Adoption
Flamingo86
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Started TTC July 2012. Missed m/c & d&c 9/12 11w. Natural m/c 1/13 6w. Chemical pgs 3/13 & 8/13 around 4w. Currently TTA while saving for adoption.
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” -Helen Keller
It's official
Flamingo86
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in Adoption
Last week my husband and I made the official decision to stop TTC and pursue adoption. It wasn't an easy decision to make but we are confident in our choice.
We are most likely going to pursue domestic infant adoption through an agency but are keeping an open mind to other options as well. We decided to take the rest of the year to relax and not make any big commitments yet. We are also planning a move around Feb-March of next year and do not wish to start our home study until after we move. For now we are just getting used to not TTC, researching our options, and saving as much money as possible.
I've really enjoyed hanging around this board and am looking forward to spending more time here.
We are most likely going to pursue domestic infant adoption through an agency but are keeping an open mind to other options as well. We decided to take the rest of the year to relax and not make any big commitments yet. We are also planning a move around Feb-March of next year and do not wish to start our home study until after we move. For now we are just getting used to not TTC, researching our options, and saving as much money as possible.
I've really enjoyed hanging around this board and am looking forward to spending more time here.
Started TTC July 2012. Missed m/c & d&c 9/12 11w. Natural m/c 1/13 6w. Chemical pgs 3/13 & 8/13 around 4w. Currently TTA while saving for adoption.
“When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” -Helen Keller
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Re: It's official
TTC since Jan 2012
Me (28) DH (28)
Dec 2012 Testing Complete: Me: Blood tests look great HSG "beautiful" DH: SA = normal Unexplained?
PAIF/SAIF welcome!
This is great! Obviously it's difficult to move on from TTC to adoption or any other path you choose, but from my personal experience I did start feeling peace and excitement as we moved along the adoption path.
Good luck to you!
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Married 9/29/2007
TTC 11/2010
Me: HSG 4/2012 Tubes Clear, Hypothyroid, PCOS
DH: MFI, SA #1 2 million, SA #2 no sperm, SA #3 7 million total
DH is now on HSG shots 2x week, 2.5 MG Letrozole 2x week, Vitamin B Complex, 600 mg Alpha Lipoic Acid, and 400 mg CoQ-10.
Mother of two wonderful boys! Blessed through adoption.
TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!
TTC since May 2012
HSG- all clear
March 2014 - RE appt.
April 2014- Saline sono all's good, terrible SA results - 8 sperm found all abnormal
May 2014- Fert Urology- Bilateral varicoceles, recommend Donor Sperm
12/2014- Surprise natural BFP EDD 7/31/15 Plan: Starting foster to adoption, natural cycles