Yesterday I was walking to the train from work when I was pushed from behind. I fell face forward. I called dh and we went to hospital. In the er waiting area my water broke. We were crying, we knew what it meant at 19/20 weeks. I was admitted. The u/s showed hb but no fluid. the doctor was very candid about the risks and rewards. I wasn't going to let Tommy suffer. I was given inducer meds and dh and I waited along with mom and our priest. At 1:25pm Thomas Andrew was born asleep. Dad cut the cord and I held him. He was beautiful in every way. Our priest baptized him and we will bury him next to his namesake grandfather. The hospital gave us a box of beaitiful keepsakes. The nurses and docs couldn't have been better.
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That was Monday into Tuesday. I got home yesterday. We are going to take a tripnext month to San Diego to try and make a fresh break. Tommy will be with us always.
IVF#1 - BFP 6/18/13 - Tommy born sleeping 10/1/13
IVF#2 - BFN
IVF#3 - BFP 6/5/14 EDD 2/14/15 TWIN BOYS - MATTHEW AND TIMOTHY ARRIVE 12/2/14
Once again, I am so very sorry for your loss of Tommy. We are always sorry for the reason to welcome new loss moms, but know that you are very welcomed with tears and open arms. Please use this board for questions, fears, venting, comfort and anything else you may need at the time. This journey is a long one, but we never forget our babies.
"Elsie Irene was born sleeping at 35w 6d on December 8, 2012. Mommy and Daddy miss you sweet girl."
I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious Tommy. I'm sorry you're joining the board, but welcome. I hope you find posting here helpful.
Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms. BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d Too beautiful for this earth BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
I am so sorry for your loss of sweet Tommy. Lean on us for support, we've all been there. The next few weeks and months will be difficult. ((((huge hugs))))
I am so sorry for the loss of your Tommy. None of us want to be here and none of us ever want to welcome new members to this terrible club, but welcome.
The women here are a great support. Here you can talk about your baby (we all love to talk about our babies), cry, laugh, vent, whatever you need.
Big hugs.
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Married 11/23/11, TTC starting 10/12, BFP#1 11/30/12, Adoption of stepson finalized 03/19/13,Loss of our daughter at 20w4d due to incompetent cervix 03/27/13, BFP#2 06/28/13, DS2 born 3/1/14.
I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby boy. You have come to a great place for support...please vent and grieve all you want here. So glad to hear that your dr.'s treated you so well. ((hugs))
8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)
-5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)
11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13
8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF
IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties
12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!! One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15
It sucks to meet new people on this board, but know that it's a great group and we're here to support you in whatever way you need, whenever you need it...
~ Leah, Rachel and Gabriel were born on May 27, 2013 (23 weeks) ~
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I am so sorry for the loss of your baby boy, Tommy. This board provides amazing support. Please be easy on yourself. I wish so badly that you didn't have to be here. (((Hugs)))
I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Tommy. I hate that you have to be here, but so glad you found us. Please feel free to post as little or as much as you need to. Bug hugs to you and your husband.
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!
I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Tommy. I hate that you have to be here but I hope You can find some healing here by sharing your thoughts and knowing you're not alone. ((Big hugs))
Re: Intro - Tommy's story (from F14 board)
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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BFP# 1 7/7/12 Beautiful DD born still at 36 weeks 5 days on 3/2/13
Diagnosed with PCOS in 2005. Started Metformin July 2013
Please be our rainbow!!
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I am so sorry for the loss of your Tommy. None of us want to be here and none of us ever want to welcome new members to this terrible club, but welcome.
The women here are a great support. Here you can talk about your baby (we all love to talk about our babies), cry, laugh, vent, whatever you need.
Big hugs.
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8/12-Suprise BFP- Sweet Bunny Born Sleeping 11/21/12 (19 weeks)
-5/7/13- MMC (8 Weeks)
11/6/13- BO discovered at 7 weeks- natural MC 11/25/13
8/14- Surpise IF dx...low AMH (.24)- moving on to IVF
IVF #1- 11/14- 6R5M4F=2 perfect frosties
12/19/14- FET of 2 embabies = BFP!!! One Little Bean EDD: 9/3/15
Everyone Welcome.
Brooke Elizabeth born Feb 17, 2013 grew wings May 9, 2013 @ 11 weeks & 4 days old from SIDS
I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Tommy. As others have said, we are here for you whenever you need us. Sending lots of hugs.
It sucks to meet new people on this board, but know that it's a great group and we're here to support you in whatever way you need, whenever you need it...
BFP#1 - 11/27/09 EDD 8/5/10, DS1 arrived 7/24/10 via emergency c-section.
BFP#2 - 6/18/12 EDD 2/23/13, sweet baby girl born sleeping on 10/4/12 at 19 weeks, 3 days.
BFP #3 - 1/18/13 EDD 10/1/13, natural mc on 2/2/13 at 5 weeks, 4 days.
BFP #4 - 8/29/13 EDD 5/12/14, our sweet rainbow, DS2 born 4/29/14 via c-section
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I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet Tommy. I hate that you have to be here, but so glad you found us. Please feel free to post as little or as much as you need to. Bug hugs to you and your husband.
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!