM
Shower and get dressed while husband plays with baby and gives Vitamin D drops
Put fussy baby in the car seat
2:30 PM
Drive to Babies R Us with the baby to buy diapers and bottles (but mainly to put her to sleep)
Push baby around the store in the stroller to get her to sleep
4:20 PM
Drive home
4:50 PM
Change and breast feed the baby
5:30 PM
Walk around shushing and bouncing while the baby fusses
5:50 PM
Order take-out
Swaddle and soothe the baby with HBOTB
Put her in the swing with a white noise app on my phone
6:10 PM
Continue to soothe the baby with a pacifier
Check email/facebook/bump
Husband goes to pick up dinner
Feed the dog
7:00 PM
Eat dinner while baby is in the swing
Re: The Past 24 Hours of Your Life
8:45pm nurse baby
2am baby finally falls asleep. Put her down and go to bed. Changed her diaper twice in this time span as well
3:30am baby wakes to feed again. Change diaper first. Doze off holding baby
5am put baby in bassinet
7:30 baby wakes to feed
8am decide to sleep in bed with her
9:30 wake up to brush my teeth and use bathroom before baby wakes. Wash bottles and warm up oatmeal
10:00am nurse baby
11am put baby down only for her to wake again and need more nursing. So nurse and eat cold oatmeal.
11:30am change diaper and clothes, tummy time
12:00 walk to grocery store for Red box, then walk around the neighborhood with baby in the carrier
1:00 get home and start prepping dinner while baby sleeps in carrier
1:30 change diaper and nurse her.
2:30pm put her down in vibrating chair then go to browse internet
3:00 finish dinner prep
3:30 eat lunch
4:00 get laundry together for laundromat
4:15 pump
4:30pm change and nurse dd
5:00 with TV while holding sleeping dd
5:45 dh gets home. Put dd down and do laundry
6:00 nurse dd
6:30 pass dd to dh and start dinner
7:00 nurse dd
7:15 finish dinner
7:30 nurse while eating dinner
8:00 change dd and back to nursing
She's going through her 3week growth spurt so she wants to nurse all the time.
We're one and done!
Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
F16 July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Activity
Hiking and Baseball Games with the Fam
9:00 pm - 12:30 am - DD cluster feeds, takes cat naps, and gets diapers changed
12:30 - DD falls asleep
3:30 - DD wakes up, nurse and change her then try to put her back to sleep
5:00 - DD is back to sleep, I go back to bed
7:00 - I wake up and get dressed
7:15 - DD wakes, nurse and change her
7:50 - DH helps me load DS and DD into car
8:00 - drop both off at sitter and go to work for a few hours
10:15 - back to sitter's house, nurse DD and put her to sleep
11:15 - do some work while DD sleeps
12:20 - load both kids into car and drop DS at preschool
1:00 - arrive home, eat lunch and change clothes, nurse DD and change her
1:40 - DD and I get in car to go to my 6 week PP appt at 2
2:45 - leave doctor's appointment, pick DS up from preschool
3:00 - arrive home, give DS a snack and toys then nurse DD and change her
4:15 - DH arrives home, eat leftovers
5:30 - DH and DS go outside to play, nurse DD and change her
6:15 - head outside to watch neighborhood homecoming parade with DH and DS
7:15 - back inside, clean up some toys then nurse DD and change her
7:30 - DS falls asleep on the couch so we carry him to bed and DH and I watch TV until DD wakes up to eat again!
8:30 - Power pump (10 on, 10 off for an hour)
9:30 - Go to bed
2:00 - Pump
5:00 - Feed baby a bottle of pumped milk
6:15 - Pump and eat breakfast then shower
7:45 - Change, dress, and nurse baby
8:15 - Wake up, change, and dress toddler. Feed her breakfast.
9:00 - Drop toddler off at daycare
9:15 - Nurse baby on and off
10:00 - Unload clean dishes and reload and start dishwasher
10:45 - Feed baby a bottle of pumped milk
11:30 - Go to lunch with friends
11:45 - Nurse baby through lunch (I pick places I can eat one handed)
1:00 - Go to breastfeeding support group
2:00 - Bring husband coffee at work
3:00 - Pick up toddler from daycare
3:30 - Take kids on a walk
4:15 - Nurse baby on and off
5:30 - Go to dinner with friends
7:00 - Nurse baby (one side only)
7:30 - Put toddler to bed
8:00 - Pump
We had a productive day- cleaned the house, did laundry, got a proposal and a conference call done for work, went to Trader Joe's, cooked dinner. LO got tummy time and a walk and we did a lot of BFing. Also got some thank you cards for random gifts we've gotten this week out.
Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
F16 July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Activity
Hiking and Baseball Games with the Fam
BFP 01/05/2013. EDD 09/18/2013. Low Progesterone. Gestational Diabetes. Rh Negative. Baby Ky-Mani born 100% healthy 09/17/2013. TTC#2 12/2013. BFP 02/01/2014! "Baby RaggaMuffin" due 10/07/2014.
We tried sleeping with her in our room and we tried sleeping with her in the nursery while we were both in our room, and neither of us got any sleep with those options. I'm not willing to leave the hair dryer running when I'm not in her room, for safety and because I wouldn't be able to hear her cry.
We found what works for us is taking shifts. My husband takes 9pm-3am (but brings her to me in bed when she needs to nurse) and I take 3am-8am, keeping her away from the bedroom so the other one of us can really sleep. When I am able to get her down on my shift, I catch some extra sleep on the nursery floor.
6:30 am- put DS back in PNP and spend a few minutes with DH before he leaves for work
6:45 back to sleep
9:00 change and BF
10 DS falls asleep in swing. I eat breakfast/shower/clean up
11:30 change and BF
12:15 tummy time/read story/play
1:00 change and BF
2:00- DS falls asleep in bouncer. I nap for 20 min and then do dishes
4:00- change and BF
4:45- strap in ergo to help with fussiness. Start dinner
5:45- DH comes home. Change and BF.
6:30 eat dinner while DS sleeps in bouncer
7:00 watch movie with DH
8:30 change and DH gives bottle. I pump.
9:00 help soothe fussy DS
10:00 DH gives a little more to DH in a bottle.
10:30 put DS down in PNP
10:40 pick him back up to soothe
11:30 change and BF
1:30 am put LO back down in PNP. I sleep
5 am Change and BF
530 am feed and change baby
6am PUMP and eat breakfast with hubby
630 am baby back to sleep , I SLEEP
10 am feed and change baby
10am - 12 Pm SLEEP LOL
12 - 3 pm Watch tv, and do whatever
3pm showered , hung out at home with hubby and baby , PUMP
630PM Date night with hubby, had a MANGO MARGARITA! Carne asada tacos. Dropped off baby with her gradma for 2 hours
930 back home, feed baby , PUMP, change etc.
113o pm back to sleep
RIght now 6 am just fed her and now im pumping