Can I join you? Other pg mentioned.

wochoa22 · September 2013

Hi ladies, Let me start by saying I'm sorry for all your losses. I lost my angel 3 weeks ago. I feel like people dismissed it because I was so early in my pg. I've had nightmares(do these get better?). I know my dh is also struggling which makes it hard to talk to him. My mom never went through this so it's hard for her to relate. My sister is expecting and I found out I was mc the day she wanted to go register(I didn't have the heart to tell her what I was going through). It's so hard to look at her and know what I lost.

RustyGirl3 · September 2013

Early or late- A loss is a loss. So sorry for yours. Welcome to the board. Hope your stay here is short and sweet.

The pain will never go away but it will get easier. It just becomes part of who you are.

AnyMax · September 2013

Welcome. I am so sorry for your loss. No matter how early, a loss is a loss.

I think I can relate to your situation with your sister some. I had a very hard time when I was around SIL while she was pregnant, and I still have a hard time being around her LO. (((HUGS)))

If you have not already, I recommend checking out our blog (the blue badge in my siggy). It has a lot of helpful information.

HeyMrsPotter · September 2013

Welcome. I'm so sorry for your loss, but glad that you've found us. As AnyMax suggested, the blog is worth checking out. It's full of great information about TTCAL and our community.

As Tappin said, a loss is a loss, and we know that your pain is very real. ((HUGS))

Poppy715 · September 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss and that you are joining us. I was never aware of just how many people were pg around me until after my loss.

I also have nightmares. I had them when I was pg and continue to have them now. They are graphic and horrible. Im sorry you are going through this. I know when something is on your mind a lot it manifests into your dreams as well. ((Hugs))

I also urge you to read our blog. It's the bread and butter of the board. Welcome.

abryars · September 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

jenn0021 · September 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. Welcome to the board.

The first few weeks/months are the hardest and everything hurts so much. You will always carry this pain with you but over time, it will lessen. It has been over 3 years since my first loss and I still have really bad days but they are fewer and farther between.

Know that we can related and are here for you to offer support as you heal.

buggirl72 · September 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. The PPs have given you wonderful advice. Continue to keep the lines of communication open between you and your DH. You might also want to consider either starting a journal or a blog. It's a good way to get your feelings out.

Rachaeleigh · September 2013

Sorry for your loss. Seeing other people's pregnancies while grieving the loss of your own is always difficult, even if you love the other person. Welcome to the board

PinkCamino · September 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss and that you find yourself here.

LaRomana09 · September 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss, but welcome to the board. (((HUGS)))

carlsonbaby2014 · September 2013

I'm very sorry for your loss and everything you are going through right now. We are here for you (((hugs))).

*pregnancy mentioned*

I can relate to your situation a bit - my SIL announced her *surprise* pregnancy a few weeks after my D&C and shared that we even had the exact same due date. So being around my H's side of the family has been extremely difficult especially because every time I see her I am reminded that that's exactly where I would've been had I not had my mc. I'm so very sorry. It's a lonely, frustrating, and painful place to be, but you'll find great support here. Sending you lots of ((hugs)).

Bonnesetter27 · September 2013

I can also relate. My sister is pg, although she didn't plan it and that makes it harder to me. She doesn't know about my loss so I have to remember anything she says/does wasn't meant to hurt me. Hugs to you.

LifeofCat · September 2013

I'm sorry for your loss. Keep your DH close to your heart, and lean on each other. Take good care of yourself and let yourself grieve, and know that this forum will help and support you in this grief.