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Jen071407Jen071407 member
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I was just googling positive quotes for a quick pick-me-up and came across this one:

"If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose." 

I know it's sorta a kick-ya-in-the-ass quote, but for some reason that's exactly what I needed! Even though we are all here and struggling with IF, at least we have the option to try. Some women don't even have that. (For the record, this by no means I'll stop complaining, just gives me some perspective!)

What do you guys think about a daily positive quote post where we all share one? I like the idea of making myself find a good one I like to share. Bet it would help morale! 

Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
 3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I love quotes!

    "My good opinion, once lost, is lost forever."

    Mr. Darcy, Pride & Prejudice
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    Darcy's quote isn't actually positive but, I still love it :)
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member

    Jen071407 said:
    I was just googling positive quotes for a quick pick-me-up and came across this one:

    "If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose." 


    This is so perfect for how I've been feeling. I had a total meltdown with H last night, and I know he's exhausted and he's probably frustrated with me because I shut him out a lot. This quote is pretty much what it all boiled down too. IF is so fucking hard, but I can't quit, so I need to buck up and take it like champ. 



    :bz :bz :bz :bz :bz


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    My dad always told me:

    "If you can't get out of it, get into it."

    I look at a lot of things I don't really want to do/or go through. I find a way to throw myself into it.
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Mrs Castillo said:



    Jen071407 said:

    I was just googling positive quotes for a quick pick-me-up and came across this one:

    "If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose." 



    This is so perfect for how I've been feeling. I had a total meltdown with H last night, and I know he's exhausted and he's probably frustrated with me because I shut him out a lot. This quote is pretty much what it all boiled down too. IF is so fucking hard, but I can't quit, so I need to buck up and take it like champ. 



    :bz :bz :bz :bz :bz

    Exactly! Miley Cryrus' We Can't Stop just came into my head after reading this. (Don't judge me :) )

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    Jen071407 said:

    Jen071407 said:
    I was just googling positive quotes for a quick pick-me-up and came across this one:

    "If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose." 


    This is so perfect for how I've been feeling. I had a total meltdown with H last night, and I know he's exhausted and he's probably frustrated with me because I shut him out a lot. This quote is pretty much what it all boiled down too. IF is so fucking hard, but I can't quit, so I need to buck up and take it like champ. 



    :bz :bz :bz :bz :bz
    Exactly! Miley Cryrus' We Can't Stop just came into my head after reading this. (Don't judge me :) )
    HAHAHAH I actually love that song, and I love Miley. I laugh every time I say that out loud. 


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    Mrs Castillo said:
    Jen071407 said:

    Jen071407 said:
    I was just googling positive quotes for a quick pick-me-up and came across this one:

    "If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose." 


    This is so perfect for how I've been feeling. I had a total meltdown with H last night, and I know he's exhausted and he's probably frustrated with me because I shut him out a lot. This quote is pretty much what it all boiled down too. IF is so fucking hard, but I can't quit, so I need to buck up and take it like champ. 



    :bz :bz :bz :bz :bz
    Exactly! Miley Cryrus' We Can't Stop just came into my head after reading this. (Don't judge me :) )
    HAHAHAH I actually love that song, and I love Miley. I laugh every time I say that out loud. 

    I am currently judging you both...  :-B  =)) 
    Just kidding. ;) 



      


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  • pettycrockerpettycrocker member
    freakyfast said:
    Mrs Castillo said:
    Jen071407 said:

    Jen071407 said:
    I was just googling positive quotes for a quick pick-me-up and came across this one:

    "If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose." 


    This is so perfect for how I've been feeling. I had a total meltdown with H last night, and I know he's exhausted and he's probably frustrated with me because I shut him out a lot. This quote is pretty much what it all boiled down too. IF is so fucking hard, but I can't quit, so I need to buck up and take it like champ. 



    :bz :bz :bz :bz :bz
    Exactly! Miley Cryrus' We Can't Stop just came into my head after reading this. (Don't judge me :) )
    HAHAHAH I actually love that song, and I love Miley. I laugh every time I say that out loud. 

    I am currently judging you both...  :-B  =)) 
    Just kidding. ;) 
    I'm wearing judge resistant panties. AND I'm twerking right now.  ~:> ~:> 3:-O

    Miley Cyrus should be the group mascot.  
    ;))


    Spontaneous pregnancy #1
    DD1 July 31, 2011

    Trying for #2 since Oct 11
    732973 Clomid Cycles
    2 IUIs 
    3 Fresh IVFs= 1 Ectopic treated with MTX
    Spontaneous pregnancy #2= Ectopic #2= lost left tube
    Spontaneous pregnancy #3= DD2 January 29, 2016
    Spontaneous pregnancy #4= Ectopic #3
    Spontaneous pregnancy #5= Baby #3 is a BOY!!! 



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  • freakyfastfreakyfast member
    LOL! I don't even know what to say.  



      


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  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    Hahaha hilarious!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

     image

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  • kndeckarkndeckar member
    Mrs Castillo said:


    freakyfast said:


    Mrs Castillo said:


    Jen071407 said:

    Mrs Castillo said:



    Jen071407 said:

    I was just googling positive quotes for a quick pick-me-up and came across this one:

    "If you can quit, quit. If you can't quit, stop complaining - this is what you chose." 



    This is so perfect for how I've been feeling. I had a total meltdown with H last night, and I know he's exhausted and he's probably frustrated with me because I shut him out a lot. This quote is pretty much what it all boiled down too. IF is so fucking hard, but I can't quit, so I need to buck up and take it like champ. 



    :bz :bz :bz :bz :bz
    Exactly! Miley Cryrus' We Can't Stop just came into my head after reading this. (Don't judge me :) )

    HAHAHAH I actually love that song, and I love Miley. I laugh every time I say that out loud. 


    I am currently judging you both...  :-B  =)) 
    Just kidding. ;) 



    I'm wearing judge resistant panties. AND I'm twerking right now.  ~:> ~:> 3:-O

    Miley Cyrus should be the group
    mascot.  
    ;))
    It's actually really funny that you guys are talking about Miley Cyrus because I just read an article yesterday about Miley possibly being pregnant. I may thrown a minor temper tantrum after reading that...
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  • KC1212KC1212 member
    I would throw a temper tantrum too! Ugh. What a basket case! Which flipped her lid more her or B. Spears?
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    Me: 27 DH: 33
    Married 6 years
    Conceived DS after 4 years of MFI

    TTC # 2 (not trying,not preventing ever)
    May 2013 - August 2013 Timed Intercourse = BFN
    September 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs=BFN
    October 2013 Timed Intercourse, Weekly Acupuncture, Herbs, and "warming foods" = BFP
    Beta #1 19, Beta #2 18 Progesterone 4.6 Miscarried 11/9/13
    November 2013 - Benched, waiting for first post-loss AF.
    No longer benched per New RE/OB!
    Jan. 15 2014 - BFP. HCG 3900 - Ectopic :( 
    Jan. 16 2014 Left tube removed and D&C
    March 2, 2014 First AF


    Report Reply
  • Jen071407Jen071407 member
    DH thinks I'm crazy, but I almost just feel bad for her! She needs someone respectable to sit her down for a stearn talking to!

    Two DDs 10/08 and 08/10, no primary IF
    TTC #3 since 10/2011 - dx unexplained/weak ovulation
     3 BFN clomid + TI cycles, 5 BFN clomid/gonal f IUIs, 1 mmc IUI
    2/19/2014 IVF #1 Unexpected low E2 (oversuppressed) -> increased to max doses = 3 or 4 follicles, converting to IUI
    BFFP Saw 1 beautiful heartbeat at 6w6d, follow up u/s at 9w showed mmc. Eff this.
    NTNP 5/2014-9/2014, OPKs and TI 10/2014 - 1/2015. 
    RPL testing all normal, AFC, AMH, and FSH all normal. 
    IVF 1.2 1/22/2014 natural cycle start, AFC 28, 300 gonal f/150menopur. 
    ER 2/3/15 14R 8M 3F w/ICSI Day 5 transfer on 2/8/15 of one "Grade A+" blast and have TWO frosties! 

     image

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