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Trying to keep calm...

MercyGaleMercyGale member
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I posted on 1st Tri, but I am still so new over there.... So, I have been having mild spotting... since Monday. I mentioned this when I went into the doctor to get my confirmation HPT. It has been very light pink, or brownish and only when I wipe, that is until just now. I went to the bathroom and when I wiped it was a streak of bright red. So I wiped again, a little further in (tmi I know) and there it was again. So I wiped until it wasn't showing up anymore. I am so scared now. :/ I am on the verge of tears... Idk what to do, I am afraid if I call tomorrow they will think I am being paranoid, I am only 4 weeks... but I am so afraid of what may be happening. My heart is literally falling out of my chest right now... I cant even muster up the courage to go back to bed and tell DH what just happen... I cant break his heart, especially not being sure whats going on...            

DH & I 23
Married: 3/23/13 Together since: 4/11/10
DD born 4/19/09 after a summer fling after graduation. Not planned
Dx with Endometriosis and Ovarian Cysts July 2010
TTC since July 2010

DX with unexplained secondary IF 2012
BFP Oct 6, 2013
Confirmation BFP at Dr. Office Oct 7, 2013

Miscarriage confirmed 10/19/13

CD 21 full panel blood work 3/18/14 to initiate fertility treatment

Psalm 34:18 "...The Lord is close to the broken hearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit..."

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Re: Trying to keep calm...

  • kndeckarkndeckar member
    Don't be worried to call just because you're only 4 weeks! Trust me I got over my fear of sounding crazy after my 3rd m/c so I call for everything. They can get you in for beta levels and you'll be happy you did so you can at least know what's going on. Sending lots of positive thoughts! Good luck!
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  • MrsMegan922MrsMegan922 member
    kndeckar said:
    Don't be worried to call just because you're only 4 weeks! Trust me I got over my fear of sounding crazy after my 3rd m/c so I call for everything. They can get you in for beta levels and you'll be happy you did so you can at least know what's going on. Sending lots of positive thoughts! Good luck!


    This.

    After having two m/c's and a CP - I am kinda over the "I am worried I sound crazy" and just call or ask when I need to. That's what they are there for!

    Hoping it is the "normal" kind of spotting. Sending T&P your way.

    BFP #1 7/31/09 - m/c 8/22/09

    BFP #2 4/15/10 - DD born 12/31/10

    TTC #2 since July 2012

    BFP #3 9/24/12 - m/c 10/15/12

    Dx PCOS/LPD 5/2013 - Rx Metformin (1500mg) and GF diet

    BFP #4 6/10/13 - CP 6/12/13

    8/2013 Rx for low dose Naltrexone

    9/2013 DH's SA showed low motility/morph/viability

    10/2013 Lap removed multiple areas of scar tissue adhesions and opened blocked tube.

    BFP #5 1/24/2014 - EDD 10/3/2014

    This could be it! Grow baby!

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  • Gator_Bride07Gator_Bride07 member
    Please call! Don't worry about what they'll think. I'm sure they are used to concerned parents calling in. I am hoping everything works out for you!
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  • Sweetest116Sweetest116 member
    Please call like everyone already said.  But take a breath and remember spotting/bleeding in 1st tri IS VERY VERY COMMON.  As my OB says "I've seen a ton of spotting and a ton of babies" :)
    <3 Baby #1 BFP 6/10/2011-EDD 2/19/2012-DS Born 2/10/2012!
    :'(  CP BFP 1/6/2013-EDD 9/19/2013-CP 1/9/2013
    <3 Baby #2 BFP 1/3/2014-EDD 9/12/2014 -DD Born 9/10/2014!
    <3 Baby #3 BFP 7/8/2018-EDD 3/17/2019-Team Green!




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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Hopefully it is nothing. Call the dr! Remember you are a PAYING customer and therefore it is your RIGHT to act as crazy as you please!

    You will be in my prayers!
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Pretty much what everyone said... Good luck I hope it is nothing. Keep us updated! 



      


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  • Amores0121Amores0121 member
    Please rest and drink lots of water. Try to keep your feet up.  Don't feel crazy to call your doctor, but most likely they are going to tell you that "it is normal and at this point there is nothing they can do because it is too early to see anything". Which is all true, but doesn't make you feel any better. At this point, there is nothing that can be done, it is just a waiting game.  I am sorry you are going through this stress, but try to remain calm. See if they will do betas to see if they are doubling.  ((hugs)) I know it is scary.


    BFP #1 ended in MMC. Discovered Oct 2005 @10w5d, baby stopped growing around 6w. D&C.
    BFP#2 Nov 2005. Baby's heart stopped @ 8w3d. D&C Jan 2006. Trisomy 18
    BFP#3 Nov 2006. My "miracle baby" DD born 7/25/07
    BFP #4 11/6/12. EDD 7/16/13~my birthday! No sac found @ 5w1d, betas not increasing. Natural m/c started 11/20/12.

    BFP#5 11/9/13.  EDD 7/21/14  Our beautiful rainbow born on his due date!!

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  • cerad5cerad5 member
    Don't feel weird for calling, that's what you are paying them for :)
    DD 12/1/2009
    TTC#2 Since May 2012
    Dx PCOS February 2013 on Metformin 1500 mg
    Met with RE October 2013, we've got a plan!
    Surprise BFP on "break cycle" 10/12/13. EDD 6/17/14.
    MMC discovered 11/25/13 at 10 weeks. D&C 11/27/13.
    BFP 2/8/14 Beta#1: 176, Prog 18! Beta#2:335, Prog, 19.5!
    EDD 10/16/2014

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