Hi Ladies! I am getting induced on Monday, and just wanted to see which spelling you like better? DH and I have decided to name our son Kieran, but we are not sure how we should spell it. Kieran would probably be easier to pronounce, but I think Ciaran looks prettier on paper. Any suggestions??
Re: Kieran or Ciaran??
Dumb American here--I have no clue how to say it!
I was actually thinking this too. Ciaran is so similar to Ciara, which is very feminine.
I'm really fine with either as long as you make your peace with the occasional misspelling or mispronunciation. I get that Ciaran is traditional, and I love it for that. I think Kieran is more likely to be correctly spelled and pronounced in those little every day things. Also, as a PP mentioned, the fact that there is a mildly famous singer named Ciara (See-air-ah) contributes to the confusion. Now, she's not that famous, and it probably won't be a through the generations thing, but even though I know the correct pronunciation, I have to check myself every time I see the name.
I worked at Starbucks for a long time. So, if a Ciaran came up to order, and we were busy, I'm probably not going to ask how to spell your name. I'd probably spell it Kieran. If I did ask, or chose to ask which spelling they preferred, chances are when their drink was ready, the barista would either say "I have a venti white mocha for See-air-an!" or there would be a conversation that went, "how do you say this?" that was had. As long as you don't get offended by that (and, oh, people do) then you do you, but even on this board, and a lot of these ladies know a lot of names, you see a good 50/50 split on pronunciation.
Example: A woman placed her order, I asked if I could have a name, she says Desiree. That's a good friend of mine's name so I write the cup and place it in line and then take her credit card. Her name is spelled Desarae. I would never have guessed that spelling. Another time I had a woman say Jenny. It was Ginny, and she got really pissy about it. When you're going purely off pronunciation and there are 20 people in line behind you, you just have to let it go. If you can let it go, do Ciaran, it's a lovely name.
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