So I had a doctor's appointment yesterday and everything looked good. Also our harmony results had come in Monday and we found out all the screening went well, but I told the nurse I didn't want to know the gender quite yet and could she please email it to me and I'd look at it with my husband when we were ready.
We aren't team green, we were planning on finding out, but I wanted to wait until 16 weeks - pgal brain was just telling me to wait and it'd be bad luck to get let this pregnancy feel real too fast. And so we planned to actually have a gender reveal party the first weekend in November (it was going to be the kick off of my commitment not to be worried or depressed anymore).
But...yeah...the nurse we saw yesterday (who I LOVE) didn't get that memo. The first thing she said was - SO I HEAR YOU'RE HAVING A GIRL.
I'm so shocked. DH's family is full of boys, no girls AT ALL. So I was really surprised and am still actually really happy.
I don't know what to do about the gender reveal party though. Right now we're still planning on doing it, but since we know...is it lame?
Anyway. We're having a GIRL.