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Stressed... and needing comfort....

boymomstrongboymomstrong member
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So I posted yesterday about being PUPO, and I have my sister and bestie helping me with my LO, but last night my LO got SICK! Throwing up, and miserable! I been up with him all night long, and he is still sick. He just wants his mommy, which I totally understand! But I am worried I did not rest enough for my babies to settle in, and I am hoping that walking around, holding my LO, washing him, and laundry he threw up on wont have hurt our chances...

I guess I am looking for words of wisdom? Advice for the sick baby? or just sticky vibes and baby dust.

Thank you ladies  
:)

Started TTC in 2006, LOTS of trying, and trying, and 7 rounds of IVF with 13 embryos, 2 perfect little boys and 5 loses....
All finished with babies, started to make diet changes, Keto, to be MORE for my kids, lost 30 pounds, still going, and 3 months in, I had a natural cycle, and then ovulated... Hubs and I are going to see what happens now... Maybe a natural pregnancy? After everything we have been through? Or just a return to normal hormones? We shall see what the future holds!

Baby Dust To All!!!

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Re: Stressed... and needing comfort....

  • TJ1979TJ1979 member
    People get (and stay) pregnant under much more extreme circumstances every day. Take it easy on yourself and know that you are doing the best you can do. I hope your LO gets better really soon, and your little embie is snuggling in tight.
    TTC with PCOS since November 2009
    IUI#1 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP, m/c
    IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
    IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
    beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
    beta #2 11/28 = 2055
    Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
    Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
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  • kaf7kaf7 member
    Some clinics recommend bed rest but mine doesn't....they say you're either going to be pregnant or not. Not sure what your clinic does, but it helps me relax about that kind of thing. GL and I hope LO feels better soon.
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  • ccamccam member
    You're doing everything you can!!  My RE recommended taking it easy the day of transfer, no strict bed rest or anything, and then back to work the day after.  Mine was yesterday too and I took it easy yesterday and am home today, but doing more stuff.  There is only so much you can do with another LO running around!!  The paperwork also said not to lift anything over 20 lbs, but my nurse was like "that's just not realistic with a 1 year old" so it's not like they are very strict on that.  I feel like if it's going to happen, it will happen, regardless of bedrest.

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    Trying for #1 since May 2010   l   DX ~ Unexplained Infertility June 2011

    IUI #1&2 = BFN; IUI #3 = BFP, m/c @ 6 weeks

    November '11 ~ IVF#1 ~ ER 11/18 (29R, 17F) ~ 5dt of one beautiful blast on 11/23 = BFP!!

    Beta #1 9dp5dt = 116, P4 = 28 ~ Beta #2 13dp5dt = 700 ~ Beta #3 20dp5dt = 9500, P4 = 26

    1st u/s 12/27 - hb of 156!! EDD 8.10.12 :)   **TEAM GREEN!**

    Sweet baby boy born 8.18.12

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    Trying for #2

    FET #1 - October '13 - c/p   l   FET #2 - December '13 - cancelled :(   l   FET #2.2 - 1.30.14 - BFN

    ~ More testing - hysteroscopy, endometrial biopsy & more b/w - all normal / negative~

    Surprise BFP while waiting on FET #3 ~ beta #1 500; beta #2 1600; first u/s 4/3 - measuring 5w5d, no hb yet!; 2nd u/s 4/10 - hb 132, measuring 6w6d - EDD 11.29.14 :)    **TEAM GREEN!**

    Beautiful baby girl born 11.24.14

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  • boymomstrongboymomstrong member
    Thank you ladies, I am hoping its already happening... Just feeling concerned about all this... 

    ccam: Its not even realistic to not lift your little one, my guy is only 18lbs so still not 20, but still.....

    Thank you 

    Started TTC in 2006, LOTS of trying, and trying, and 7 rounds of IVF with 13 embryos, 2 perfect little boys and 5 loses....
    All finished with babies, started to make diet changes, Keto, to be MORE for my kids, lost 30 pounds, still going, and 3 months in, I had a natural cycle, and then ovulated... Hubs and I are going to see what happens now... Maybe a natural pregnancy? After everything we have been through? Or just a return to normal hormones? We shall see what the future holds!

    Baby Dust To All!!!

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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member
    I SAH. After my FET I rested for one day and was back to taking care of DS on my own the next. Both of our embies stuck and we have twin DDs from the cycle. You are fine hon. I hope your LO feels better soon!
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  • boymomstrongboymomstrong member
    Dragonfly1226 said:
    I SAH. After my FET I rested for one day and was back to taking care of DS on my own the next. Both of our embies stuck and we have twin DDs from the cycle. You are fine hon. I hope your LO feels better soon!
    Thank you for this,I am hoping that we are successful, the whole process is just so stressful... 

    Started TTC in 2006, LOTS of trying, and trying, and 7 rounds of IVF with 13 embryos, 2 perfect little boys and 5 loses....
    All finished with babies, started to make diet changes, Keto, to be MORE for my kids, lost 30 pounds, still going, and 3 months in, I had a natural cycle, and then ovulated... Hubs and I are going to see what happens now... Maybe a natural pregnancy? After everything we have been through? Or just a return to normal hormones? We shall see what the future holds!

    Baby Dust To All!!!

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  • CallMeAlCallMeAl member
    Just think.... People who get pregnant without ART dont ever take any bedrest and they get pregnant all the time! I hope you feel better!
    DX: Severe MFI 
    IVF # 1 ~ Antagonist ~ ER 1/27/11~ ET 1/30/11 ~ + HPT 7dp3dt 
    DD born med-free on 10/24/11 
    Lilypie - (lZjk)
    IVF # 2 ~Antagonist ~ ER 6/5/13 ~ ET 6/10/13 ~ + HPT 4dp5dt 
    Lilypie - (OUlo)

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  • carrera317carrera317 member
    I understand the worry substantiated or not. It's not in your hands at this point. Sending some sticky dust for you!
    Me = 36 with PCOS and 1 tube removed for a cyst and adhesions
    DH = 35 with low morphology

    April '09 IVF (antagonist protocol) = 5R5M, none fertilized, cancelled at ET
    May/June '09 IVF/ICSI = 6R6M6F, 2ET on 6.18.09, 1 frostie, Beta on
    6.30.09 = 51 OMG!! Beta #2 = 167 Beta #3 = 2630!!!!! An uneventful pregnancy. 
    3.16.10 a healthy beautiful miracle boy born via unscheduled c-section

    Now on the quest for another, so our dear son is not alone.

    May/June '12 IVF/ICSI (antagonist protocol) =10R9M9F, 1ET = BFN, 2 frosties
    Aug '12 FET, 1ET= beta hell, 2 rounds of methotrexate, 4 months later Hcg < 2 
    Jan/Feb '13 IVF/ICSI (long lupron protocol) = 18R18M18F, 1ET = BFN, 10 frosties
    Apr '13 FET w 2ET (one from '09 and one newer) = (strep throat during 2ww) biochemical = BFN
    June '13 FET w 2ET = 1 baby boy lost at 10w, D/E with karyotyping, loss due to monosomy 21.
    Karyotyping of me and DH negative for a balance translocation.
    Dec '13 FET w 2ET, BFP!!!! 12/26 beta #1 10dp5dt = 781, beta 2 12dpt= 2234 could this be real?!
      Not giving up yet.
    5 frosties on ice.

    Truly realizing how much of a miracle my son is and praying this will be a sibling for him.
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  • imoveritimoverit member
    Sending sticky vibes your way.
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