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Feeling angry today

czarmomczarmom member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
I found out last Wednesday at my 10 week appt that we had lost the baby at 8 weeks.   Had a D&E on Thursday.  Spent the days since Wednesday in a complete fog.   Returned to work today and it's the first day I haven't broken down and cried yet.   I find myself getting more and more angry today about what happened.   How my husband and I were "robbed" of the baby we wanted to badly.   I try not to go there but I'm also angry at people that don't even deserve to be having children or don't want them and how easily they have pregnancies and don't even care.   This was our first attempt at getting pregnant (we each have a child from our previous marriages) and I'm a mess.   Plain and simple.   So, today is angry.   I'm hoping this is part of the grieving process and is productive somehow.  :( 

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BFP #1 - DS 2007

BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13

BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14



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Re: Feeling angry today

  • libby+natelibby+nate member
    Angry is a completely normal part of the grieving process. It is good to let yourself feel the emotions but it sucks and it is not fair that you find yourself here. (Hugs) to you! I also used the word robbed in my intro. I find it fitting for the situation, as well as unfair and down right terrible
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  • alm288alm288 member
    I think it's part of the grieving process as well. There is not one way that everyone grieves. I was in the subway today and couldn't bring myself to look at a woman with her little baby. It just seemed so unfair. I'm trying not to compare myself to others, but it's hard. Good luck!
    TTC: Since July 2013
    BFP #1: EDD 05/27/2014 (D&C 10/17/2014)
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