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Have you noticed or been told?

APutter05APutter05 member
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Has anyone been told they are bitchy? Rude? Or just plain mean? DH told me that I've been extra rude, mean AND bitchy to him. I have no desire to hang out with any of our friends because they get on my nerves and DH is having a fit about that. That starts a whole new fight!!
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  • APutter05APutter05 member
    I've been under a lot of stress with work and DH just started a new shift so now we work opposite shifts. I lost my job starting tomorrow so now I am right back to where I started from. I am not trying to come across as bitchy. I guess with everything going on my stress level is a little up and that could be why I am being this way. DH is the only one that has said I am being this way.
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  • lizzielou742lizzielou742 member
    Yes, my HR manager/good friend at work told me that some women get super nice when pregnant and some get bitchy. She said it with a laugh because I'm normally super sweet (according to her) and she thinks it's funny that my bitchy side is coming out as I close in on the third trimester. LOL
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  • APutter05APutter05 member
    Yea I promise I am normally very sweet and just go with the flow. It's just been within the past couple of weeks I've gotten like this. DH def gets the most of it though.
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  • Tess024Tess024 member
    It just happens... hormones increase irritability. As long as it's not happening 24/7, I would just apologize to people if you realize you are doing it unintentionally.
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  • APutter05APutter05 member
    I do apologize and I've been trying to do nice things for DH. I just feel bad especially since its not my personality at all!!
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  • queenofcornyqueenofcorny member
    I have been getting all these conflicts on facebook... so i'm staying low....
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  • APutter05APutter05 member
    queenofcorny said:

    I have been getting all these conflicts on facebook... so i'm staying low....

    I've been just hanging out at home or with family. We are so busy anyways with trying to get the house ready for the LO to get here.
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  • faithrainbowfaithrainbow member
    Hang in there! There's a lot of stress with all of the changes you're going through, even without losing your job! Holy cow! I have definitely found that people irritate me a lot more than they used to. I mostly keep my mouth shut, but it still makes it less fun. It's also a bummer to go out with friends and DH when they are drinking and I can't. I have been trying to get together with just one or two people at a time instead of groups, and that has helped.
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  • APutter05APutter05 member
    Yea all our friends want to drink and its just not fun when you can't. DH wants to try and get me to do more with everyone. We went out Saturday with another couple and that was it. That seemed to be better than in the big group.
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  • WhispersclosetWhisperscloset member
    yes I have /....My babys father told me that I am so rude, and arrogant....He misses the old me...

    Mom of 4 plus one more!!!!
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  • APutter05APutter05 member
    Whisperscloset said:

    yes I have /....My babys father told me that I am so rude, and arrogant....He misses the old me...


    DH told me the same thing. I miss the old me too.
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