My 3 year old (he will be three Oct 11th) has officially said "bye bye" to nap time. I want to cry and scream ugly tears. That was my time to meal plan, clean, cook, and pay bills. We tried "quiet time" in his room, but he threw huge fits and woke up his brother that WAS napping. Also, he gets wild and crazy come 3pm, b/c he is so over tired.
Anyways, no real point of this post, other than for some sympathy.
Re: No more naps=my life is over
I'm sorry!
One of the few scheduling positives that I'm hoping for with having kids under 18 months apart is that hopefully DD will continue to take naps for a while and I hope to have them take at least one nap per day at the same time!
I am sorry!
My 3-year-old rarely naps, but she does do quiet time at least.
And I second the preschool suggestion. It is probably too late for this year, but DD goes two mornings a week, and DS usually naps while she is gone, so twice a week I get TWO breaks a day. So nice.
But you definitely have my sympathy! Will he quietly entertain himself somewhere other than his room? Like you could institute coloring time or Lego time for say 30 minutes at the kitchen table while you work on something else? Good luck!
ETA: It used to be painfully obvious which days DD hadn't napped by how cranky she was in the late afternoon/early evening. But now it's not such a big difference. We moved her bedtime from 8 p.m. to 7 p.m. on days she doesn't nap, and there usually isn't a meltdown anymore (though even with the early bedtime, there was at first). So hang in there. The 3 p.m. crankies won't last forever!
I was excited when DD1 was done with naps at 3. Then we could do whatever we wanted during the day. But I also didn't have DD2 yet. So we were more flexible.