Update

kgs0505 · October 2013

So, things have been going better with DH. We had a huge blow up Thursday evening, but it seemed to have led to better, more constructive discussions on how to fix us. We gave each other goals and wrote out what we each want out of our marriage. We are both in counseling now too. Although I'm still hating the fact he cheated, if we end up in a better place, then so be it. I wish we hadn't had to go to such extremes to fix our relationship, but maybe it's the slap in the face we each needed to take things much more seriously rather than being blase and ignoring issues or not speaking up about things and taking it all as status quo. (Sorry, really wordy... hope you got through it!) We are going on a date Friday evening assuming I find someone to watch the kids, which is proving difficult, but WILL happen! I'm actually excited, we haven't had a date since June when we were out of town at my mom's, and before that? Ummm... maybe for our anniversary the year before? Too long!

ClandestineX · October 2013

I am glad you are working things out between you two! You are a very strong woman, I hope you have a nice date.

elbou · October 2013

Glad to hear things are looking up! Good luck with the babysitter-search. I know how hard that can be at times!

tondraluv · October 2013

I'm so glad you are both taking the right steps to fix you family. Good luck with everything!

kgs0505 · October 2013

Thanks Ladies!

@chgibeau - Our neighborbors just had a baby 2 weeks ago, so they are out, and our next closest friends are about an hour away, so it's a little tough to impose on them. We've done it before where we take turns going to a movie, but it was more of a daytime thing. I've got a couple of phone interviews with some care.com candidates.