January 2014 Moms

Overreacting?

I'm having a rough day today and was hoping to vent a little and get some of your takes on my situation. 

Sooo a little about my pregnancy:
About a month before becoming pregnant I was diagnosed with PID and BV that was only diagnosed bc I had symptoms of a yeast infection (which I also had :(Fast-forward to last weekend right after reading Sparrows story :( - I lost an abnormally large amount of otherwise normal looking discharge and was having some cramping. I called the doctor and he told me if the cramping increases in intensity, to go to the ER. If not, I could be losing part of my mucus plug flushing to try and protect the baby from an infection, so I should schedule an appointment for the week for a pelvic exam. So I had some scheduling issues (2 for this appointment bc the office mixed some things up and didn't end up getting in until last friday. They screened me for infections and called me today telling me I had BV and that he put a prescription in, and to call to recheck if I was having anymore symptoms in 3 weeks. I asked what symptoms to look out for since I havent really had any besides that one instance of a lot of discharge. She told me "the green discharge you told the doctor you had. WTH??? I never said that I had that symptom I've never had it. So whatever, I go get my meds and begin searching websites like mayoclinic and CDC for my risk percentage of preterm given that I have BV. The first thing I find is info on the CDC website that says the medication he prescribed has been shown to have an increased risk for preterm with pregnant women and there fore orals are usually prescribed. I call my mom, she writes me off and hangs up on me (drama - she has been pretty unsupportive of me since she found out I was preg.). The doctors office is treating me like I'm crazy for questioning them and acting like I'm finding random info on the internet. I'm freaking out. Am I over reacting? What would you do? 

Sorry for the long-winded info, any and all points of view will be appreciated as I'm super stressed (trying to calm down I know that doesn't help). 
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  • You're not overreacting.  Have you spoken with the actual doctor or just the office staff?  I'd request to speak to your OB and see what he/she says.  Also make sure you tell them the misunderstanding of your symptoms.
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  • Try not to stress! If your doctor gave you a prescription for the BV you have to trust he is not putting you or your baby in harms way.

    Best of luck to you!

     

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  • You are not overreacting and your gut instincts are usually right. I'm with PP, leave a message that you would like to speak with your OB.
    Ugh x 1,000 that you are dealing with all of this. Sorry.
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  • I agree ask to speak directly to the OB.
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  • Thank you ladies, I appreciate your advice!! 

    I have asked them to have the Doctor call me back. If I feel like he is still brushing off my concerns I'm going to schedule an appointment with another OB (my doctor is family practice, he does OB on the side) for a second opinion.
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  • I had BV and took the antibiotic about a month ago with no issues. I read all of the crap online and had a similar conversation with my mother, even! You will be fine, but if you have any doubt that it doesn't clear up after the meds, definitely go back to the OB.
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  • You're not overreacting. Why don't you ask your pharmacist? Patients seem to overlook us all the time but we usually know more about meds than the doc does. ;)
    Great advice! I'm a home care nurse and if I have questions about specific medications my patients are on I've found the pharmacists are often a better resource than the doctors, both because they are easier to reach and because medications are their specialty.
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    That is good to hear! I have heard pharmacists be referred to as "glorified pill counters" and that really bothers me. A lot of people don't realize we have a doctorate and at least the pharmacists I know went into the profession to help people.
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  • Thanks again for the advice!! 

    Update: I got a second opinion and I'm glad I did. They prescribed me a different medication that is less controversial during pregnancy, and mentioned that the original medication is never recommended in the second half of pregnancy. After I spoke to the 2nd opinion doctor I started cramping really bad and I ended up going to get emergency care in case things were going down-hill in a bad way. Everything is OK for now, and I think this stressed me out way more than it should have, I just felt like my original doctor was not listening to my concerns! The maternity ward triage doctor also recommended the alternative medication rather than the original. Definitely looking for a new doctor for the remainder of this pregnancy. 

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  • Glad to hear everything turned out ok and that you took the time to get the second opinion.  It's very scary when you see hospital staff mix signals, etc.  nothing will freak out a person more than when a hospital cannot get their communcation issues down. 

    Try to take some time for yourself to destress, sounds like you deserve a good rest!

  • @aneubecker, my pharmacy is A-mazing!  I love my pharmacists and trust them every bit as much as I trust my doctor.  They have been great in quick pinches and one of them even helped me pick out a matching pre-natal when I couldn't afford the prescribed one from my OB.  They watch how much my medicines are costing me and have often put me into reimbursement programs so that I can get my meds cheaper.  I would never go anywhere else for pharmacy needs!

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  • I don't think you are over reacting and after reading your update, I'm glad you went in for a second opinion.
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  • peanutmusejmdaisy2 but if she feels uncomfortable with what her doctor told her she should definitely seek a second opinion.
    If you didn't like my advice you didn't have to reply to it. I don't understand why women on here are nasty!
     
    gracete said:

    Try not to stress! If your doctor gave you a prescription for the BV you have to trust he is not putting you or your baby in harms way.

    Best of luck to you!

    Seriously, @gracete, this is some pretty bad advice. Doctors are not gods and they make mistakes. There is something to be said for being an advocate for yourself.

    I agree with @aneubecker, ask the pharmacist and then go from there.

     

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  • @gracete I don't think @peanutmuse was being nasty.  She's just saying that just because someone is a doctor doesn't mean they are infallible.  It's great that you have a doctor that you trust, but clearly OP doesn't and apparently with good reason.  I would always encourage someone to advocate for themselves with their doctors and not just follow advice blindly, which is what Peanutmuse was saying.  If your doctor says something that your intuition and your research tells you isn't ok then you should absolutely be encouraged to question that to protect yourself.
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  • gracete said:
    peanutmusejmdaisy2 but if she feels uncomfortable with what her doctor told her she should definitely seek a second opinion.
    If you didn't like my advice you didn't have to reply to it. I don't understand why women on here are nasty!
     
    gracete said:

    Try not to stress! If your doctor gave you a prescription for the BV you have to trust he is not putting you or your baby in harms way.

    Best of luck to you!

    Seriously, @gracete, this is some pretty bad advice. Doctors are not gods and they make mistakes. There is something to be said for being an advocate for yourself.

    I agree with @aneubecker, ask the pharmacist and then go from there.

    @gracete, you can think it's nasty for people to point out bad advice. I'm okay with that. I'd certainly rather have bad advice pointed out than for it to be ignored so we can all play nice-nice. This is an environment where people actually think before they post. And possibly learn a thing or two.

    That's great that you trust your doctor. But if she had followed your advice, she could have had complications. So yes, you need to think things through a bit more before posting.
  • I'm glad you got the second opinion! I always err on the side of caution and if something doesn't feel right, continue to ask until I get the correct information or get a second opinion.
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