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Miscarriage at 5 weeks

Kellymac44Kellymac44 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
So I recently found out I was pregnant after 9 months of trying. We actually had stopped trying this month, so it was a happy surprise. I took a test after feeling a little nauseous. I had a strong BFP. I made a card for my husband from our would be baby, saying I'll see you in nine months. After that it all went down hill. I had horrible chest pain from I assume gas/ constipation. I took a suppository which was ok'd by the doc. After that my symptoms stopped. I knew in my heart I wasn't pg anymore. But my Mom reassured me it was all in my head. 4 days later I woke up in the middle of the night with HORRIBLE cramping and a gush of blood. I've been bleeding and cramping ever since. I just needed to share my story with someone. My husband try's to be understanding, but I think he doesn't think it's a big deal since I was only 5 weeks. I just wanted that baby so bad and then to have that taken away right after I finally had that positive test is heart breaking. I feel guilty, inadequate, and just plain heart broken. Thanks for letting me vent.
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  • alilbearalilbear member
    I'm so sorry for your loss @Kellymac44. I hope you find this board to be a supportive place that helps you heal. We all understand what you are going through. You are not inadequate.

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  • MrsRusty14MrsRusty14 member
    So sorry for your loss. It is the worst feeling in the world to want something so badly like we wanted our babies, and to have it taken away. I hope you find support on the board.

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  • dajhughesdajhughes member
    Oh I am so sorry for your loss. You're right. It is heartbreaking. We are mothers from the moment we learn we are pregnant and that loss is immense. Peace to you.
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  • KacieLeighKacieLeigh member
    dajhughes said:
    Oh I am so sorry for your loss. You're right. It is heartbreaking. We are mothers from the moment we learn we are pregnant and that loss is immense. Peace to you.
    So true.  I'm sorry for your loss @kellymac44.  I'm right there with you.  I lost mine 6 days after I found out on this past Sunday.  Every day I feel a little better.  Hugs to you.

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  • Kellymac44Kellymac44 member
    Thank you everyone for your kind words. I have avoided looking at the board until now, because of embarrassment. I have a hard time sharing my feelings. I'm so glad I checked back. Your supportive and sweet words have really blessed me. Th ank you.
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  • kaniela17kaniela17 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. You don't have to feel embarrassed. I just went through the same. Started bleeding at 5 weeks although compared to your story I'm beginning to wonder if I was pregnant at all even though I got a positive hpt. We've only told a couple ppl who knew we were trying cuz I didn't want to hear from anyone that its not a big deal cuz it was so early. I hope you are able to get some comfort n support on this board. The TTCAL board ladies are also very nice n supportive as well when you n your husband are ready to try again.
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  • IhopeIhope member
    Sorry for your loss. Never had a pain as deep as with miscarriage. Not sure someone who hasn't gone through it could ever understand.
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