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TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
edited October 2013 in Trying to Get Pregnant
Would you ladies participate in reading if attached to the Library at the beginning of the post was a statement saying to read at your own risk and if you feel you don't want to see yourself being flamed, then don't read it?

The Library 141 votes

Yes, I would participate.
46% 66 votes
No, I would not participate. I like to piss rainbows and shit glitter all over TTGP/TB
32% 46 votes
SS-please explain
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    BrightEyes112 said:
    But will people use names or will it be 'omg its totes about me' 'no its me' shit?
    Names.

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  • brownmousebrownmouse member
    I don't know what yall are talking about, so I would probably read it. I'm nosey.
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  • KingLEDKingLED member
    edited October 2013
    I don't think it would be an issue if it was on the basis that you're only up for being called out on something IF you enter.  If you want to know what people think of you, great.  But if you're going on the assumption that people are possibly talking about you and your only defense is "if you don't want to hear it just don't read it," that's kind of crap. 

    ETA: hopefully that makes sense.  Let me know if it doesn't.
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  • KingLEDKingLED member
    ScrappyLika said:
    EllyD14 said:
    I don't think it would be an issue if it was on the basis that you're only up for being called out on something IF you enter.  If you want to know what people think of you, great.  But if you're going on the assumption that people are possibly talking about you and your only defense is "if you don't want to hear it just don't read it," that's kind of crap. 

    ETA: hopefully that makes sense.  Let me know if it doesn't.
    Do you mean that only people that enter can be talked about??
    Yes.
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    If you want to participate and don't care about being called out please PM me and I will compile a list.
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  • SqueepatrolSqueepatrol member
    I imagine people showing up in the thread like Audrey from little shop of horrors, going "Read Me!!!!"
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    Squeepatrol said:
    I know people like this stuff and it is compelling and entertaining -- and as a relative newb I'm not going to try to "change the board" or police what other people like. But I don't like talking smack about my friends in real life and I don't need that drama in what for me, is a pleasant distraction from the ups and downs of ttc. So I would probably try to stay out (but my narcissism might pull me in against my better judgment).
    Sometimes people say stupid shit and need to be called out on it. Otherwise they'll keep saying stupid shit and be ignorant forever. A call out can help someone out a great deal. 
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  • MeggoWafflesMeggoWaffles member
    edited October 2013
    I think there's a big difference between shitting glitter and not going out of your way to bitch someone out just because they get on your nerves. I would probably abstain. If someone has something to say to me, you are welcome to pm me.

    Eta: if someone says something that deserves a response, I think you should do it then and there. Why have a special thread, that the person might not even read, to bring it all up again?
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    Squeepatrol said:
    Squeepatrol said:
    I know people like this stuff and it is compelling and entertaining -- and as a relative newb I'm not going to try to "change the board" or police what other people like. But I don't like talking smack about my friends in real life and I don't need that drama in what for me, is a pleasant distraction from the ups and downs of ttc. So I would probably try to stay out (but my narcissism might pull me in against my better judgment).
    Sometimes people say stupid shit and need to be called out on it. Otherwise they'll keep saying stupid shit and be ignorant forever. A call out can help someone out a great deal. 
    PMs accomplish this without public humiliation.
    If that's how you want it handled then you can PM people you have a problem with. Idk if you were around for the BOAB threads....but those were the shit. They need to make a come back. This board has gone soft and quite frankly it's fucking boring. 
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    MeggoWaffles said:
    I think there's a big difference between shitting glitter and not going out of your way to bitch someone out just because they get on your nerves. I would probably abstain. If someone has something to say to me, you are welcome to pm me. Eta: if someone says something that deserves a response, I think you should do it then and there. Why have a special thread, that the person might not even read, to bring it all up again?
    When people say stuff like this, I think they'd be one to get called out, and they know it. 
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    @MauiBliss BOAB
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  • SqueepatrolSqueepatrol member
    Like I said, if the regs want to cleanse by fire, that's their prerogative I guess. I have wine and sex to keep myself entertained. But to pretend it's for some altruistic purpose of "helping someone" and not to start drama is some concern-troll bs.
    TheLibrarianTTGP said:


    Squeepatrol said:

    TheLibrarianTTGP said:


    Squeepatrol said:

    I know people like this stuff and it is compelling and entertaining -- and as a relative newb I'm not going to try to "change the board" or police what other people like. But I don't like talking smack about my friends in real life and I don't need that drama in what for me, is a pleasant distraction from the ups and downs of ttc. So I would probably try to stay out (but my narcissism might pull me in against my better judgment).

    Sometimes people say stupid shit and need to be called out on it. Otherwise they'll keep saying stupid shit and be ignorant forever. A call out can help someone out a great deal. 
    PMs accomplish this without public humiliation.

    If that's how you want it handled then you can PM people you have a problem with. Idk if you were around for the BOAB threads....but those were the shit. They need to make a come back. This board has gone soft and quite frankly it's fucking boring. 

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  • themrsJRDthemrsJRD member
    CrazyCornball said:

    Um, I just found the confessional.

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    LMAO, when was the last post? I haven't looked at it in awhile. 
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    @squeepatrol
    I'm calling you out on how you absolutely suck at responding after you quote something. I'm assuming you're on mobile and you're just being lazy and not scrolling down to the bottom to write your response.

    Please stop doing that. 
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  • SqueepatrolSqueepatrol member
    TheLibrarianTTGP said:

    @squeepatrol

    I'm calling you out on how you absolutely suck at responding after you quote something. I'm assuming you're on mobile and you're just being lazy and not scrolling down to the bottom to write your response.

    Please stop doing that. 
    Ha, you got me there. Mobile apologies.
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    CrazyCornball said:
    themrsJRD said:
    CrazyCornball said:

    Um, I just found the confessional.

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    LMAO, when was the last post? I haven't looked at it in awhile. 
    September 8th I think...about a month ago. There is one post and I'm just dying to find out if the dude divorced his wife. I will never know.......
    The TTGP Confessional? Link for those that don't know what you're talking about please.
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    edited October 2013
    Rocknroll64 said:
    @ThelibrarianTTGP   If you're gonna do it then just do it already.  You're an AE, are you really that concerned about getting banned? 
    @Rocknroll64 I'll call you out since you ventured in. You need to learn when to stop beating dead horses. You shove your opinion so far and so hard down the throats of others I'm surprised your arm is still attached. Also, GTFO of TTGP already. I usually DGAF when grads hang around because they stay awesome and stuff, but you offer nothing but annoyance. Too-da-loo preggo. 

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    TheLibrarianTTGP said:
    Rocknroll64 said:
    @ThelibrarianTTGP   If you're gonna do it then just do it already.  You're an AE, are you really that concerned about getting banned? 
    @Rocknroll64 I'll call you out since you ventured in. You need to learn when to stop beating dead horses. You shove your opinion so far and so hard down the throats of others I'm surprised your arm is still attached. Also, GTFO of TTGP already. I usually DGAF when grads hang around because they stay awesome and stuff, but you offer nothing but annoyance. Too-da-loo preggo. 

    edited: clarity
    Someone's pissed off that I like to take my shoes off at the front door. 

    This is awesome considering how many times you've posted on BMB's today.
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    HappyFeet34 said:
    @squeepatrol
    I'm calling you out on how you absolutely suck at responding after you quote something. I'm assuming you're on mobile and you're just being lazy and not scrolling down to the bottom to write your response.

    Please stop doing that. 
    @ThelibrarianTTGP   If you're gonna do it then just do it already.  You're an AE, are you really that concerned about getting banned? 
    I don't think the concern is the AE getting banned as much as all of the regs participating who could get banned. That's why there would need to be some sort of way around the TOU. Right @LibrarianTTGP?
    You so smart.
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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    Rocknroll64 said:
    TheLibrarianTTGP said:
    Rocknroll64 said:
    @ThelibrarianTTGP   If you're gonna do it then just do it already.  You're an AE, are you really that concerned about getting banned? 
    @Rocknroll64 I'll call you out since you ventured in. You need to learn when to stop beating dead horses. You shove your opinion so far and so hard down the throats of others I'm surprised your arm is still attached. Also, GTFO of TTGP already. I usually DGAF when grads hang around because they stay awesome and stuff, but you offer nothing but annoyance. Too-da-loo preggo. 

    edited: clarity
    Someone's pissed off that I like to take my shoes off at the front door. 

    This is awesome considering how many times you've posted on BMB's today.
    Maybe I belong to one of them.

    I'm an "AE" I can go where the fucks I want. You're pregnant and maybe women having trouble getting pregnant on this board don't want to see your little alien fetus ticker when you post. Rude, just rude. 
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  • BankerBSNBankerBSN member
    TheLibrarianTTGP said:
    If you want to participate and don't care about being called out please PM me and I will compile a list.

    I doubt the bumpies I would read would be okay with it.

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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    BankerBSN said:
    TheLibrarianTTGP said:
    If you want to participate and don't care about being called out please PM me and I will compile a list.

    I doubt the bumpies I would read would be okay with it.
    Do it. or PM me and I'll do it for you.



    If you have a call out, PM me and I'll call it out for you. You will remain anonymous. 
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  • BankerBSNBankerBSN member
    edited October 2013
    Squeepatrol said:
    I know people like this stuff and it is compelling and entertaining -- and as a relative newb I'm not going to try to "change the board" or police what other people like. But I don't like talking smack about my friends in real life and I don't need that drama in what for me, is a pleasant distraction from the ups and downs of ttc. So I would probably try to stay out (but my narcissism might pull me in against my better judgment).

    Lolz that you think that bumpies are your friends.

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  • SqueepatrolSqueepatrol member
    BankerBSN said:


    Squeepatrol said:

    I know people like this stuff and it is compelling and entertaining -- and as a relative newb I'm not going to try to "change the board" or police what other people like. But I don't like talking smack about my friends in real life and I don't need that drama in what for me, is a pleasant distraction from the ups and downs of ttc. So I would probably try to stay out (but my narcissism might pull me in against my better judgment).



    Lolz that you think that bumpies are your friends.

    Not what I said.

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  • TheLibrarianTTGPTheLibrarianTTGP member
    Squeepatrol said:
    Squeepatrol said:
    I know people like this stuff and it is compelling and entertaining -- and as a relative newb I'm not going to try to "change the board" or police what other people like. But I don't like talking smack about my friends in real life and I don't need that drama in what for me, is a pleasant distraction from the ups and downs of ttc. So I would probably try to stay out (but my narcissism might pull me in against my better judgment).

    Lolz that you think that bumpies are your friends.
    Not what I said.
    Then you should have no problem calling out your not friends.
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  • ksuRN09ksuRN09 member
    themrsJRD said:

    If it's something that will actually come to fruition, I like @EllyD14's idea with the addition of not using AE's to call out people. Honestly I think it's really stupid though, why the hell does anyone take this internet stuff so seriously that you feel the need to do this?? I get that some people have formed real friendships and they take THAT seriously, but if you have a real friendship with someone you wouldn't use this method of calling them out, you'd keep it between yourselves. I know some people think it's entertaining and that's the excuse they use for the call-out threads, so whatever. I'm sure I'm in the minority thinking it's a waste of time/emotion/energy to invest that much into an online forum.


    That being said, it would still be a thread I'd probably just lurk. There's not anyone that I'd care to call out, and I really don't think anyone would call me out because I try to stay out of the dramaz.

    ETA: I see the reasoning about people saying stupid shit, but I don't see why a separate call-out needs to be made in a different thread, after the fact. Someone giving out incorrect or bad advice should be addressed when it happens, every time it happens.
    Yup. All of this. Well said, @themrsJRD, well said.
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  • BankerBSNBankerBSN member
    TheLibrarianTTGP said:
    Squeepatrol said:
    Squeepatrol said:
    I know people like this stuff and it is compelling and entertaining -- and as a relative newb I'm not going to try to "change the board" or police what other people like. But I don't like talking smack about my friends in real life and I don't need that drama in what for me, is a pleasant distraction from the ups and downs of ttc. So I would probably try to stay out (but my narcissism might pull me in against my better judgment).

    Lolz that you think that bumpies are your friends.
    Not what I said.
    Then you should have no problem calling out your not friends.


    Yup.

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  • TattedLoisLaneTattedLoisLane member
    This board has gotten way to soft. If we can't play BOAB anymore, thats just sad, and lame.

     

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  • momthatliftsmomthatlifts member
    Is there a link? I'm still very new but kind of want to lurk and see what it's about..

    It's a BOY










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  • momthatliftsmomthatlifts member
    I tried google but I couldn't find any link to the actual page, if there is one yet.

    It's a BOY










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  • momthatliftsmomthatlifts member
    Ok, I guess I flipped passed it then. Thanks

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  • EmeJayEmeJay member

    (late to the party) - What's the point of doing a BOAB if people use AE to do so? You either grow a pair and do your call-outs under your real SN or you don't bother.
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    ColeRose said:
    Banker I miss your BJ face...I hope no one wants to throw shade when I show up in threads. I don't keep a fetus ticker in my siggy or anything ;)


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