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After three beta test without doubling and the third decreasing 'RE has called it a chemical pregnancy. Now just waiting for the new cycle to start. I am pretty bummed about this whole situation SO and I are just trying to figure out how to move forward. 

Now I have to learn how to cope for an upcoming baby shower for a cousin of mine. I wish I could just say can't make it but with a recent death in my family it just wouldn't feel right to miss it. But how am I supposed to sit through it I have a hard enough time seeing her pregnant and so happy and after this it's going to be even harder.

Married in September 2010, started TTC journey November 2012

Me-

7 IUI- 2 CP- 2 BFN

RPL blood work 12/27, showed a balance translocation in chromosome 11;22  

Spouse-

PCOS 4 IUI-4 BFN

New Plan: Reciprocal IVF, me as carrier wife's eggs. Just went through insurance and received partial approval, so my part will go through my IVF benefits and wife's part will be out of pocket. Now just finalizing finance plans to cover the oop costs. Doctors office is in process of moving to a new building so there are no IVF start ups until March/April 2015. 



 

 

 

 

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  • That sucks, I'm sorry :(
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  • I'm so sorry!
    Fucking bump!!!!
  • So sorry for your loss.
    Me:34 H:33 
    Temping since Nov 2012, off BC since July 2011
    SA: Beyond Awesome
    CD3 BW (AMH:2.7, estrogen high:106) , low progesterone 7DPO
    OB diagnosed "weak ovulation"
    IUI #1 Jan 2014- 5mg letrozole, m/c 6w3d, betas slow to decrease
    IUI #2 Mar 2014- 5mg letrozole BFN
    IVF#1 Apr/May 2014 16R/12M/8F.  Transferred 2 blasts, 3 on ice

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  • I am so sorry. 
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  • I am sorry for your loss. Remember to take good care of yourself while the process completes. Wine, baths, a massage, whatever you need, go for it.

    As far as the baby shower, just go. I was recently down south visiting family, and I saw a cousin who is expecting with his wife. I found out her due date is a week before my due date was supposed to be. I've really been OK since my chemical but man, that really stung/hurt in a way I can't explain. But when we hung out later that night, those feelings were replaced with happiness for them. It made me feel good to see the happy ending happening to people I care about, even if I had missed it. I know I'll have a happy ending one day too, and they will be right there smiling along.

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  • I'm so so sorry.
    Married 5/21/2011
    DD 1 10/2012
    CP 9/2013
    DD 2 6/2014
    CP 3/2016        
     BFP 12/8/2016        
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  • I'm so sorry! I don't have any advice on the shower. I had one the weekend after my loss & I bailed on it. Hugs!

       Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T
    SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.
    BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female
    Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!
    Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.
    ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~
    New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  
    Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break
    Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC
    Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.
    "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."
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  • I'm so sorry. :-(
    Started TTGP July 2013  ~  BFP! 11/21/13  ~   TEAM PINK!!!  

    **Josephine Aimee** born 5/21 at 29 weeks 2 days

    You should know how great things were before you. Even so, they're better still today.  
    Now I can't think who I was before you ruined everything in the nicest way <3

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. :(

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  • Awww man :(  I'm so sorry for your loss.  I was really rooting for you guys.  Good luck with the baby shower, too.  I know that must be hard :(

    DD born 6.13.11 at 37w5d

    DS born 5.23.12 at 36w5d

    BFP 6.9.13|heartbeat of 128bpm 7weeks|7.23.13 ultrasound revealed no heartbeat|natural m/c and d&c 7.25.13

    DS born 5.20.14 at 38 weeks

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  • Sorry for your loss :(

    ME: 29 DH:29
    TTC #1 since September 2013
    BFP Aug 27 2014, EDD- May 9 2015 - MMC Oct 16 2014



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  • I'm so sorry. :(
  • I'm really sorry for your loss.
    Me 31  <3  DH 34
    TTC #1 5/13 BFP #3 5/2/14 DD born 1/19/15
    NTNP #2 8/17 BFP 12/13/18 ED 8/21/19
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  • Sorry for your loss.

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  • I'm so sorry :(
  • I'm so sorry for your loss :(
    Married since 10/2011
    TTC #1 since 11/2012
    Dx: No Sperm Count

    History:
    Referred to RE after SA results
    HSG, bloodwork, and U/S all good
    3 Non-Medicated IUIs + 1 Clomid IUI w/ Trigger = All BFNs

    Today:
    Dr says 2 more Clomid IUIs until we move to IVF

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  • I am sorry for your loss. Remember to take good care of yourself while the process completes. Wine, baths, a massage, whatever you need, go for it.

    As far as the baby shower, just go. I was recently down south visiting family, and I saw a cousin who is expecting with his wife. I found out her due date is a week before my due date was supposed to be. I've really been OK since my chemical but man, that really stung/hurt in a way I can't explain. But when we hung out later that night, those feelings were replaced with happiness for them. It made me feel good to see the happy ending happening to people I care about, even if I had missed it. I know I'll have a happy ending one day too, and they will be right there smiling along.


    Thanks for the response it seems so hard to be happy but you are right I will be happy for them and I will have my day. :)

    Married in September 2010, started TTC journey November 2012

    Me-

    7 IUI- 2 CP- 2 BFN

    RPL blood work 12/27, showed a balance translocation in chromosome 11;22  

    Spouse-

    PCOS 4 IUI-4 BFN

    New Plan: Reciprocal IVF, me as carrier wife's eggs. Just went through insurance and received partial approval, so my part will go through my IVF benefits and wife's part will be out of pocket. Now just finalizing finance plans to cover the oop costs. Doctors office is in process of moving to a new building so there are no IVF start ups until March/April 2015. 



     

     

     

     

  • Very sorry for your loss. Thoughts go out to you and take care of yourself!
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    Started TTC April 2013 
    BFP February 1, 2014
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  • I'm so sorry. 
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  • I'm so sorry for your loss.
    TTC #2 Since October 2012
    BFP 11.1.12/EDD 7.7.13 MMC 12.4.12 D&E 12.10.12
    BFP 3.25.13/EDD 11.29.13 MC 4.6.13
    BFP 8.20.13 early MC 8.24.13
    BFP 9.20.13/EDD 6.5.14 Hoping & Praying this is our Rainbow Baby
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  • I'm so sorry

    Dx: Endometriosis (2010), PCOS (2013)


    TTC since 8/2012

    BFP 3/9/2014  Femara 7mg + trigger. EDD 11/20/2014

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  • I am so sorry :-(

     

     

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  • Sorry to hear this.


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  • I'm sorry you are going through this.
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  • So sorry you're going through this!! ::hugs::
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  • I am so sorry for your loss!



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  • Again, I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. Take time as a couple and deal with this together in any way you can. If you don't feel comfortable going to the baby shower, don't go. You have no duty to torture yourself at all. It's time to put you and your SO first. 

    TTC our first. Married to, and madly in love with, my beautiful wife. Living with our fur baby and enjoying 19 nieces and nephews. 
    • DW and I have been tracking, preparing, getting medical testing since January 2013.
    • First Cycle: Unmedicated ICI w/ Donor Sperm 08/02/13: BFN
    • Second Cycle: Unmedicated ICI w/ Donor Sperm 09/11/13, 09/13/13, 09/15/13: BFN
    • Third Cycle: Unmedicated ICI w/ Donor Sperm: 10/13/13, 10/15/13, 10/17/13, 10/21/13: BFN
    • January 2014: Sonohysterogram shows excellent lining & tubes have no blockages
    • Fourth Cycle:  Monitored clomid cycle  w/ ICI's at home: 1/24/14 and 1/25/14. Ovulation verified:  BFN
    • Fifth Cycle: 02/2014 Femara 5mg with ovidrel trigger CD14: BFN
    • Taking a few months off to evaluate if we want to keep trying


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  • GoaliesWife123. If you know it would upset you to go, just make up an excuse and don't go.

    *TTC #1 since June 2013*


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  • I'm very sorry for your loss. 
  • I'm so sorry for your loss.

     

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  • So sorry to hear this :-(
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    TTC #1 8/2012~Chronic Pelvic Pain Condition began 10/2012~Told I was crazy by many doctors until a good specialist DXed a labral tear and bone impingement in left hip 4/2013~Surgery on left hip: 5/31/13  SUCCESS!!!  Pain flares to continue indefinitely (but mostly gone).

    Resumed TTC 6/2013~Chronic stomach pain and distension: 8/2013~TTA 1/2014 Until Resolved ~7/2014: Trip to the Mayo Clinic--SUCCESS!!  Finally on the road to getting better.

    Resumed TTC 7/2014!  Third time's the charm....8/2014 Visited the RE~DX: MFI/low morph~Straight to IVF with ICSI! 9/2014~Transferred 1 perfect beautiful 6AA blast with 10 to freeze!!!~10/8/2014: BFP!!!!  EDD: 6/17/15 STICK LITTLE BEAN!!! IT'S A BOY!!!!! 

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  • That is no good :(.... Sorry to hear...

     

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    My husband and I tied the knot on June 29th, 2013

    First pregnancy: BFP- 10/23/09. EDD- 06/30/09. MC- 11/23/09

    TTC #1 since August 2013: Hooray!

    DX: PCOS 9/23/13

     

     

     

     

     

  • So sorry for your loss

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