How would you confront something like this? I'm fairly new (less than 1 year) at a great company, where I thought I was well-liked. Today it was brought to my attention that several of my coworkers, one senior to me, have been making fun of me on social media platforms. It's nothing too terrible, but more like 13 year old girl stuff - I'm not funny, I can't draw, I'm annoying, nobody likes me, the color of paint on a certain wall (they're claiming I chose it) is ugly, people who are nice to me are being fake, etc - but it's very hurtful because it's more than one person. It was obviously directed at me; some of my colleagues saw it and were remarking on it.
One of them is senior to me though not my supervisor, we have to work together pretty closely and he is good friends with my kids' pediatrician. He was so nasty to me today when I asked him about it that I was mortified and this close to crying; we left it that he didn't tell me when some meetings are tomorrow that I have to be at (hasn't invited me in fact). The others, are junior to me but not in my department; I've never worked directly with them or exchanged more than half a dozen words total.
My supervisor just had a death in his family and I don't want to approach him with this crap.
How would you handle this? I don't even want to go in to work tomorrow, or ever again.
Re: Advice needed: Coworkers making fun of me online
I'm confused about the guy you confronted, what did he say to you exactly? Withholding meeting times is beyond bizarre on top of all the rest.
I would try to document everything you've been told or seen (obviously if you're able to access/view any of it you should print it out ASAP in case it gets deleted) and also these interactions w/ the coworker re the meetings, trying to be as objective in writing it all down as you can.
Good luck & so sorry this is happening to you
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Try not to get too emotional about it when you speak to your sup or whom ever. I know, easier said then done. State the facts, tell your sup how its now interfering with your work, how you have tried to fix the situation yourself but was retaliated against and missed a meeting bc of this.
Best of luck to you and please keep us posted. Hugs!
I fully agree with PP. Document everything and go to HR straight away. I would even mention how that one of the guys who is involved that you spoke with was unnecessarily nasty to you.
I am pissed and hurt for you. Good luck!
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