Hi everyone, I've been posting on various discussions here and there but haven't updated on my status. I have been incredibly fortunate with family and friends coming to visit each and every day. I can't even say I've been bored and in fact, I've had to "stagger" my visiting schedule between everyone. I truly believe seeing everyone gives me reinforcement and courage to continue on this hospital bedrest.
So I have done some research and I have what's called prePROM, which occurs in 3% of pregnancies and is unexplainable. I broke my water last Monday at 24 +2 and really should have gone into labor within 72 hours, as most other cases do. However, I've held out 10 days this far and now looking forward to celebrating 26 weeks with my little peanut on Saturday. We've had some ups and downs. Last Friday I started seriously bleeding and a scan showed that LO flipped into the breech position (which is where he is right now). In the process, he made my stomach lining bleed (since there is no fluid separating us). Doctors weren't too worried and my cervix to this day remains closed with no contractions and they were impressed with LO's mobility. The true fear is infection since my lining is technically open, I'm at a high risk for infection. In that case, the docs will have to immediately deliver. I did my round of antibiotics so its a waiting game now.
I feel incredibly lucky to have made it this far and as the longer LO cooks inside of me, the less complications he will have at birth. I met with the NICU team and they have over 50 premies at the moment with capacity up to 70. They really impressed me with their knowledge and facilities so I know when LO gets here, he will be in the right hands. I have to hold out at least to 28 weeks, the risk of complications is significantly reduced for LO after that, so Halloween for me will be a very special celebration this year!!!
Ill try to upstate once a week or so, hopefully it will just be boring updates until 34 weeks!
I'm editing because my preggo brain completely forgot to thank each and every one of you for your well wishes and your kind thoughts! You have been an incredible support and I would have never thought that I would find it so comforting to commiserate with other women on the Internet, but here I am! Thank you guys! I couldn't have done it without your constant support.
Sounds like little guy is doing great and wants to stay put in there:) You seem to be so positive about the hospitalization and the whole experience, I'm glad it hasn't been horrible for you! Fx he wants to stay put until Halloween at least:) You'll be in my T&P's..hopefully there's no sign of infection anytime in the near future for you!
I'm so glad your baby is still inside and you're staying strong. At this point, every day helps the baby get stronger, and I know you're in the best possible place to look after him.
Glad baby is still cooking! That's great you have so many visitors to keep you occupied. If I was closer, I'd come visit you! I'll be thinking of you and thanks for updating!
Thank you for updating us!!! It sounds like the hospital staff is wonderful and your attitude is amazing. Hoping for weeks more of uneventful "baking".
Thanks for the update! I hope you post many more great updates like this one!
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Glad to hear that things are going well so far... it sounds like you are being really positive and hopeful, I hope you have an uneventful wait until the 28 week mark!
Thanks for the update! So glad to hear little man is still cooking and user the circumstances your doing good as well. Thoughts and prayers continue to go out.
I love boring updates. Keep hanging in there. Every time I see you post on some other thread I feel a little relief that everything is going well for you.
I keep meaning to post this for you. This gal is a former bumpy---nbjenni---, whose water broke with twins at 24 weeks, but was able to carry nearly to term. She no longer updates her blog, but her contact info might still be current.
Baby Chugging born 12.28.13 induction due to HELLP
Oh I am so glad to see this post! I had chills reading it. I'm definitely pulling for you and your LO and it's good to see that you are still cooking! Hang in there mama! You'll be at 28 weeks before you know it.
Mama of boys, Landon (Jan 14) and Harrison (Aug 15).
I keep meaning to post this for you. This gal is a former bumpy---nbjenni---, whose water broke with twins at 24 weeks, but was able to carry nearly to term. She no longer updates her blog, but her contact info might still be current.
Wow great story and I can't believe eventually, her doctors send her home. My doc has rejected any thought of me leaving the hospital even after 30 weeks, he still feels it will be too risky.
I will say that something she said totally resonated with me: I will walk on hot coals for this LO; if me staying here is what will keep my LO from experiencing one less surgery, tube or even one less extra day in the NICU, I will do it with a smile on my face. I think this is what keeps me from feeling sorry for myself. I'm growing this little life and I want him to be perfect when he comes out even if I get to spend the next two months in the hospital bed!
Thank you so much for the update. You've been on my mind and in my prayers since the hospital bed rest started. So glad you are having frequent visitors! I'm so sorry to hear about the stomach lining bleed and the high risk of infection. I hope these issues remain relatively under control and that LO gets bigger and stronger everyday!
Married October 2009. Me 29 H 28. After 1 year of infertility, our little miracle was conceived via our 3rd IUI on May 5, 2013. Holland Sophia was born Jan 24, 2014.
What a great update. I am so glad that things are still going well. I will keep praying for you and your little guy! I am glad your in a good place with doctors you trust.
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BFP #1 5/21/10, Missed m/c at 10w4d (baby measured 8wks), D&C 6/29/10
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What fighters you guys are! I hope the rest of this month is incredibly uneventful for you both!
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BFP #1 (letrozole 2.5mg + ovidrel) February 2016, MMC April 2016 @ 7 weeks
BFP #2 (letrozole 5mg + ovidrel) July 2016, Beta #1 359, Beta #2 745, Beta #3 11484
EDD April 9th, 2017
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I keep meaning to post this for you. This gal is a former bumpy---nbjenni---, whose water broke with twins at 24 weeks, but was able to carry nearly to term. She no longer updates her blog, but her contact info might still be current.
Baby Chugging born 12.28.13
induction due to HELLP
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I will say that something she said totally resonated with me: I will walk on hot coals for this LO; if me staying here is what will keep my LO from experiencing one less surgery, tube or even one less extra day in the NICU, I will do it with a smile on my face. I think this is what keeps me from feeling sorry for myself. I'm growing this little life and I want him to be perfect when he comes out even if I get to spend the next two months in the hospital bed!
BFP #2 03/08/11 EDD 11/16/11 DD Born on 11/04/11
BFP #3 08/29/12 EDD 05/06/13 M/C on 08/30/12
BFP #4 11/01/12 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C on 12/28/12
BFP #5 04/30/13 EDD 01/03/14 DS Born on 01/02/14
BFP #6 01/11/15 EDD 09/22/15 M/C 03/09/15
I will pray for you!
Carter Robert 7.18.08 | Brynn Sophia 5.24.10 | Reid Joseph 9.10.12 | Emerson Mae 1.27.14
Married October 2009. Me 29 H 28.
After 1 year of infertility, our little miracle was conceived via our 3rd IUI on May 5, 2013.
Holland Sophia was born Jan 24, 2014.
Due with baby boy # 2 in May 2016
DD #1 born January 2014
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