Mine is no surprise. I love love love to argue and have to be right. I will argue to the death even if I don't really give a damn about the subject. Oh and once I start I won't stop! Thank God I married a man who won't ever argue.
I'm easily annoyed. When something sets me off I have a hard time calming down, and every other little thing adds to it until finally I'm just like, everyone just get the hell away from me for 5 freaking minutes.
I tend to bottle things up when it comes to emotional stuff.
ETA I'm super forgetful. If I don't write it on my calendar right away, it may as well not exist.
I worry about the teeny little stuff of life, it's annoying. Like when I hear my DD cough in bed at night, my heart sinks to the floor. But if our oven and fridge die at the same time, I'm all "whatever!". I hate it.
I am a slob, I always bite off more than I can chew, I am extremely competitive, I worry about every single thing in life, I either care about you 100% or not at all, there is no in between, I hold grudges.
I'm really insecure and always think my husband is going to leave me and that my friends hate me.
I'm too critical of others, which undoubtedly stems from the insecurity.
I'm so impatient.
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Mine is no surprise. I love love love to argue and have to be right. I will argue to the death even if I don't really give a damn about the subject. Oh and once I start I won't stop! Thank God I married a man who won't ever argue.
I have a really addictive personality, if i find something i like Im stuck on it. I can eat the same thing for dinner everyday and not blink and eye. If i like a shirt ill buy 10 of them. I have drank.the same coffee from dnd for the last 5 years. Everyday. I have to have it. Those things arent to bad but when you throw in smoking, drinking, and drugs its no good lol
I hate confrontation, and thus have hard time speaking my mind or standing up for myself. It's not as bad on here since things are more anonymous, but in IRL I really struggle with it. If DH's tone starts getting heated during an argument, I find myself shutting down. And yesterday in Walmart I watched some guy take my shopping cart, and didn't say anything... I just walked to the other end of the store to get another one. Stuff like that.
I'm snobby when it comes to food lol! No, seriously my faults are that I hold a grudge, I can be vindictive and I am a perfectionist in a sometimes unhealthy way.
Oh, here's another one. I tend to tune people out if they're talking about something that doesn't interest me. Like yesterday H was going on and on about something work related and I really couldn't tell you a single thing he said. It's not intentional at all, that's just how my brain works.
I totally do this. Last night H was talking about some programming junk, and I honestly can't repeat back one word. When I don't understand and/or I'm not interested in a subject, I blank out. I dunno WTF he was talking about, so I pretend to listen.
I hold a grudge. I don't go out of my way to make it known, but don't really like/forgive people again after they tick me off unless they give me a great reason to. Not that they care, I'm sure.
I judge people most for the things I see in them that I also see in myself and hate about myself.
I'm not a patient person.
I have terrible mom guilt.
DS (7 years old) from FET in 2010 DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012 TTC 3rd and final!: IUI #1 in progress!
I gossip. A lot. Okay, well I mean like to HEAR gossip and talk about it in the moment. But I rarely pass it on to anyone that knows the person. It is by far my ugliest trait.
I love to hear gossip as well. I don't like to pass it on but I do enjoy hearing it.
I have anxiety issues and that makes for one crazy momma/wife sometimes.
When I want something... I want it right then and there. I obsess about how to get it or achieve it until it happens. Once it happens, I'm on to the next thing. Absolutely hate this about myself.
I am easily addicted to things... for short periods of time. Then onto the next.
I don't know if I am oversensitive , anxious or just egotistical, but I look way too much intowhat people say or how they act and take it as them not liking me.
I love to hear gossip as well. I don't like to pass it on but I do enjoy hearing it.
I have anxiety issues and that makes for one crazy momma/wife sometimes.
When I want something... I want it right then and there. I obsess about how to get it or achieve it until it happens. Once it happens, I'm on to the next thing. Absolutely hate this about myself.
I am easily addicted to things... for short periods of time. Then onto the next.
Umm I think we are the same person? I can relate to allll those.
Especially with the wanting something right then and there. One day while we were out I decided I wanted one of those bounce houses for DS. Next thing you know we're wasting gas and 2 hours time driving around to 3 different stores to find one in stock because I wasn't going home without it. Sometimes I really do try to be less impulsive but I usually fail.
DS (7 years old) from FET in 2010 DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012 TTC 3rd and final!: IUI #1 in progress!
Oh I have another. Because my I was in the crisis/suicide field full time for so long, and still in part time, I don't have a lot of patience hearing my friend's/family's "petty" problems. I often think, "if everyone could only be so lucky that their biggest problem is deciding what giant TV to buy" or how many people to invite to their wedding or how to decorate their home.
I am no where near burnt out and fully intend to stay in the crisis field forever and I love it, it just gives you a lot of perspective on what the important things in life are.
Re: What are your faults?
I'm a procrastinator.
I can be too nice
I'm easily annoyed. When something sets me off I have a hard time calming down, and every other little thing adds to it until finally I'm just like, everyone just get the hell away from me for 5 freaking minutes.
I tend to bottle things up when it comes to emotional stuff.
ETA I'm super forgetful. If I don't write it on my calendar right away, it may as well not exist.
I am a slob, I always bite off more than I can chew, I am extremely competitive, I worry about every single thing in life, I either care about you 100% or not at all, there is no in between, I hold grudges.
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I suck at housekeeping.
I'm really insecure and always think my husband is going to leave me and that my friends hate me.
I'm too critical of others, which undoubtedly stems from the insecurity.
I'm so impatient.
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Diagnosed PCOS '03, TTC #1 Since March '09
BFP - 10/20/10, M/C - 10/29/10
June 2011 - 50mg Clomid = No O
Dieted and exercised my butt off for PCOS = BFP 5/7/2012
Due 12/29/2012
I am the opposite of this. :P
Lol good things we have friends that look past our faults.
1/12/13 DD was born
4/9/16 DS was born
9/17 CP
6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19
DD #2 - 03.13
Those things arent to bad but when you throw in smoking, drinking, and drugs its no good lol
I expect a lot out of myself and others
I am an introvert in personal life and it comes across as being cold.
Also, I am horrible with names.
Olivia Kate is almost 4!
Diagnosed with autism this year and doing great!
I am addicted to diet coke. May not be a personality flaw but believe me - it is a problem!!!
I judge people most for the things I see in them that I also see in myself and hate about myself.
I'm not a patient person.
I have terrible mom guilt.
DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012
TTC 3rd and final!: IUI #1 in progress!
For realsies though, I'd say that I'm too quiet with people that I don't know. Small talk and getting to know people initially are hard for me.
I speak before I think.
I have no filter.
I hate waiting on people.
The older I get, and now with having a kid, I am more of a worrier and anxious (I had a mini anxiety attack on the ferris wheel)
I am a cancer so I am also hardheaded and sensitive all at the same time. (bless my husband)
I love to hear gossip as well. I don't like to pass it on but I do enjoy hearing it.
I have anxiety issues and that makes for one crazy momma/wife sometimes.
When I want something... I want it right then and there. I obsess about how to get it or achieve it until it happens. Once it happens, I'm on to the next thing. Absolutely hate this about myself.
I am easily addicted to things... for short periods of time. Then onto the next.
Especially with the wanting something right then and there. One day while we were out I decided I wanted one of those bounce houses for DS. Next thing you know we're wasting gas and 2 hours time driving around to 3 different stores to find one in stock because I wasn't going home without it. Sometimes I really do try to be less impulsive but I usually fail.
DD (5 years old) from IUI in 2012
TTC 3rd and final!: IUI #1 in progress!
I am no where near burnt out and fully intend to stay in the crisis field forever and I love it, it just gives you a lot of perspective on what the important things in life are.