I wasn't sure where to post this, and since I am here a lot and have twins I picked the the multiples forum! Anyways, my MIL is constantly bringing us stuff for the babies. It started while I was pregnant and then really got crazy after the babies were born. Apparently she started frequenting yard sales and thrift stores while I was pregnant and has not stopped yet. Now, I have no problem with used goods, but this seems to be getting out of hand. Not only that but she is contantly bringing me their next holiday outfit months before the holiday is here. She already tells me she has this and that - things we won't need for a year or more. Things that I have not even thought about purchasing because there is no need for it yet. She buys things that I have asked her not to get. We have a small house and no extra space for this stuff. It's really starting to annoy me. Partly because I have no space and partly because these are my first kids and I want to buy them the things they need. Ya, it's nice to have help from grandparents, don't get me wrong, I am not being ungrateful. But I just feel as if this is out of hand. My DH just says, say thank you and use what you want, blah, blah, blah..... So, back to my initial question...is this normal for a grandma (especially if it's her first grandkids) to go crazy buying stuff like this?
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Re: Is this normal? MIL/grandma question
Good luck!
My MIL knows that when it comes to Holiday outfits, they are mine to choose. She is a seamstress so she is always ready to make me something. She usually makes DDs Halloween costumes but this year we decided to just order from Etsy because I knew she was busy making 3 quilts.
And if she doesn't ... well, that's when it's not normal.