We are just a week in and my husband just went back to work today but I try my best to focus on my toddler anytime I can put baby down. Right now grandma is here and he could give a crap if I pay attention to him. I've also been trying to still do his bed time a well.
It depends. If I can lay LO down or get her to sleep in Moby I try to focus on DD1. Yesterday DD1 and. I took a hike (we live in county) while DD2 napped in Moby. It was great
DD is a week old today. I'm still really sore from stiches so it's hard to do a lot. I do his bedtime routine sometimes and we talk and cuddle on the couch. I'm ready for my bum to feel better so I can move around more and play with him.
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