December 2013 Moms

Worried about Postpartum depression

Anyone worried about getting postpartum depression?

Re: Worried about Postpartum depression

  • I am because I had it last time. I think I'll be more aware of it if it happens again and not just chalk it up to being tired and stressed. I'd talk to your partner and doctor about your worries.
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  • I am because I struggled a little with depression in my first tri, I think I just needed time to adjust to all the hormones and the big change happening in my life.
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  • I am because I have suffered from anxiety and depression on and off for the last 10 years.  I talked to my doctor about it yesterday and know that I have options (medicine) there for me if I need it.

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  • I am because I suffered from it after my last birth. I've already discussed this with DH and he knows to be on the lookout for signs and symptoms. The problem is, I think I hid it pretty well from friends and family the first time around. Anyway, it can happen to anyone of us. And you shouldn't be ashamed to admit that something might be wrong. It took me six weeks to even bring it up to DH. This time, I'm saying something as soon as I feel that way again. For me, I chose to go unmediated as I was EBF, and still am. The things that helped the most for me were lots of help and visitors, getting out of the house, and planning activities to do. I'm not looking forward to having a winter baby only for the reason that we will be cooped up inside more and I know that isn't going to help. Anyway, I posted a few days ago about looking for a labor body to message back and forth postpartum in order to just talk about how we are feeling after the birth. Specifically I wanted someone who has dealt with PPD. If you or anyone else wants to, let me know.
  • Sorry about the wall of text, bumping from my phone. Also I should add its not that you can't use medications post partum. Some are safe, but between my physician and myself we chose not to medicate and to have frequent follow ups. I think that depends on the severity of how YOU feel though.
  • I had it with my first one for a little bit. I had a tough time dealing with having to have a C-section. This time I'm just worried all together. I've had some pretty tough moments during the pregnancy thus far and the first time it was a breeze. Just wondering if I'm the only one here worrying like this
  • I would love to have a buddy in place!
  • Yes. I didn't have it with DD but this time I live in a new state with no friend network and my baby has health issues.




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  • That really is a good idea. Btw I was really good at hiding it too. Same concerns as well being cooped up.
  • I am also, I had it with DD. It did not help things that my grandpa died of pancreatic cancer when DD was 10 days old and I couldn't fly home for the funeral.  I couldn't sleep at all either. I ended up telling my OB and she had me go to my regular doctor for some medications. I have dealt with depression on and off since I was a teenager, so I knew the signs.  I know it can really sneak up on some people though, so it is important to have a support system for yourself.
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  • Yes.  I am honestly terrified sometimes.  I had PPD with DS1 and it was extremely difficult.  It is heartbreaking because I truly did not enjoy being a mother for a very long time.  I feel like I missed out on the wonderful newborn experience.  I hope I recognize it sooner this time if it happens.  I will not hesitate to treat it this time.
  • I'm a FTM, but very worried about PPD as well. My mom suffered it immensely with each of her three babies. She went from being bipolar (pre pregnancy) to completely depressed after her final birth. She was never the same- the chemical imbalance got so out of whacked! (Granted, she had other mental and medical issues as well, but this was a huge contributor)
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  • Yes, I suffer from depression, and winter is a bad time for me anyway.  The meds that have worked for me in the past have the second highest bf transmission rate, so my psych and I are planning frequent appts so that we can keep an.eye on me.  I'd like to stay unmediated but it will be a cost benefit analysis.
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  • Yes. I had it after ds1. It went undiagnosed until he was 14 months old. I spent a week in the hospital. I've been on zoloft ever since.

    I had no issues after ds2, but I still worry. I wouldn't wish ppd on my worst enemy.
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  • I have struggled with depression for many years.  I was on meds right up until I found out I was pregnant.  Be sure you have open communication with your doctor.  Let him know your fears now, and do not hesitate to call him before your 6 week appointment if you feel more than the hormonal "baby blues".  
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  • I too am worried about being depressed postpartum. I have always suffered from anxiety and depression and my SO doesn't think I should go back to my medications after the baby is born because he thinks they are negative mind altering substances. I just feel so bad right now for not being as excited about the baby coming as everybody else in my family. I am going to talk to my dr. though and just try to stay calm about it!
  • Yes, I'm a little worried. I suffer from an anxiety and panic disorder. My anxiety gets worse when I have a change in hormones. It worrys me right after birth how I will be. I feel like I'm prepared to get help though right away since I'm almost expecting it.
  • micino said:
    That really is a good idea. Btw I was really good at hiding it too. Same concerns as well being cooped up.
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  • I am VERY worried about this. I struggle with anxiety and haven't been on my medication since I got pregnant. I hope it doesn't all come back to bite me! =-( 
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  • I think about it every day. Which I'm sure is not healthy. Depression runs in my fam and I've had a few random crying spurts recently. Idk I hope not!!
  • Certainly. I've struggled with severe depression since puberty, and its bad enough that my psychiatrist and I concluded before I TTC that it wouldn't be worth it for me to go off my meds while pregnant. I've dealt with crazy depressive episodes many times before, so I feel fairly prepared but of course I'm still a bit worried. My CNMs, DH, and psychiatrist are well aware of my condition and I feel that I have a strong support system.

    Is there a specific reason why you're worried? Do you think you may be more prone to getting it?
  • I had bad baby blues after my second, I wouldn't call it ppd. 2 under 2 really threw me for a loop, I had no patience for ds1 and was generally scared I would hurt. I talked to my OB and decided to try exercise first since I was at the gym daily until birth. I paid a sitter to watch the baby for 1.5 hours three days a week until he was 6 months and could go to the child care. It cost a fortune but it saved my sanity. I'm not anti drugs at all but physical activity and getting a break from the baby can really help with mild cases
  • Yep. I had PPD with my first, and it was rough. This time I am dealing with some prenatal anxiety and seeing therapist for it. She advocates making a detailed pp plan -- having help and support in place, knowing which providers to call, etc. I'll be doing that (with DH) and also getting on mess after delivery as a precaution.
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  • I'm worried about it. Last time I had a mild case, but since then DD1's illness and stress really affected me and before getting pregnant I was on medications for depression. Since being pregnant I've gone off of them but feel like I may need them again after LO is born but we'll see how it goes.
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  • I'm already in therapy and when not pregnant take a megadose of niacin, so I'm hopeful I'll avoid it.
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  • If you want more information about postpartum depression and good place to look/start is this publication Depression During and After Pregnancy available at https://www.ask.hrsa.gov/detail_materials.cfm?ProdID=3924
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