Being a mom of a picky eater, Im wondering if my dd is eating enough each day. She is a peanut so I find that I stress too much about her food. i spoke to the pediatrician about it at her 12 month appointment and she stated it simply---3 meals and 2 healthy snacks a day. But what is a 'meal' for a 13 month old?!
Here is an example of what she is eating each day. Does it seem like too litte?
8am 6oz WCM
9am YoBaby Organic Yogurt and dry cheerios
11am 6 oz WCM
12pm-2pm typical nap at daycare
2pm LUNCH Oatmeal cereal and container of fruit (OR school lunch like grilled cheese sandwich)
3:30 String Cheese as a snack
4:30 6 oz WCM
6:00 DINNER small amount of whatever we are eating plus pouch of fruit/veggies if necessary
8pm 6oz WCM (seems to be elimiating/weening this bottle)
Re: sample menu
thanks everyone!
I think I am going to try and cut down on the milk (16-18 oz total) and increase her breakfast and dinner a little (if she will let me).
The doc did say at her last appoitnment that I could cut down on milk but if she liked it I didn't have to. You guys are right---she is getting yogurt and cheese every day so thats a lot of dairy!!!
Hopefully She's on board with the new plan LOL
Why is this so difficult?
I have always heard that you can't force it, they will eat when they're hungry. I just try to offer a wide variety of foods. If she refuses a meal, I just try again later.
One thing we do is give her a small amount of everything so she can get a variety of foods in a meal. That way, she doesn't fill up on just fruit or just whole grains. So, at breakfast she might have part of a container of yogurt, 1/3 of a banana, and half a pancake. (If I gave her the whole yogurt, banana, and pancake, she'd only eat one and then be missing another "food group.") Lunch might be a bit of shredded chicken, small amounts of 2-3 kinds of vegetables, and half a string cheese. I find we are able to do more variety that way.
I feed him until he's full. There's never a "set" amount and I feel like that takes the pressure off of me (the pressure I put on myself...). I just have a few options for him, put it all on his tray, and when he's done, he either throws it all on the ground or tries to shove it in my mouth.
SCANDAL!
Looking at that thing that Maizey posted, I think he eats more than that.