Late Term and Child Loss

capture your grief day 10

Day 10: Beliefs: Do you have a certain belief about what happens to us after we die? You might believe that we go to a heaven or you might believe that our bodies eventually turn to dust and that is the end of our story. Before you take part in Day 10 please note this, I welcome everyone to join this Capture Your Grief Challenge including people of all belief systems and also those who have no beliefs at all. What I ask of you, is that you respect everyone else here. Please feel free to share your beliefs whether they are religious, spiritual or not. If you choose to share your beliefs today, please make sure that you respect everyone else’s beliefs even if you do not agree or understand them. Do not tell anyone else that they are wrong if they do not share your own beliefs and please do not push your views onto anyone else. I am very proud to say that everyone who comes to my page are 99% of the time respectful to each other and very kind (I sometimes wonder if I am being protected by a greater force as it is so rare to have so very few problems on a social media page with 1000′s of people!). I would really love everyone to honour this request for love and respect today. We can all complete this day peacefully together. I believe this day can be a very interesting and beautiful one. Let us honour our similarities and our differences too.
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Re: capture your grief day 10

  • I'm not sure I know what I believe about where my son is. But I do believe that he visits us in the beautiful things; rainbows, butterflies, sunny days. I like to think it's his way of saying, "I'm okay. "
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  • Day 10: I believe my daughter is in heaven waiting for us to see her again. This picture became very comforting to me after losing Elsie. If I could not hold her and comfort her, it brought me comfort knowing that she was being held. 

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  • schulme2schulme2 member
    edited October 2013
    All of this has really forced me to question some of my beliefs. What remains true for me: God exists. Heaven exists. Mary is an angel in heaven watching over us and especially her brother. I used to picture her laying on her side with her head propped up on her hand eating an apple on top of Walter's isolette saying, "I got this, mom!". It brings me comfort to think Mary is with her great-grandparents and that we will get to see her again when we get there.
  • Day 10: Beliefs:

    I believe in GOD and that there is a Heaven. I know we will see Brooke again one day on the other side of Heaven. We are counting down the days till we see our beautiful angel again! Till then, I am holding her in my heart and loving her with everything I got.

    Brooke Elizabeth born Feb 17, 2013 grew wings May 9, 2013 @ 11 weeks & 4 days old from SIDS

     

     

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  • I'm not completely sure what I believe in. I believe that Domenik is waiting for me in heaven, protecting me, and waiting to protect his future siblings. I also beleive in reincarnation and I think Domenik will come back into my life as someone or something else. I like to light candles because when I see the flame flicker I like to believe its him. I also have a wind chime and when I hear it I like to think its him! I also like to believe he is a shining star, like Mufasa tells Simba in the movie the Lion King.
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  • I never really thought about what happens once we die (like REALLY thought about it) until Annabelle passed away.  And then I thought about it a lot.  I believe there is a heaven and she is at waiting for us, but what it's like exactly I don't know.  I also like to think that she is around me.  I like to think that she leaves me little pieces of herself in my daily life.  I get reminders of her when I look at my other children, when I see a butterfly, or when there is a rainbow in the sky.   Sometimes I look up in the sky and I get scared that my tiny little peanut is alone in such a vast space, but I just pray that she is surrounded by love and that she has no idea what pain and loneliness are.  I often hear that she is in a better place, and even though I believe that, it does not help my heart from hurting less.  A baby is meant to be in her mother's arms, and when that doesn't happen (no matter how wonderful heaven is) it doesn't feel like she is where she is meant to be.  
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  • believe that Leah, Rachel and Gabriel are in heaven.

    I believe they are being held and rocked and sang to by our grandparents and friends that have passed on. I have this beautiful picture of our grandparents fighting over who gets to hold who! (Just like grandparents do on earth!)

    I chose a picture of our church - which I guess is also their church. They attended many services, heard many sermons, hymns and me singing - I think it's an appropriate picture for today.
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  • Day 10: Beliefs
    I believe that there are so many things we don't understand. I believe that I need to keep faith part of my life in order to feel my Bean is somewhere other than dust. I believe that I will never truly understand why certain people are given such difficult tasks. I believe that my beliefs are still trying to repair themselves.
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