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Late Term and Child Loss
Mrs Nice
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Loss Check In
Mrs Nice
member
Welcome to our checkin!
I am sorry to have to welcome new loss moms this week but am so glad that you have found us. I hope we can bring each other some much needed comfort and support. Please feel free to join in when you are ready and share as much or as little as you wish. Also, if you have any questions you would like answered, just ask! Any lurkers out there please don't be shy, we would like to be able to support you too.
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week?
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal?
QOTW: Do you have anything special planned for October 15th on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day?
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
I am sorry to have to welcome new loss moms this week but am so glad that you have found us. I hope we can bring each other some much needed comfort and support. Please feel free to join in when you are ready and share as much or as little as you wish. Also, if you have any questions you would like answered, just ask! Any lurkers out there please don't be shy, we would like to be able to support you too.
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week?
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal?
QOTW: Do you have anything special planned for October 15th on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day?
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
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Re: Loss Check In
BFP #1 - DS 2007
BFP #2 - 8/25/13 - mmc 10/10/13
BFP #3 - 1/14/14 - EDD 9/30/14
ticker warning (rainbow mentioned)
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week? I don't feel like I ever take steps toward healing, because sometimes I feel pretty good, and other times I am an emotional mess and I go back and forth.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal? This has been my goal for a while, I want to get the nursery ready, and decide once and for all if we'll be using any of Kayla's clothes we had for her, for the new baby. Part of it will depend on the sex of this baby, and part will depend how I feel when I start working on the nursery.
QOTW: Do you have anything special planned for October 15th on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day? We'll light a candle, and I plan to tell of my first loss (which many don't know about) on facebook. I'm nervous, but my hope is to try to help break the silence, and spread awareness.
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Just missing my girl, as always. Wondering if this new baby will be a girl as well, and if she'll look like Kayla.
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!
Have you taken any new steps towards healing this week? Not really. I have been participating in the Capture Your Grief photo challenge this month and have found that very healing. I've had both my sister and a friend tell me how inspiring it is that I am doing it. I like know that I am able to share Izzie with others in a way that isn't scary.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal? My next goal is just to breathe. And keep breathing.
QOTW: Do you have anything special planned for October 15th on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day? My hospital will be holding a memorial service and DH and our parents will be attending. I am also working on a memorial candle for Izzie to light this year and hopefully for years to come. Here is a link to the tutorial I am using if anyone is interested: https://smallbirdstudios.com/2011/12/03/12-days-of-christmas-with-you-in-heaven-day-6/
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week? Always my Izzie
I am going on vacation on Sunday. I am excited for the long drive down to Orlando. It will be nice to get away. I have also been trying to write in my journal more often.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal?
I have set up an appointment with a grief counselor, I am trying to convince DH to come, but it is proving difficult.
QOTW: Do you have anything special planned for October 15th on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day?
I plan on lighting a candle on the day.
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
I have partaking in the Capture Your Grief October photo challenge and that has been some what helpful. I get to talk about my baby with out feeling judged. But days are different, some days I'm feeling really good and some days I just want to bury my head and not be bothered.
What is the next goal you have set for yourself? Do you have a plan to help achieve that goal?
I don't have any real goals. I've noticed that when I think too much into the future I give myself major anxiety. So I guess my goals are to just get through everyday thinking "one day at a time."
QOTW: Do you have anything special planned for October 15th on Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day?
I've been feeling a strong pull towards church. Maybe I'll make an appearance there and sit for a mass. Pray for myself and other angel parents!
Open Topic. What is on your mind this week?
Consistently Domenik. Even when I try not to think of him, I'm thinking of him. I try to distract my mind, but he still pops up. Doesn't matter what I'm doing, it always correlates to him some how.