I feel like a worse wife since I've been pregnant. Does anyone else feel the same way?
My backstory (you might have a different reason): We're really lucky and I'm thankful for that; I have a fantastic husband who was splitting chores with me before I got pregnant, and we didn't have too many anyway because we have a housekeeper every other week. My chores were taking care of the cats and dishes. With toxoplasmosis fears, my husband has taken over cat litter. The dishes, frankly, are not too time-consuming, since it's just us two right now and the dishwasher takes care of the messy part.
I also have completely lost my sex drive since I got pregnant. So, I feel guilty about that. I help him out in other ways in that department, but without being in the mood myself, it hasn't gone perfectly.
I bring home a majority of our income, so there's that--I work really long hours. My husband is starting his own business out of the home and currently brings home a little of our income from a part-time job--he lost his full-time job about a month ago. I still feel guilty, though, like I'm emasculating him by having him do all the chores and not being interested in sex anymore.