Officially want to go into hiding.

MegStark · September 2013

Okay - There is really going to be no point to this other than I might feel better. I know I'm not the only one here, ladies. I officially want to go into hiding. I don't want to talk to anyone but my husband and doctor. For numerous reasons that are most likely all hormone related, I am SO irritated with every other human being I come into contact with. I don't think anyone can say anything right. My friends are annoying the shit out of me. Why? I can't really put my finger on it, but I'm almost to the point of ugly crying. AND I HATE it when anyone asks "what's the plan" right now. I don't care what situation they're referring to. I just hate the general question.

Okay. End rant. I feel a little better.

Can we have a gif party?? AND can someone else please share how they hate everyone right now?

rachelstauf · September 2013

I have told my DH every day for at least a week that I hate everyone who isn't him. Lol. My OB is even irritating me for no reason. I know I'm just hormonal and uncomfortable, but I'd be ok hiding out in my apartment until baby comes.

ravenclaw1 · September 2013

Hah, I think you're in good company. I get irritated easily too, and just have to remind myself that people mean well.

The latest source of pregnancy annoyance for me is that we're team green and everyone LOVES telling me why they're positive I'm having either a boy or girl.

jlp0528 · September 2013

I'm mobile so memes will have to do! The first is most of the women still pregnant on our board ...

Edit to include:
Also I hate that women who have never had children, friends and family included in this have the nerve to tell me how I should feel or what I should do at this point... They piss me off!
The remainders just gave me giggles ...

jlp0528 · September 2013

@Loppy19 are you fucking kidding me at those comments? Are people legitimately out of their minds?!

MegStark · September 2013

@jpryber0528 - I just laughed out loud in my office at "hose be trippin"

@Loppy19 - REALLY??? What on earth is wrong with people??

You all are the best!! Really. I feel better already. And, in case anyone is bored - I ran across this article that had me cracking up. I like Whole Foods for a few random things... but this is a funny read.

HBirdie · September 2013

ravenclaw1 said:

The latest source of pregnancy annoyance for me is that we're team green and everyone LOVES telling me why they're positive I'm having either a boy or girl.

YES. My mom is the worst, she swears it's a girl and sometimes to balance her out* I will say "or he" after she says "She blah blah blah blah..." And then she gets sooo irritated with me and she's like, "I just know it's a girl ok? You don't have to keep reminding me that it could be a boy. It's not like the baby can hear and get offended or something!"

Edit to add *or piss her off

mkb5g5 · September 2013

I'm with ya! DH us the only one I want to be around. But he hears all my complaining and ranting and I'm surprised he hasn't ran for the hills. I have to limit what my family especially my mom since she has no problems repeating everything I say in detail. For the past month I've wanted to tit punch anyone that says I wouldn't make my EDD. I'm now like YEAH bitches, 40&1! But they've moved on to complaining about my induction date being too far away.

Jenmarie279 · September 2013

Add me to the list. I had a not so pleasant doctors appointment earlier and I accidentally texted my mom the information that I meant to text my husband, which lead to a highly annoying conversation.

I know that people are excited, but geez, get off my ass about MY baby already.

Shenique12 · September 2013

I am so irritated recently that I have not being answering my house phone. Thank God not everyone have access to my cell phone ,and I am even more elated I am not on any social websites . They just need to give us a break!!!

Zmommy2 · September 2013

I'm glad it's not just me! But today I'm such a grump butt. I told my friend that if being super exhausted, impatient, and annoyed were signs of going into labor then I'd be on my way to the hospital. Doesn't help that I was super dilated last week, the dr said she was pretty sure I wouldn't make it to this week, even my mom flew out early, and at my appt yesterday I was even more dilated (5 cm?!) and today still pregnant... I know dilation doesn't mean anything in terms of going into labor, which is now something I have to have on repeat whenever I'm talking to anyone. But I'm reading into every sign and feeling and can't help it. And DH is being really sweet but he's checking on me every few hours and even that's annoying me!

msronzio · September 2013

Ugh. I was at that irritated-with-everyone point at the end of 2nd tri. Even DH was getting the short end of the stick. Now not so much. People don't irritate me. My body does.

I feel like the pregnancy paparazzi spies on me and waits for me to leave my apartment. I'm not currently working so I'll go days without contact with strangers. But gosh, once I leave home... Pretty much everyone has a comment, a question, or stares! They're generally nice so I'm not really complaining. I just think it's silly and interesting.

Usually men stare at the belly; DH noticed that one and pointed it out. But women will ask how much longer, etc. I had a young cashier girl at the store and I expected her to make conversation about the baby. Instead she made conversation about the groceries! I nearly fell off my dinosaur. It was odd to have a conversation with a stranger that wasn't about being huge and pregnant.

Loppy19 said:
I wish I was kidding. My friend is on douchebag comment patrol. She's ready to swoop in and snark any douchey FB comments.

Ha! I have a friend who does this too! So awesome lol

Angelbaby117 · September 2013

Yep definitely in this boat. I went on maternity leave last week due to the annoying comments I was sooo tired of getting. It was literally affecting my blood pressure and it was creeping up. Now it's back down to 120/78!

I turned the vibrate off on my phone and keep it on silent because people are coming out of the woodworks to best friend me all of a sudden and ask me personal stuff like dilation and contractions. My MIL text me 3 times and called me yesterday AFTER I told her I was having diarrhea and was going to try to nap. I check my phone a few times a day only now. It's nice to kind of be cut off from the world and my mom is very supportive. Now I know why they say these last few weeks are the longest!

thebabyA · September 2013

Yes I'm sick of everyone to. So last couple days been hibernating at home. I use to work at the grocery store in town so whenever I go in there I get stared down. I try to avoid them as much as possible but its kinda hard to do. One of the ladies ask when I'm due blah blah blah with other questions....well not even a week later she seen me in there and guess what question she ask my sister when she sees her. When I'm due.

Blacksuzi · September 2013

Here here. I was due yesterday and got so badly in the grumps last night that I couldn't sleep which just made me angrier. I wish everyone would just go away...Happy to hide with DH til this LO comes!!

imakeeff0rts · September 2013

Umpteen hundred people have called/texted today and asked how I'm feeling. I've burst into tears every time. Even at my doctor who called to ask about the itching.

I'm just not going to answer the phone anymore. Or text. Or facebook.

Speaking of, I'm getting really fucking irritated with my two friends that are in their late second tri talking about how they're nesting and how much they're getting done. All I really want to say is "Yeah, well, fuck you very much for rubbing that in my face", but I don't. I just hide it and move on.

Dee2588 · September 2013

Add me to the list as well.....I always want to punch everyone at work especially when they start asking me "you're still pregnant?" "You need to have that baby" "when is she coming"....I had already become a hermit throughout my whole pregnancy now I'm even more of a hermit.

Mrs.AllyH · September 2013

I'm 39 weeks today and my mom texts me a ton. I just got an e-mail from her telling me she's going to a friend's house for dinner untik around 10:45 and she gave me her home number, just in case I go into labor in the next 3 hours. She went to a movie on Friday and gave me strict "call at least 3 times and send a text message with details" I have explained at least 15 times that she isn't going to get a call until I am admitted, and on top of that, her flight isn't booked until next wednesday, so I have no idea what good it will do if she knows the exact minute! Geesh

MJHershey · September 2013

I too hate people, coworkers are on my last nerve, especially the secretary that does nothing but wander around our hall chit chatting.

Went on an errand- asked about 5x about due date,etc.

DH and my family are safe. MIL annoys me by her very presence lately.

So yes. Mental throat punching here.

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