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Another Monday...

I hope all you lovely ladies are having as a good of a Monday as possible. 

I have mixed feelings on this Monday morning.  On the good side, it's our 2 year anniversay today and based on the RE's orders we have to BD since we triggered on Saturday night so I'm sure to get lucky! 

On the bad side, both DH and I are federal employees so if the Congress can't figure out the budget by midnight tonight, we are both temporarily out of work until they figure it out.  Supposedly, we have to work 4 hours tomorrow for an "orderly shutdown" but then will be on unpaid leave until the budget is resolved.  Since we both had 8 days of unpaid leave due to other budget issues this summer, I can tell you I'm not looking forward to losing any more pay.

I hope everyone is looking at a fantastic week ahead!  Anything exciting going on?

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BFP #1: 1/4/13, EDD 9/8/13, Missed M/C confirmed 2/8/13, Misoprostol

2013: Three CPs w/ EDDs: EDD 2/10/14, EDD 3/24/14, EDD 6/24/14

IVF/ICSI #1 (Antagonist) - Jan 2014- 19R, 14M, 11F, 3 penguins (6BB, 4BB, 6BC)  PGD tested- All Normal!

IVF/ICSI #2 (Antagonist) - Feb 2014 - 23R, 11M, 10F, 1 penguin (3BB) - Another Normal!

FET #1 - March 26, BFN

FET #2- Beta #1 (9dp5dt) -332, Beta #2 (11dp5dt) -1027, EDD 1/30/2015, Missed M/C, D&C 6/19/14

IVF/ICSI #3 (Lupron Down Reg) - Oct 2014 - 38R, 28M, 27F, 20 frozen on day 5, 16 normal penguins!!

FET#3 - February 1, 2015, Prep begins 1/13

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  • Ugh...I hope the budget issues get resolved before midnight! I think I read at most they expect one pay week to be affected, but you would get that pay back once things are resolved? I hope that is the worst case scenario! ((hugs)) to you for having this unneeded stress.

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    BFP #1 11/22/12 EDD 7/29/13 MMC 1/14/13, D&C 1/16/13
    BFP #2 5/7/13 EDD 1/14/2014 Ectopic discovered 5/21/13, lost left tube
    Referred to RE, blood work done August 2013, AMH 0.27, all else normal, HSG clear
    BFP #3 12/1/13 EDD 8/8/14, MC 12/24/13
    January 2014: RE #2, blood work repeated, homozygous MTHFR c677t, SHG clear
    BFP #4 4/7/14 EDD 12/15/14 Our rainbow was born 12/6/14 at 4:26pm! <3 


  • @HoldingOutHope - Take care of yourself.  Sending (((HUGS))) your way!

    @Eliz77 - Hopefully we would get back pay.  The last time this happened in the mid 90s all employees did receive back pay.  With all the budget issues this year though, I'm not sure what would happen. 

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    BFP #1: 1/4/13, EDD 9/8/13, Missed M/C confirmed 2/8/13, Misoprostol

    2013: Three CPs w/ EDDs: EDD 2/10/14, EDD 3/24/14, EDD 6/24/14

    IVF/ICSI #1 (Antagonist) - Jan 2014- 19R, 14M, 11F, 3 penguins (6BB, 4BB, 6BC)  PGD tested- All Normal!

    IVF/ICSI #2 (Antagonist) - Feb 2014 - 23R, 11M, 10F, 1 penguin (3BB) - Another Normal!

    FET #1 - March 26, BFN

    FET #2- Beta #1 (9dp5dt) -332, Beta #2 (11dp5dt) -1027, EDD 1/30/2015, Missed M/C, D&C 6/19/14

    IVF/ICSI #3 (Lupron Down Reg) - Oct 2014 - 38R, 28M, 27F, 20 frozen on day 5, 16 normal penguins!!

    FET#3 - February 1, 2015, Prep begins 1/13

    All Welcome!

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  • That's terrible to be in limbo like that. I would be so stressed about losing pay like that. Hope they get their act together. Hugs...

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  • Well that sucks! I hope things with work aren't too bad love. GL tonight :P

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    NOV 2013 | HSG & SHG ~ Right Tube Blocked & "Thickening" of Uterus

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  • @ninthgirl I'm so sorry to hear your family is impacted by this as well.  It's really a tough spot the government puts the employees in.  Working for the federal government used to be considered a stable job with good benefits but I don't think either is true anymore.

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    BFP #1: 1/4/13, EDD 9/8/13, Missed M/C confirmed 2/8/13, Misoprostol

    2013: Three CPs w/ EDDs: EDD 2/10/14, EDD 3/24/14, EDD 6/24/14

    IVF/ICSI #1 (Antagonist) - Jan 2014- 19R, 14M, 11F, 3 penguins (6BB, 4BB, 6BC)  PGD tested- All Normal!

    IVF/ICSI #2 (Antagonist) - Feb 2014 - 23R, 11M, 10F, 1 penguin (3BB) - Another Normal!

    FET #1 - March 26, BFN

    FET #2- Beta #1 (9dp5dt) -332, Beta #2 (11dp5dt) -1027, EDD 1/30/2015, Missed M/C, D&C 6/19/14

    IVF/ICSI #3 (Lupron Down Reg) - Oct 2014 - 38R, 28M, 27F, 20 frozen on day 5, 16 normal penguins!!

    FET#3 - February 1, 2015, Prep begins 1/13

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  • Ugh, that sucks and seems totally unfair. Hopefully you and your hubby can put it out of your minds for atleast tonight and enjoy your anniversary. FX it's a lucky one!

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    BFP #1, 10/03/2012 - EDD 6/15/2013 - MMC 11/15/2012 - D&C 01/04/2013

    BFP #2, 04/06/2013 - EDD 12/17/2013 - MC 04/19/2013

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    IVF #1 with PGS: 10/2013: Canceled 9/27/2013 for issues with genetic lab

    IVF #1.5 with PGS: 11/16/2013: Canceled. 11 eggs retrieved, 9 mature & 9 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #2: 1/22/14: Canceled. 16 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 7 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos

    IVF #3 with PGS: 5/10/2014: Switched to FET in July. 10 eggs retrieved, 9 mature, 8 fertilized, 2 healthy embryos!

    FET #1: 7/31/2014: Transferred 2 nearly perfect (6AA, 6BA) healthy embryos- BFFN

    Laproscopy: 10/2014: Healthy uterus

    IVF #4: 12/8/2014: Canceled. 17 eggs retrieved, 15 mature, 10 fertilized, all unhealthy embryos



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  • CallyLilly, I hope you're able to enjoy your anniversary despite everything else going on, and I hope Congress somehow pulls through with some sort of agreement at the last minute!  
    @holdingouthope (((HUGS)))

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  • I hope all you lovely ladies are having as a good of a Monday as possible. 

    I have mixed feelings on this Monday morning.  On the good side, it's our 2 year anniversay today and based on the RE's orders we have to BD since we triggered on Saturday night so I'm sure to get lucky! 

    On the bad side, both DH and I are federal employees so if the Congress can't figure out the budget by midnight tonight, we are both temporarily out of work until they figure it out.  Supposedly, we have to work 4 hours tomorrow for an "orderly shutdown" but then will be on unpaid leave until the budget is resolved.  Since we both had 8 days of unpaid leave due to other budget issues this summer, I can tell you I'm not looking forward to losing any more pay.

    I hope everyone is looking at a fantastic week ahead!  Anything exciting going on?

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    @CallaLily30 I was wondering who else is also a federal employee on TTCAL. Both DH and I are federal, however DH was labeled essential so he will be working regardless (although, his pay check is not guaranteed).

    I am rather annoyed with our government for not working together to figure out the budget earlier well before the deadline. If the gov does shut down, I'm going on a road trip to visit my grandparents though!!

    Happy Anniversary! Enjoy HIO tonight!

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    BFP #2 09.10.2013  ||  c/p 09.12.2013

    BFP #3 12.1.2013  ||  mm/c  01.15.14  ||  D&C 01.21.14  chromosome abnormality
    May 2014:  Residual HCG and retained tissue found
    05.13.2014:  Hysteroscopy D&C to find and remove retained tissue
    June 2014:  Tissue sample results indicate a partial molar pregnancy
    May - Aug 2014:   TTA for monitoring and testing
    08.21.2014:  Hysteroscopy to remove minor scar tissue - the result of 3 D&Cs
    Sept/Oct: IUI #1  Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN
    Oct/Nov: IUI #2  Femara + Ovidrel = BFN
    Nov/Dec: IUI #3  Femara + Bravelle + Ovidrel = BFN

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  • Happy anniversary! I hope everything works out at work.
    @HoldingOutHope hugs to you. I had to miss a wedding this year because of my MC- I can imagine it will be a hard reminder each year.
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  • @CallaLily30 Happy Anniversary love!  Get your BD on, girl!   ;)   Sucks about the shutdown.  I hope they work something out soon. 

    @HoldingOutHope (((Hugs)))

    @MyFirstRaspberry  Yay!  I hope you're doing well love!  We miss you.  >:D<

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  • Congrats on your anniversary! That sucks that you have that looming over your head tonight. I hope they get their act together and figure things out. It doesn't seem fair that this could negatively affect you and your family. FX that things work out tonight.
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    BFP #1: EDD 4/16/13~~blighted ovum w/ 2 gestational sacs~~Loss on 9/18/12
    BFP #2: EDD 9/3/13~~Slow HB at 1st U/S~~MMC -Loss on 2/13/13
    9/13, 10/13, 1/14: letrozole + trigger + TI = All BFNs
    3/14: IUI#1 letrozole/Bravelle/Menopur + trigger = BFN
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  • @MyFirstRaspberry so good to hear from you love!

    I'm so sorry to hear you guys are in the same boat we are as federal employees.  It doesn't seem like the government cares at all about the employees.  At least in my office, we work very hard to support our military forces and it really hurts morale to see the policitians don't think we are doing anything worthwhile.

    If we do shutdown, enjoy your roadtrip!

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    BFP #1: 1/4/13, EDD 9/8/13, Missed M/C confirmed 2/8/13, Misoprostol

    2013: Three CPs w/ EDDs: EDD 2/10/14, EDD 3/24/14, EDD 6/24/14

    IVF/ICSI #1 (Antagonist) - Jan 2014- 19R, 14M, 11F, 3 penguins (6BB, 4BB, 6BC)  PGD tested- All Normal!

    IVF/ICSI #2 (Antagonist) - Feb 2014 - 23R, 11M, 10F, 1 penguin (3BB) - Another Normal!

    FET #1 - March 26, BFN

    FET #2- Beta #1 (9dp5dt) -332, Beta #2 (11dp5dt) -1027, EDD 1/30/2015, Missed M/C, D&C 6/19/14

    IVF/ICSI #3 (Lupron Down Reg) - Oct 2014 - 38R, 28M, 27F, 20 frozen on day 5, 16 normal penguins!!

    FET#3 - February 1, 2015, Prep begins 1/13

    All Welcome!

  • Happy anniversary!  I am actually watching the news now about the government situation.  FX that it doesn't shutdown.  It seems as though we have been in this situation before and the government did not choose to shutdown?  I don't remember when this happened in the past but FX that it is a repeat incident (that it does indeed stay up and running, to be clear).
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    BFP#1:   2/2/13 ~ exact m/c date unknown but around 3/20 at 10 weeks ~ diagnosed with PMP ~ D&C on 4/5 ~ TTA for at least 1 year due to PMP ~ cleared to TTC 1/14

    BFP#2:   2/7/14 ~ m/c 2/20/14 ~ possibly due to chemical pregnancy ~ TG no D&C is needed 

    Surprise BFP#3:  4/4/14 ~ super duper extra happy (and nervous) about this one - EDD 12/9/14!!!

    John Joseph was born on 12/12/14 at 7 lbs. 11 oz.  He is the most beautiful rainbow baby we could have wished for!


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    edited October 2013
    Happy Anniversary.  Have fun DTD :)

    I'm sorry that the government is stupid and f'ing with your lives.  As someone else said, I hope common sense prevails (sometime soon!!!).  FX everything is figured out soon. 

    (((hugs))) @holdingouthope  I hope you were kind to yourself today & continue to be this week!


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    We had my aunt's 60th birthday party and 2 5K walks to participate in.  I went to all of it (yay me!! :-bd ) and walked in 1 of the walks.  I had mentioned earlier in the week to the organizer of the walk (my cousin) that I wasn't feeling well so she set me up to hand out water at the half way mark (woo hoo! <:-P ) with the 9 month pg lady (really?!?! :(( ).  She didn't know though so I can't fault her but it did sting.  Thankfully (because my family likes to drink a lot) we had a "support" van that carried beer!  ~O) Ha.  It was good to get out and be around people & even walk a little, I've been on the couch too often lately.  This week is my first week back at work and I'm working through what to tell my staff. I know I don't need to tell them anything but they are panicky and I don't want them to think I'm dying.  Any thoughts?

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    TTC #1 since June 2012
    BFP #1 6.29.12 EDD 3.12.13 MMC discovered 8.11.12 9w5d D&C 8.15.12
    BFP #2 11.2.12 EDD 7.14.13 MMC 6w5d discovered 8w6d 2 failed rounds miso D&C 12.27.12
    BFP #3 8.5.13 EDD 4.18.14 MMC 7w4d discovered 9.25.13 at 10w6d -Trisomy 13- 1 round miso & emergency D&C 10.2.13
    RPL Testing. DX Asherman's November 2013. Low AMH (0.44) January 2014. 
    Operative Hysteroscopy January 2014 to remove scar tissue.
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