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I'm Back... (mrsjessicamitchell)

MJM3108MJM3108 member
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So sorry for disappearing on you ladies! This week really, really sucked.... To start, I did POAS and I am not PG. Which is honestly okay for me right now. I am really struggling emotionally lately, and I don't know if I could have handled PgAL brain on top of everything else.

The one year anniversary of my mom's death is in a week, and I am kind of falling apart. Between that, the financial stress, trying to find a new (cheaper) place to live, and add to the mix DH and I have been arguing A LOT lately, I just am not in a good headspace. I would greatly appreciate any T&P you could send my way. I will be making an appt to see my OB this coming week about possibly getting on some kind of antidepressant, because trying to fix this on my own is clearly not working anymore. 

I'm hoping this weekend will do my heart good, as we are going to be celebrating quite a lot. My dad is getting married today, and tomorrow we are having a big party for my brother's 21st birthday. It will be nice to be surrounded by my family... 

I'll get a late BPF up shortly, but I hear my little man waking up, so I am going to go get him and get me some early morning snuggles... 
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  • JulyMomma2U2JulyMomma2U2 member
    (((Big hugs to you)))
    Loss #1: 18w5d.. D&E 04Mar03 BFP #2: Jun2011.. missed miscarriage. D&C 08Jul2011 8w4d. BFP #3: Nov2011.. Our Rainbow Baby!!! DS Born: 15Jul2012! BFP #4: Nov2012.. 2U1 - DS2 born 12Jul2013.  BFP #5: 01Jan2014..3U3!!

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  • ProfessorPedals825ProfessorPedals825 member
    Sorry things aren't going well. I'll be praying for you and I hope this weekend with family helps. ((hugs))

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    BFP#2 7/18/12; A/S 10/26/12 It's a Girl! EDD 3/29/13
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  • salsa_wifeysalsa_wifey member
    Sorry to hear you are having a hard time but I'm glad to hear you are able to ask for help. Hang in there. We are here for you too when you need us. >:D<

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    BFP #1: 11/25/2007, EDD 7/28/2008 - Missed m/c (blighted ovum) 12/6/2007 6w3d, D&C 1/3/2008.
    BFP #2: 4/2008 - Natural m/c at 6w.
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    BFP #3: 10/17/2008. EDD 6/23/2009,  Third time's the charm! Healthy baby boy born 6/27/2009 via emergency c-section.
    BFP #4: 6/14/2011. Healthy baby boy born 2/16/2012 via elective c-section.
    BFP #5: 1/15/2014. EDD 9/22/2014.     2/17/14:.We have a BABY!!! Heart rate 167 and measuring on time. 3/10/14 u/s #2 baby measuring perfectly at 12 weeks at heart rate of 166. NT u/s was normal. Maternit21 blood draw on 3/5/14. Results back on 3/19 - Normal.  It's a BOY!!!  4/10/14 at 16 weeks, 3 days discovered baby's heart stopped at 15 weeks, 6 days. D&C 4/11/14.  Pathology results were all normal.  New information on 8/11/14 - blood test revealed 1/3 of babys blood was in mine caused, most likely, by a tear in the placenta from extreme coughing.  Doctor believes this to be the cause of death.  Repeat D&C and Hysteroscopy scheduled for 8/19/14.  My Chart

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  • MJM3108MJM3108 member
    Thanks so much ladies. You are all amazing!!! I am so grateful to have all of you in my life, you are each a blessing to me! The wedding today was fabulous- it's wonderful to see my dad so happy! He and his wife have been together for 8 years, so it's great to see them finally married. I also gained 2 step brothers and a step sister today!  I am feeling slightly better, but I definitely will still be going to see my OB this week. 

    Thanks for your thoughts and prayers, they mean so much! (((HUGS)))
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  • adoxyinherearadoxyinherear member
    So many hugs. It sounds like you are dealing with a lot, so I'll be thinking good thoughts for you.
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  • Mmm79Mmm79 member
    Lots of hugs and Ts&Ps coming your way.

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  • orangegogglesorangegoggles member
    ::hugs:: I'm so sorry you have so much going on at once. T&ps coming your way.
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    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
    BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
    BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
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  • tetiananinatetiananina member
    I'm so sorry your having a rough week. I really hope things get better and hopefully the Dr can give you something to help. As for your Mom I am so sorry I couldn't imagine. Sending you lots of ((hugs))

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    BFP: 04.05.12 EDD: 12.17.12 Born 11.18.12 Jackson Kane 6lbs 5ounces

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