Ok, I can't hold back any longer. I love DH but he is on my last nerve. I know I'm hormonal, so I am probably overreacting. I just want him to back off my lady parts! I am so nervous, sick, tired, and uninterested in dtd! He won't stop and almost throws a baby fit if I say no. I don't know what to do! End of rant.
I swear my sex drive hasn't come back from last baby yet but my thing was always to try to give him rules: it must be light outside so I'm not half asleep, and this isn't love making. It's in and out, boom, done. It gets much better once its started but having rules definitely makes it easier.
I agree with @kimbus22, the thought of it is totally unappealing but then once we get going it's actually really good. The only thing I've noticed is that after I O I have to stop immediately. It just feels way too uncomfortable.
I try to hit him up when I feel good so he doesn't bug me when I don't. Like a couple of times this week he was done working outside and getting ready to watch tv. I just told him I feel good right now and I'm not tired so if you wanna. Not romantic I know but my DH is a horn dog so he always wants it. Plus he got really spoiled after I had DD I was so incredibly horny we started having sex like 5 weeks pp and did it at least every other day but usually more. Needless to say he was a little grumpy when my libido went back to normal. But I've had a talk with him too I Don't mind if he asks but I can't stand the whining. If I say no that's it.
Re: Rant on DH...probably tmi