Multiples

Cautious introduction...

Hi everyone!
I'm still a deer in headlights so please forgive me.
I'm 6.5 weeks pregnant after months of trying to conceive my 2nd child. We suffered month after month of cp/early mc. Retuned to my re and went through a couple of rounds of IF meds with iui and got pregnant on our second round.
Went in for my ultrasound yesterday. We're expecting triplets. EDD is May 5, 2014.
We were kinda feeling there were 2 since I had 2 mature follies but never expected 3. I'm excited and nervous and concerned. I would love any support from other multiple moms :)
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  • I have no advice on triplets but congrats!
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  • Congrats x3!

    I'm also due in May (singleton), my twins turn one end of this month. So we'll both have our hands full come spring.

    I don't really have any advice but to say that this is doable. It's a lot to take in at first, but it eventually becomes the norm. When I get asked how I do it, the only thing I can think of is "I don't know I just do it!"

    Good luck OP.
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  • Amazing! Congrats! No experience with triplets but know that twins are a wild ride and I have 4 under 5! Take good care of yourself!
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  • Congratulations and welcome!
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  • Wow! That's awesome! Congrats!

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  • Congratulations on 3!!  

    DH and I did IF w/ IUIs too.  I was told we had *one* mature follicle when we did the IUI.  Amazingly now we are having twins.  I'm guessing that one follicle must've been close enough to release an egg?  Not sure that's even possible.  Needless to say, even though we talked about twins and knew that with IF it was a possibility, we never expected twins the cycle we got pregnant!! I was in "twin shock" for a good 2-3 weeks after finding out.  I've read that's really normal - so don't feel bad/guilty if you go through some kind of shock about the news... :) GL!! 
    Me: 30, DH: 40 
    TTC since January 2012HSG & Bloodwork: Normal, SA: NormalDx: Unexplained Infertility 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN (three cycles)
    50mg Clomid + trigger + IUI = BFP (one cycle)
    Beta #1 (12dpo) = 49  Beta #2 (14dpo)= 149

    Expecting g/g twins Oct '13


  • I am expecting Triplets in February!!! Although I know we will not make it that far! 3 little girls!
  • Congrats and Welcome! No triplet experience here to offer.

                              

  • Congrats and welcome! Triplets are definitely a shock at first, no doubt. But six years later I can say I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. :) There's a great online support community (esp on FB) so when the shock has worn off some, I can send you some links.
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  • Congrats and welcome! :)
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  • Welcome finding out about triplets can be a huge shock. I did meds but sex to get our trio we had one mature so when we went out and found out it was a huge shock for us also. Glad you found the group and I agree with Pea-Kay there is wonderful support and great help out there.
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  • Welcome!!!



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  • Congrats and welcome! Triplets are definitely a shock at first, no doubt. But six years later I can say I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world. :) There's a great online support community (esp on FB) so when the shock has worn off some, I can send you some links.

    I'd love to hear them tooo <3

  • Congratulations x3!


  • Congratulations!!!
  • Congrats and welcome to the board! These ladies are a really good resource and a great source of support.
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    BFP #2 on 5/1/13 = boy/girl TWINS with EDD of 1/3/14 but expected no later than 12/20/13.
  • Congrats!!!
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  • Wow, triplets, congratulations!  :)
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  • Congrats and welcome!!

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  • Congrats!  FInding out you are having multiples is definitely shocking :)  But you will adjust!  Hope your pregnancy is as uneventful as it is possible to be with multiples :)

    TTC since May 2006. After 3 failed Clomid cycles, 2 failed Injectibles/IUIs, 2 failed IVFs and 1 failed FET, we moved on to adoption! 

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  • Congrats!  I have just a few bits of advice for you.  Keep in mind, I am expecting twin boys in December, so am 26 weeks.

    1. Look at your feet now.  Before you know it you won't be able to see them unless you lean WAY forward. Or look in a mirror.

    2. Enjoy the ability to tie your own shoes while you can.  I'm to the point that I can't unless I sit on a bed and bring my leg close to tie them, bending over is not an option anymore for me.

    3. Invest in one of those bath spongies-on-a-stick thingers.  And liquid soap.  You'll thank me for the suggestion later. 

    4. Take a picture of your belly (side shot) every week.  Starting now.  I started at 15 weeks and the change I see is amazing.  You don't ever have to show anyone other than those living in your house, but it'll be a great reminder of what your body USED to look like, and how amazing your body is to bring forth those adorable babies, and how beautiful your body is (despite any new imperfections) once they are here.

    5. Just sit back and smile at all the idiots that make negative comments.  eg: How'd this happen?  Are they natural?  It'll be soooo hard, you're never going to be able to do it alone. 

    Just smile at them and flip them off in your mind, knowing that God trusted you with these little blessings because He knew that you CAN do it!

     

    Any other advice from me would have to wait until after mine are actually here.  :D  I do hope you got a bit of a chuckle out of this!!!  I may add more later.  ha ha ha

     

  • I love all of JoDoc's advice!! I will also add that you are not a bad mom or ungrateful if you have a few good cries about the news. At least that is what I tell myself - I cried for 4 days after we found out it was twins. But now I can't imagine it any other way!! xoxox 
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  • amazing!  congratulations to you! 
    Me (37) DH (39); PCOS changed to Unexplained, changed to DOR in 2012 (finally a correct diagnosis!); 
    Started TTC 2009 with RE after 6 months.  
    Clomid + Trigger x2; 
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    IUI + Follistim x2;
    IVF #1 (MDL) February 2013- BFN.
    IVF #2 (antagonist) May 2013, First BFP of my life. 
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  • Thanks ladies!! I am a teacher and am on my feel all of the time. That's going to have to change some. But we'll work through it. Shock is wearing off and we just need to make some changes to make this exciting for all. I can't wait to see the in 2 weeks!! I would love the contacts to any trips moms!!
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  • Congrats! I remember the shock well... I'm scheduled for c section next week and am excited to meet my girls and boy! Take it one day at a time - find doctors you trust and work with them above all. Educate yourself about the basics of your configuration - but don't go overboard on dr. Google... Best of luck for your upcoming adventure - you can do it!
  • I "only" have twins (never thought I would say that to anyone!) but wanted to say congrats!
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    8/08 BFP resulted in m/c
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    6/09 IUI#2 with Clomid=BFN
    8/09 IUI#3 with Clomid=BFN
    IVF#1 = BFN
    IVF#2 = BFN
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  • Oh, here are some more:

    6. Enjoy sleeping on your back or stomach now (if you currently do so).  There will come a time very soon that you will dream about these days, wishing you could sleep on your stomach or back.  (Ok, you can lay on your back for a bit, but it gets uncomfortable/painful)

    7. Invest in a good pillow.  I hear some like body pillows, some like regular pillows, some like travel pillows.  Doesn't matter what you like, but make sure you like it.  It will become your friend when you sleep.  From laying it between your knees to wedging it under your growing belly for support.  If you travel, don't leave home without it! :)

    8. If you get morning sickness (who am I kidding...all day sickness) don't be afraid to try different suggestions.  Some worked for others but not me, some worked for me but not others.  Just know that it WILL pass, even if it feels like it never will. 

    9. Don't be "too good" for second hand clothing (in good condition).  We went to rummage sales this past weekend and found some name brand baby clothes (not why we went, but they were just so dang cute) for $1-2 a piece.  Ended up spending $60 total all weekend for clothing that would have cost upwards of $400. 

    10.  Someone WILL critique your every move.  How often you are seeing the doctor, how often you are NOT seeing the doctor, whether you choose to breast feed or not, whether or not you are going to work or stay at home.  Just remember, this is YOUR family, and repeat #5, "Just sit back and smile while flipping them off in your mind". 

     

    For the record, I will give advice but whether people use it or not, that's their choice.  What works for me may not work for you but hearing what I did in my situation may give you a better or different idea of something that will work for you and your family.  All I can (and will definitely) do for you that I know will help is to pray for a happy and healthy pregnancy and delivery.  :D

     

  • Congratulations and welc
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  • Congratulations! One of my good friends has triplets and said the best advice was to find another MoM (mother of multiples) in the area to talk with, and gain experience.
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  • Congrats - what an exciting and shocking time, the shock may never really wear off. My LOs are just over a year and sometimes I still can't believe it. Take it one day at a time. T&P
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