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11 weeks 5 days today

Kristy774Kristy774 member
in Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss
Had slight bleeding this morning went to the obgyn and no HB, baby not moving. I'm devastated, I have a 9 year old and a 3 year old, I can't believe this happened. I've never miscarried. I guess I'm getting a D&C, I was so hysterical in the doctors office I have to go back to speak with them.

You know, yesterday I felt "not pregnant", it makes sense now, I had a ton of energy.

Our baby was due April 12, I'm so sad but I'm so pissed too. Like really pissed. 5-6% chance of miscarriage really? Wtf? We tried 9 months for this baby. 9 months. I'm so confused and sad and angry.
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    Hasmith25Hasmith25 member
    I am confused, sad, and angry too.  It is completely devastating after you build yourself up with the excitement. I am so sorry for you.
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    mdarmetkomdarmetko member
    I'm so sorry to see you here (recognize you from the April bmb) :( It IS devastating.  So many questions with so little answers.  Hope you find the support you need here.  I'm sorry for your loss.
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    BFP 8/12/13 -- EDD 4/20/14 -- no fetal pole @7wksnatural m/c 9/16/13, cytotec 10/17 & 10/22
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    slensicslensic member
    I am so sorry you are here. I am also from the April '14 BMB. ((hugs))

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    BFP#2 8/1/13 MC 8/31/13
    BFP#3 11/2/13 EDD 7/15/14 Stick baby Stick
    1st u/s 11/26/13 at 7w, measuring right on track and a heartbeat of 139bpm
    NT Scan 1/6/14 at 12w 6d, normal healthy squirmy baby measuring right on track heartbeat of 147bpm
    1st 2nd tri Scan 2/3/14 at 16w 6d, very healthy baby BOY!
    A/S 3/4/14 still a very healthy BOY, measuring right on track!
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    amandalou22amandalou22 member
    So so sorry. Unfortunately, it happens too much. Glad you found this board. It's a tremendous support system!
     
     
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    SamanthaLaura16SamanthaLaura16 member
    So sorry for your loss. I was the same way when I found out, I don't even remember the details of the day and then the lab girl kept trying to make me laugh and I wanted to punch her in the face. It is so confusing, frustrating and devastating. I hope that your D&C goes smoothly, I had as good of an experience as I could for what I was going in for.
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    TTC since December 2012 
    BFP 6/29/2013 - EDD 3/16/14 - MMC 9/5/2013
    Diagnosed with PCOS and taking metformin 750 mg  twice a day
    April 2014 -  - 1st ICI Cycle - BFP 5/15/14 EDD: 1/20/15
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    12/15 Checkup & heard his beautiful heartbeat
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    esmith10esmith10 member
    I'm so sorry for your loss. I was supposed to have an April 2014 baby too. This is so unfair and so hard. I hope you find this board to be a support system during this difficult time.
    TTC Since July 2013
    BFP #1 8/8/13, EDD 4/16/14
    MMC discovered on 9/18/13 @ 10w, baby measuring 9w. D&C on 9/26/13


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    AnnacarfieldAnnacarfield member
    I think it's more shocking when you have had a few pregnancies without a miscarriage and then have your first...I was shocked when I had one...and I cannot imagine the pain women go through having multiple ones...xoxo
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    mer313131mer313131 member
    Hugs! I have a 14 month old and it was a completely perfect pregnancy. I lost our angel this time at 8w, although he/she stopped growing around 5.5w. It doesn't make sense, but I guess it never does. I've been rotating between confused, angry, and sad the past two weeks. I had a D&C today after passing most of the sac and tissue yesterday at home. I feel a lot better now that at least the physical part is over and I can focus on emotional healing . I hope it goes as smoothly for you.

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    BFP#3: 2/3/14, EDD 10/15/14, fraternal TWINS confirmed 2/21/14, two BOYS confirmed on 4/15/14!


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    Kristy774Kristy774 member
    Thank you ladies, just taking this one day at a time. I still feel blindsided.
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    FrenchteachermamaFrenchteachermama member
    I'm sorry for your loss and I feel your pain too. I know there are many women who do not have other children and who experience miscarriages so I am certainly blessed to have two beautiful daughters (5&2)...but that is the first thing that everyone says "at least you have two other healthy children", that line isn't helping with this new pain. I'm entitled to mourn this pregnancy loss even though I have two beautiful girls. I had two previous c-sections and the D&C was so similar to that it was such a sad experience. But it's the fastest way to move forward. You are strong and you will make it through this. Love your babies and take care of yourself...



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    BFP #1 7/21/2013--EDD 3/30/14--D&C 9/24/13
    BFP #2 1/28/14--MC 2/7/14
    IUI #1 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #2 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IUI #3 5mg Femara + trigger = BFN
    IVF #1, Stimmed for 12 days, ER 8/22/14, 9 retrieved, 7M, 7F!!  Freeze all due to fluid in uterus.
    FET end of October 2014 cancelled due to fluid in uterus due to possible c-scar defect
    Surgery scheduled 12/12/14 to fix possible isthmocele
    3/26/15 transferred one 8 cell grade 4 embryo and one 6 cell grade 3 embryo = slow rising betas for 2+ weeks = ectopic MTX shot 4/29/15
    Repeat c-scar surgery June 2015
    2nd and last IVF cycle August 2015, stimmed for 12 days, 2 egg retrieved, both mature and both fertilized.  Transferred both 8-cell embryos on Day 3, beta 9/5/15 = BFFN
    MOVING TO ADOPTION!  


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