My daughter is very small for 13 months. I guess I'm not sure why someone saying your child is small is deemed as "rude". People are constantly commenting on my daughter being small; it doesn't phase me at all. She is my lil baby girl! Key word lil.
I once had a woman ask if she could take a photo of Howell because he was so big. Her son was the same age and much smaller. Her DH would never believe her without a pic. I said no. He's a baby, not a circus act. I was quite irritated. Mothers should understand that every mom worries about their LO's sizes.
I once had a woman ask if she could take a photo of Howell because he was so big. Her son was the same age and much smaller. Her DH would never believe her without a pic. I said no. He's a baby, not a circus act. I was quite irritated. Mothers should understand that every mom worries about their LO's sizes.
Yeah, what is up with strangers asking to take pictures of babies? "Aww, he's so cute. I need to get a picture", as they whip out their phone. Umm, no.
W is not even on the charts for height, so we get a lot of comments too. We went to H's company picnic today, and a lady with an almost 14 month old asked me if the Dr was concerned about his size, because he was considerably smaller, but chunkier, than her tall and lean baby... Uh no. Babies come in all different shapes and sizes, just like we do. Freaking idiot.
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people are just obsessed with saying how big and small babies are. i think if they legit thought your LO had an issue or something, they wouldn't have called their friend over to look. i'm hoping they just thought your lo was a cutie!
This is true. It reminds me of when ds had to wear a heart monitor, and people made comments about him having his own pager. When I would respond that it was a heart monitor, it was obvious that they immediately regretted their comments.
Jode has most of it, but the whole crying thing and never knowing if she could ever trust them again seemed a bit off to me.
That and how she offhandedly mentions going to her LO's daycare to visit everyday at lunch. Being a former infant and toddler room teacher, I would be so annoyed.
Yeah, I'm on team "no nuking" here...and I probably would have cried too. I have working mom guilt real bad!
I get it. I would be the same way. But I would also know that I was overreacting.
Oh yeah! Self awareness is key for sure.
Exactly. And that's what was a little odd...she really didn't think she was overreacting, even when a few bumpies very nicely and respectfully suggested that she might be.
This is what I miss for pretending to sleep all night? I think you ladies were fair. I even commiserated about my giant circus freak kid. Oh well, it's her loss...
Edited because that's what I get for picking on the other posters for typos.
Confession...I had no friggen idea what day today was. I saw this post and was super confused as to why everyone was commenting on a post from last September. I don't know what day I thought it was, but it most certainly was not September 22nd
Wow that seems a bit excessive. DS is tiny and we get comments all the time. Especially when I set him down and he takes off running. I think it is comical most of the time since people think he is closer to 8 months than almost 13 months.
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I once had a woman ask if she could take a photo of Howell because he was so big. Her son was the same age and much smaller. Her DH would never believe her without a pic. I said no. He's a baby, not a circus act. I was quite irritated. Mothers should understand that every mom worries about their LO's sizes.
Edited because that's what I get for picking on the other posters for typos.
But, I nuke G's bottles in the microwave and always have because I'm the shittiest mom ever.
SCANDAL!
I saw the daycare post but missed what this one was originally about before she changed it to a dramatic exit.
Anyone care to recap what she was so up in arms about this time?
Oh wait is that insensitive to say little?