My friend's little girl is a Kindergartener at a Magnet school. I found out yesterday they have to give oral presentations every Friday. They are graded on them. I think about that and I get anxiety. I have no trouble talking in front of people now, but as a kid I felt pretty traumatized by stuff like piano recitals, etc.
What are your thoughts on this? I feel like for the outgoing kids, the ones who have a natural tendancy to enjoy performing and entertaining, the extraverts, it's going to hone their skills and they'll profit from it. But for the shy kids, the ones for whom something like this can cause actual physical pain? I feel awful for them.
I don't see how a forced oral presentation in K can be a simplistically positive thing. Just curious on your thoughts. I was shocked. We homeschool, as most of you know, and I had actually never heard of this before so it's a new thnig to think about.
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Wow. That seems really young! As a kid....and now as an adult I still get anxious about speaking in front of groups! But maybe it would have helped if a teacher had "forced" me to do it at a younger age.
I think it might be traumatizing to the extremely shy kids, but they might have to "get over it" if they have to do it every Friday. Maybe it will just become part of their routine and get easier and easier. Maybe that's the hope.
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Your friends school sounds a little too much to me. I'm curious to see what the teachers on the board say.
This was my thought...if they start this early, maybe it will just be normal. I get nervous speaking to a group, but I don't know when it started. I don't remember being anxious about show and tell as a small kid.
The grading does sound harsh, but I think grading anything in kindergarten sounds harsh. Do kids really get grades that young now? Keeping track of progress, yes; giving letter grades or percents on things, that seems too much for 5 year olds.
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I'm wondering if it's more of a show and tell type concept. I don't know. That seems much nicer. I just know they have a checklist they are graded on, and that there is a three point grading system something like does not meet expectations, meets expectations, exceeds expectations. And that they have to come prepared, I'm not sure if they have to read off a prepared paper or if it's "memorized".
I use My Fathers World and supplement with Singapore Math, Explode the Code and several other electives on and off throughout the school year.
I started when J was entering K. He went to two years of preschool. A went to one year of preschool and I kept her home her second year, she started K this year and J is in 2nd grade.
We waffled about what we wanted to do until J was almost done with preK and we were faced with making a choice. I didn't want to have to work full time to afford private school for the kids and miss out on A's time at home as a little one. I didn't feel our public school was the right choice for us. My H and I both felt God leading us to the decision to HS one weekend, in separate incidences. So we both felt at peace with it after that and committed to it.
Feel free to ask me anything you want! It's tough at times, but for sure the right choice for our family.
I just asked my sister, who teaches kindergarten, and she said they don't give any sort of grades to kindergarteners at her school. The kids' assignments get stickers for what they do right. The teachers give the kids assessments through the year, but the kids don't get the results and there are no letter grades.
That grading system you described doesn't sound as bad as giving them letter grades, but it still seems more than a 5 year old needs. Esp. having to prepare it ahead of time.
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I think it is ridiculous how some schools are grading such young children. My friend showed me the summer reading list she received when she enrolled her daughter in kindergarten, and besides the list of books the parents were to read with them, there was a list of projects to choose from for those parents/children (who hadn't even started kindergarten) who wanted to earn extra credit toward the first marking period. I was blown away.